Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

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are you a virgin?

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Tragi-Chan said:
Fair.


I absolutely agree with this. I'm going to say that basically anyone can get laid, provided they're willing to meet society's basic standards. Just be a fun person, wash regularly, don't dress like a sped, be willing to talk to people and - this is most important - actually make a move. It doesn't matter if you're poor or ugly or fat or shy, if you're a person that others want to hang out with, you can get laid. Speaking as someone who was a fat, nerdy, socially awkward 19-year-old when I lost my V-plates, I can personally testify to this.

1. Be presentable. You don't have to be a Calvin Klein model in a Versace suit, but have decent personal hygiene and clothes that don't make you look hideous.

2. Meet women. Through work, through college, through social activities. 50% of the world's population is female, so this is the easy part.

3. Actually talk to women. I cannot stress this enough. Despite the example of Chris-Chan, there are a lot of guys who think sitting at the side and hoping a woman will take pity on them is the absolute best way to go about things. Women aren't these mysterious creatures lying in wait to bite your head off. Find something to talk about - your interests, her interests, things that just happened, whatever. Don't sperg and avoid contentious issues. A sense of humour is a useful thing to have.

4. And if you're a decent conversationalist, you're basically there.
There's no deep secret, there's no super-special scientific pickup line, it's just about being likeable and not self-absorbed.
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This is probably some of the most practical, simple advice you can give these people, and it has been repeated over and over in this thread, yet they will still argue with you and make excuses about how this doesn't apply to them and is utter bullshit because they are "too shy, too ugly, too autistic".

It's about as bad as arguing politics with people. You are never going to get them to change their mind no matter how much sense you make and how many practical examples you give them. Their minds are made up and nothing you can say to them will make them change that.
 
While losing your V is seen as some kind of right of passage it doesn't stop the fact that even if it's with Mr. or Mrs. right your first time will be awful. Talk to others about their first time and they will tell you there was no spark and it wasn't as romantic as it's made out to be.
There will be lost of shuffling about and changing positions just to get comfortable while doing it also if your a guy don't expect to last as long as a porn star. Another good idea is just do missionary your first time. it's easier for all involved.
 
Anyone who unironically posted to this thread should commit suicide immediately.
 
AnOminous said:
Anyone who unironically posted to this thread should commit suicide immediately.
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That's not helpful at all, instead of being a hater about it you could take the higher ground and say "if there are any ladies here with a virginity problem please refer yourself to 14 Branchland Court, Ruckersville, VA where an ex-professional of the sex industry will tend to your needs". men need not apply

Really, would it hurt so bad to be a little more understanding now and again?!?!
 
If your first time wasn't with four 10/10 Swedish models and you didn't last 3 hours and make one of them pregnant you might as well kill yourself tbh
 
DuskEngine said:
If your first time wasn't with four 10/10 Swedish models and you didn't last 3 hours and make one of them pregnant you might as well kill yourself tbh
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One of them later turned out to be Norwegian, so I consider myself still a virgin.
 
feedtheoctopus said:
I noticed any place where internet trolls congregate always has at least one thread dedicated to virgin whining.

Explains a lot.
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On IMDB of all places, in the comment section for that movie that came out awhile back, I think it was called "The Girl Next Door", there was a comment thread that was literally about 300 pages long full of comments about people who were complaining about losing their virginity at a late age to prostitutes. It took over the whole movie discussion, it just became a support group for guys who were bitching about how no girls/women ever paid attention to them and society shunned them and forced them to resort to paying for sex so they could get rid of the "stigma" of being a "virgin". Imagine this thread x10,000 more self-pity and depression.
 
Coleman Francis said:
On IMDB of all places, in the comment section for that movie that came out awhile back, I think it was called "The Girl Next Door", there was a comment thread that was literally about 300 pages long full of comments about people who were complaining about losing their virginity at a late age to prostitutes. It took over the whole movie discussion, it just became a support group for guys who were bitching about how no girls/women ever paid attention to them and society shunned them and forced them to resort to paying for sex so they could get rid of the "stigma" of being a "virgin". Imagine this thread x10,000 in terms of depressing and self-pity.
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Hell, /r9k/'s been having a never ending virgin thread for the past goddamn 10 years or whatever. I get feeling lonely and wanting to vent, but at a certain point you gotta wonder why these people can't sit back for a second and realize how objectively fucking ridiculous they sound. Like, who the fuck is "shunning" you for not getting laid? Who even KNOWS that!?
 
feedtheoctopus said:
Hell, /r9k/'s been having a never ending virgin thread for the past goddamn 10 years or whatever. I get feeling lonely and wanting to vent, but at a certain point you gotta wonder why these people can't sit back for a second and realize how objectively fucking ridiculous they sound. Like, who the fuck is "shunning" you for not getting laid? Who even KNOWS that!?
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How the fuck did /r9k/ even come into existence in its current form? Everyone hates it, and the only reason that board existed was the experimental bot that would ban you for unoriginal content. Then at some point angry virgins took it over for reasons that elude me and then these vermin spread out across the net and started shit like wizchan.

Seriously dip your dick and get the fuck over it. Fuck these people.
 
AnOminous said:
How the fuck did /r9k/ even come into existence in its current form? Everyone hates it, and the only reason that board existed was the experimental bot that would ban you for unoriginal content. Then at some point angry virgins took it over for reasons that elude me and then these vermin spread out across the net and started shit like wizchan.

Seriously dip your dick and get the fuck over it. Fuck these people.
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Deprived of the ability to effectively meme anons revert to their primal nature: whiny virginal teenagers

The thing that truly surprises me is that part about them spreading all over the place. I see /r9k/ lingo pop up in weird ass places now, and it's obvious these idiots never kept their bullshit to themselves. Then we got stupid bullshit like Gamergate and TRP from the idiots by osmosis. Meanwhile /r9k/ proper has only gotten more and more pathetic and overtly misogynistic to that it's not even fun to laugh at anymore.
 
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