Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

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are you a virgin?

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If you weren't such a mopey weirdo you'd get laid. Get a hobby. Christ.
 
dannyfrickenp said:
I'm sure you're a really "nice guy" too.
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I never said I deserved a boyfriend-free girl age 18 to my age. I don't. I don't want it. I am just explaining to people with no experience why virginity means so much. You don't have to be so hostile to learning things you can't or won't understand. That might be the syphilis though. It fucks up your brain real good.
Pepsi said:
bruh just nut in some cheap hooker lol
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Assuming any post-college virgin wanted sex in the first place, what would that solve? Chris didn't become Carlos Chantor after having sex. he still had the same problems.

You don't get it. The reasons you hate virgins are very different from the reason that virgins hate virginity. If it was just sex, then fucking a whore would change things. It only helps those who are otherwise normal.
meatslab said:
If you weren't such a mopey weirdo you'd get laid. Get a hobby. Christ.
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This is what is wrong. you are putting the cart before the horse. The reason that you care about sex with virgins isn't just because you don't want bad sex. You don't want the type of personality that comes with it. Virgins are usually religious teetotalers. They have few social skills. They will be clingy. You got over that when you were a teenager.
 
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idosometimes said:
I never said I deserved a boyfriend-free girl age 18 to my age. I don't. I don't want it. I am just explaining to people with no experience why virginity means so much. You don't have to be so hostile to learning things you can't or won't understand. That might be the syphilis though. It fucks up your brain real good.

Assuming any post-college virgin wanted sex in the first place, what would that solve? Chris didn't become Carlos Chantor after having sex. he still had the same problems.

You don't get it. The reasons you hate virgins are very different from the reason that virgins hate virginity. If it was just sex, then fucking a whore would change things. It only helps those who are otherwise normal.
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You're right, I do really hate virgins.
 
idosometimes said:
I never said I deserved a boyfriend-free girl age 18 to my age. I don't. I don't want it. I am just explaining to people with no experience why virginity means so much. You don't have to be so hostile to learning things you can't or won't understand. That might be the syphilis though. It fucks up your brain real good.
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Betcha this kind of whining defeatism will fuck you up more.
idosometimes said:
Assuming any post-college virgin wanted sex in the first place
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And damn, do they ever.
You appear to be getting most of your ideas about sex from raunchy teen comedies. Most college co-eds are still exploring their sexuality and are only just beginning to get comfortable with their bodies, if even that.
Now in their mid 20's? That shit is where it gets fun.
idosometimes said:
what would that solve? Chris didn't become Carlos Chantor after having sex. he still had the same problems.
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Yeah, mostly because he's done nothing to fix himself and elected to wallow in self pity all his life.
Funny how that works, huh?
idosometimes said:
You don't get it. The reasons you hate virgins are very different from the reason that virgins hate virginity. If it was just sex, then fucking a whore would change things. It only helps those who are otherwise normal.
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So be more normal.
idosometimes said:
This is what is wrong. you are putting the cart before the horse. The reason that you care about sex with virgins isn't just because you don't want bad sex.
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No, this is entirely the reason you don't want to fuck virgins unless you're planning on keeping them, to say nothing of the emotional fallout.
idosometimes said:
You don't want the type of personality that comes with it. Virgins are usually religious teetotalers. They have few social skills. They will be clingy. You got over that when you were a teenager.
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I've actually found the "perpetual virgins" tend to be bitter misanthropes who spend their time angry at the world rather than trying to be a part of it. The system is broken, the world is corrupt, everything is bullshit, blah blah blah.
For what it's worth, you're right. It's kind of a mess out there. But it can be a fun mess if you're willing to stop worrying about it all the fucking time.
 
Ido said:
So you're gay?
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I find attractive people attractive. I don't want to have sex with them though. Why does everything need sex involved? There is more to life than sex.
Dr. Boe Jangles Esq. said:
Betcha this kind of whining defeatism will fuck you up more.
So be more normal
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be more confadent!
bee urself!
You appear to be getting most of your ideas about sex from raunchy teen comedies.
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if scientific studies are considered raunchy teen comedies. I like math. If I had a magic wishing pyramid like in that movie I would choose better at math over ever having sex.
I've actually found the "perpetual virgins" tend to be bitter misanthropes who spend their time angry at the world rather than trying to be a part of it. The system is broken, the world is corrupt, everything is bullshit, blah blah blah.
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It makes sense that they are. These people are outsiders. They know the world they know.
I really hate the idea it is bitterness to accept reality. One time some peeps told me that I was bitter and a quitter because I was not trying to have sex. Someone will into you eventually! So I shut them by telling them to fuck me then.
 
idosometimes said:
be more confadent!
bee urself!
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I can do that too, motherfucker:
Life is sad!
So hard!
Girls no liek!
idosometimes said:
if scientific studies are considered raunchy teen comedies. I like math. If I had a magic wishing pyramid like in that movie I would choose better at math over ever having sex.
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Well, there's most of your problem right there.
"Understand sex and sexuality with science!" is a classic loveshy move. Life does not perfectly conform to an analytical model, sorry to say.
Try charming girls with voodoo, you'll have about as much luck.
idosometimes said:
It makes sense that they are. These people are outsiders. They know the world they know.
I really hate the idea it is bitterness to accept reality. One time some peeps told me that I was bitter and a quitter because I was not trying to have sex. Someone will into you eventually! So I shut them by telling them to fuck me then.
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Wow, you sure won that argument! So someone tried to help your sorry ass, and you responded by alienating them as quickly as possible.
Gosh, how the fuck are you single?
As for the bitterness, it's not bitter to accept reality. It's bitter to wallow in it and cry about it. You spend so much time being disillusioned with the world and how terrible it is that you forget to enjoy it.
Yes, the world is a terrible, corrupt place run by idiots. But you still have to live in it, so quit your bitching.
 
idosometimes said:
I never said I deserved a boyfriend-free girl age 18 to my age. I don't. I don't want it. I am just explaining to people with no experience why virginity means so much. You don't have to be so hostile to learning things you can't or won't understand. That might be the syphilis though. It fucks up your brain real good.

Assuming any post-college virgin wanted sex in the first place, what would that solve? Chris didn't become Carlos Chantor after having sex. he still had the same problems.

You don't get it. The reasons you hate virgins are very different from the reason that virgins hate virginity. If it was just sex, then fucking a whore would change things. It only helps those who are otherwise normal.

This is what is wrong. you are putting the cart before the horse. The reason that you care about sex with virgins isn't just because you don't want bad sex. You don't want the type of personality that comes with it. Virgins are usually religious teetotalers. They have few social skills. They will be clingy. You got over that when you were a teenager.
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Nobody here hates virgins or even cares if someone is one. They're just joking around. Are you that damn dumb?
 
Nobody said:
Being a virgin is one heck of a thing to juggle in your mind.


The one guy on the first page of the thread mentioning about how losing your virginity won't change your life/mentality for the better... I trust that sentiment, although subconsciously I keep believing the opposite... for some shitty reason.
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Ever thought about paying for some? Just to get over that "place" you are in? I know you think the first time is supposed to be perfect but it never is. If it's so important mentally to you, maybe paying someone will at least take that branding off your soul lol.
 
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I'm a virgin

And you know what? I really do not give a shit.
Being a virgin does not make someone inferior or incapable in any way, shape or form. It just means they haven't had sex before. It's exactly like never having another life experience before, like getting drunk or even breaking a bone (except sex is probably much more fun than that).

I'd hazard a guess that for a lot of people, the "virgin" part isn't really what they're the most insecure about. It's the implications of being a virgin (e.g no social life, autistic, unattractive, etc). Having sex will remove the "virgin" label from you, but it won't address the root cause of these insecurities. You need to actually do something to fix them. And usually the main problem is a lack of friends/social life.

This can be resolved by meeting new people (preferably through a hobby, so you at least share some common interest with these people, which will make social interaction easier). If you're REALLY struggling with making friends, read up on books regarding social interaction, but generally the more you talk to people (and by talking to people I mean IRL, not reddit/4chan/kiwifarms autism speak) the better you become. Don't worry if you act like an autist the first few times, that's normal. Just continue to meet and make friends with new people with confidence until you get the hang of it. If nothing else, at least this is more productive for losing your virginity compared to any kind of whinging or complaining on the internet.

Even being unattractive can be partially resolved through exercising (which will also help you become more confident, which helps with what I said previously).

Once you're truly confident about yourself and aren't insecure about your attractiveness or social life, I don't see why being a virgin would be such a big deal.
 
Hydroxylic Acid said:
I'd hazard a guess that for a lot of people, the "virgin" part isn't really what they're the most insecure about. It's the implications of being a virgin (e.g no social life, autistic, unattractive, etc). Having sex will remove the "virgin" label from you, but it won't address the root cause of these insecurities. You need to actually do something to fix them. And usually the main problem is a lack of friends/social life.
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This is a great understanding of what virginity means to virgins. But then it goes straight off the "normie" cliff.
Even being unattractive can be partially resolved through exercising (which will also help you become more confident, which helps with what I said previously).

Once you're truly confident about yourself and aren't insecure about your attractiveness or social life, I don't see why being a virgin would be such a big deal.
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Confidence doesn't matter. No lady or fella wants an ugly confident person. It is actually more of a turn off than anything else. Fatties calling themselves beautiful and man-dykes calling themselves "lipstick lesbians" doesn't help them with anyone but people looking for the niche. Chasers and feeders want "proud" fat women. I don't know who wants Chris' type.

I was trying to explain before how the total package virginity as mentioned here leads to isolation that isn't rectified by dyel. You will be an ugly fit non-social loser instead of an ugly fat one.
 
Ever notice that the permavirgins whine louder about how they aren't getting any than the Chads crow that they are?

When was the last time you saw a thread devoted to "how much sex I had this weekend" vs "Waaaah, I'm unloved and will never get my dick wet!" You have to search for the former for a bit while you practically trip over the latter while browsing.

And the tone is always the same, Daming their virginity while complaining about how "sex-obsessed" modern culture is to blame? Do tell, but who is the real obsessed party here? Hummm?
 
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