Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

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are you a virgin?

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Splendid Meat Sticks said:
I often feel socially ostracized from my peers when they begin to discuss sex because I preferred to focus on more important things than fucking sluts in high school.
I look forward to studying to be a doctor in med school after I get my nursing degree.
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I often feel socially ostracized from my peers when they begin to discuss college because I preferred to focus on more important things, like fucking sluts in high school.

I look forward to starting my career as a porn god like Donny Long and finding a Thai girlfriend who lets me fuck her on camera after I get my STD checkup.
 
ZeCommissar said:
Lost virginity, got left the next week for a different guy.

Its honestly was pretty fucking awkward and weird, considering I had a time limit at the time before my parents came home.

In other words: You aren't missing out unless you die as one, and you're going to suck ass. Also whatever scenario you have in your head about how your going to fuck someone your first time WONT HAPPEN
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Better to go in with zero expectations.
 
LordAzazel said:
When I pointed out that mathematically the average number of sex partners of heterosexual men and woman by definiton should be same, or heterosexual men are having waaay more sex with other men than heterosexuality would imply, he just claimed mathematics must be wrong. Sure dude. Sure.
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It's always been kind of interesting to me how people handle still being a virgin. There's so much variation from person to person. The most entertaining for me personally are the nice guys, the incels, and the famous lolcows we all laugh at on this site. I've seen this happen more often than not unfortunately irl. Although, I'm glad to see that there's a few classy kiwis in here who have not gone full sperg because they haven't popped there cherry yet.
Still a virgin. I'm not proud or ashamed of it really. For me personally, I've had pretty awesome friends and acquaintances over the years that don't care whether or not I've slept with anyone, and I've never been bothered by it, even if people give me shit about it, which rarely happens.
I've been fortunate enough to have a few girls want to jump my bones before, but I've always declined. I'm more of a talking, hanging out, and go do fun stuff kind of guy. I've only had 2 real crushes in my whole life, but what attracted me those girls was there personalities, their hobbies, and how god dam funny they were, and not in the cow sense. The girls who wanted my D were people I hardly knew, or were girls who I could not have a decent conversation with.
Although a lot of friends say I'm probably asexual, I really don't want to say I am one. Seems like sort of like a cop out to me, and I don't want to feel like a complete hypocrite years later if I actually get into a relationship with a girl I really like and end up having sex with. I guess at the end of the day, I'm only sexually attracted to girls I get to know, and I really dig the kind of person they are.
 
I was a virgin until 18 (think it was 18). I could have lost it at 12, 13, 14, 15 and 16 but did not.

If I had lost my virginity at age 12 I would be the biggest player in the universe now. Instead, because I was rendered ugly in my late teens and did not use my earlier chances to get laid, I developed low self-esteem, poor confidence, insecurity etc. When a man feels very undesirable to the opposite sex while other men around him are not, it can easily cause such issues. So yes, my thoughts on virgins is that they may suffer from mental effects ON TOP OF the obvious feeling of loneliness. You even feel like you don't belong, because everyone else is sexually active, they may even talk about sexual experiences, and you have to fake like you have a clue.

Fortunately, I am beginning to reverse things into my favor more than ever, and with that my confidence, insecurity, and so on, is massively improving. I picked up quite a few women since October, it's actually dirty sleazy behavior and a bad thing (IF you do it for the wrong reasons, if you legitimately are really into the girls and possibly even romantically into them it's okay). None of the girls I slept with really helped me with my confidence, EXCEPT the ones I find legitimately attractive... After sleeping with a really attractive girl I feel a boost in confidence and an unusual sense of relaxation that doesn't feel like anything else.

So I feel that sleeping with women doesn't do much for one's psyche, BUT, sleeping with sexy as fuck hot women does and may change your behavior/personality etc.
 
MrLooks said:
I was a virgin until 18 (think it was 18). I could have lost it at 12, 13, 14, 15 and 16 but did not.

If I had lost my virginity at age 12 I would be the biggest player in the universe now. Instead, because I was rendered ugly in my late teens and did not use my earlier chances to get laid, I developed low self-esteem, poor confidence, insecurity etc. When a man feels very undesirable to the opposite sex while other men around him are not, it can easily cause such issues. So yes, my thoughts on virgins is that they may suffer from mental effects ON TOP OF the obvious feeling of loneliness. You even feel like you don't belong, because everyone else is sexually active, they may even talk about sexual experiences, and you have to fake like you have a clue.

Fortunately, I am beginning to reverse things into my favor more than ever, and with that my confidence, insecurity, and so on, is massively improving. I picked up quite a few women since October, it's actually dirty sleazy behavior and a bad thing (IF you do it for the wrong reasons, if you legitimately are really into the girls and possibly even romantically into them it's okay). None of the girls I slept with really helped me with my confidence, EXCEPT the ones I find legitimately attractive... After sleeping with a really attractive girl I feel a boost in confidence and an unusual sense of relaxation that doesn't feel like anything else.

So I feel that sleeping with women doesn't do much for one's psyche, BUT, sleeping with sexy as fuck hot women does and may change your behavior/personality etc.
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Oh. Ok
 
MrLooks said:
I was a virgin until 18 (think it was 18). I could have lost it at 12, 13, 14, 15 and 16 but did not. Instead, because I was rendered ugly in my late teens and did not use my earlier chances to get laid, I developed low self-esteem, poor confidence, insecurity etc.
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I feel your pain.

I could've lost it at age 7 but CPS cockblocked me

now I'll never know what it's like to be a player during high school bc I didn't use my earlier years to get laid (:_(

if you seriously thought that you could've had anything but embarrassing, awkward sex at ages 12-16 you're retarded lmao
 
I wish I was a virgin bc all the sex I've had so far has been absolute shite, you're not missing out kids. stuff is overhyped

and looking back it's fucked up how early kids start fucking (yeah including high schoolers in this), they're KIDS who can't process what they're doing it's disturbing

lol at the poll is this forum full of incels? if you wanna get laid just go party, go to bars... maybe not if you don't wanna collect stds... get a social hobby maybe, like dancing or something
 
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MrLooks said:
I was a virgin until 18 (think it was 18). I could have lost it at 12, 13, 14, 15 and 16 but did not.

If I had lost my virginity at age 12 I would be the biggest player in the universe now. Instead, because I was rendered ugly in my late teens and did not use my earlier chances to get laid, I developed low self-esteem, poor confidence, insecurity etc. When a man feels very undesirable to the opposite sex while other men around him are not, it can easily cause such issues. So yes, my thoughts on virgins is that they may suffer from mental effects ON TOP OF the obvious feeling of loneliness. You even feel like you don't belong, because everyone else is sexually active, they may even talk about sexual experiences, and you have to fake like you have a clue.

Fortunately, I am beginning to reverse things into my favor more than ever, and with that my confidence, insecurity, and so on, is massively improving. I picked up quite a few women since October, it's actually dirty sleazy behavior and a bad thing (IF you do it for the wrong reasons, if you legitimately are really into the girls and possibly even romantically into them it's okay). None of the girls I slept with really helped me with my confidence, EXCEPT the ones I find legitimately attractive... After sleeping with a really attractive girl I feel a boost in confidence and an unusual sense of relaxation that doesn't feel like anything else.

So I feel that sleeping with women doesn't do much for one's psyche, BUT, sleeping with sexy as fuck hot women does and may change your behavior/personality etc.
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You men are so fucking fragile. Like this post alone makes me want to give up on them forever.

beansntoast said:
lol at the poll is this forum full of incels? if you wanna get laid just go party, go to bars... maybe not if you don't wanna collect stds... get a social hobby maybe, like dancing or something
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Not really. My biggest problem is that I really don't want kids and I'm too young to get my tubes tied.
 
nice said:
I feel your pain.

if you seriously thought that you could've had anything but embarrassing, awkward sex at ages 12-16 you're exceptional lmao
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Now you can have embarrassing, awkward sex at any age! Yeah, yeah. Attractive. Hahaha.
 
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when i was 13 year old a 9 year old girl tounh me by the balls good time man good time
 
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