Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

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are you a virgin?

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I honestly don’t understand why people place so much value on virginity.

I’d imagine most normal people aren’t that picky when it comes to sex.

Really I think it’s only a problem if you make it one.
 
Sex is gross and inspires many to undertake corrupt or manipulative measures to get it.
I don't care about missing out on that.
What I do wish, more than anything, is to have emotional and affectionate closeness.
For some, that comes as a side effect of sexual behaviors,
But I want more than that. Sex isn't for me. Losing myself in her eyes is for me.
 
Sorry for the extra post so shortly after, but I have good news for you 30%. Your virginity can be an ADVANTAGE.

Some women like the idea of being the first to take a man's virginity. As long as you're reasonably young; if you're past college aged, you're probably fucked. I have no idea how to profile for such a woman, and I wouldn't recommend making that your pitch, but find yourself a woman older than you who will find your inexperience cute.

The only problem is that this can only work once, unless you're willing to lie.
 
If you're still a virgin, stop worrying and just live your life. Go find some hobbies or something; sex isn't the end-all, be-all, and as I've grown older, I've felt like it's just stupid to judge people over and stupid to be insecure about. Some women and men enjoy the idea of it, some don't. If it's a breaking point for whoever you're seeing, fuck them.

Being a virgin doesn't mean anything unless you let it affect you. Waiting until you've met the right person/you're in a marriage/whatever is admirable.
 
If I was still a virgin I'd enjoy bulding gunpla more and collecting mechs...Who am I kidding I still love those little robo babies.
Anyways I only dated 4 girls back in HS but broke up with them because my mechs had more personality than them also I just didn't feel sexually attracted to them which they used to talk shit about me throwing rumors how I was gay,small dick etc etc, got giggity with a older chick a few times when I was 17 (she was 24) but she finally got married and ya boi ain't no homewrecker. My Gf of 2 years now has been awesome in the sack also had got me a sick ass Gunbuster fig for my last birthday.

If you find a girl who supports what you like, she a keeper. Moral of the story is virginity shouldn't be viewed as embarrassing thing for a man, so our young kiwis if you prefer waiting for a woman you know will make you nut buckets then by all means keep your purity until then.
 
I have a friend who is a virgin. Oddly, he's way more extroverted than I am, he just puts more weight on it being "special", so he doesn't want to just pick up some thot at a bar or pay a hooker or whatever. He is going on a trip to Japan currently, so everyday I've pestered him on discord to hit up some Japanese MILFs.
 
Marco Fucko said:
I have a friend who is a virgin. Oddly, he's way more extroverted than I am, he just puts more weight on it being "special", so he doesn't want to just pick up some thot at a bar or pay a hooker or whatever. He is going on a trip to Japan currently, so everyday I've pestered him on discord to hit up some Japanese MILFs.
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Why not take a page out of JF’s book and go special needs?
 
Yup, I'm a virgin.

And 29.

It is what it is.

Being a virgin is considered shameful because the idea is you're only a virgin because you "can't" lose it and that's not the case with me, if I really put my mind to it I'm sure it could have, can and hopefully eventually will happen, it's just a matter of time.

I mean I could tell you my life story and it would make sense why it hasn't happened for me yet, but I don't want to power level, I'll just say I have my reasons and it just frankly hasn't been a huge priority for me and I also want the first time to be special, not just a one night stand or a hooker, that shouldn't be that big of a deal, should it?

It's very nasty, obnoxious, a double standard and for the left hypocritical the way virginity is used an insult against men, people's attitude about it just isn't right, the left points the finger and laughs at "incels" (which to be clear, is not at all me, I do not blame anyone or nor am I angry about it) not realizing that very attitude is why there is the "incel" movement in the first place.

But don't get me wrong, yes, I want to lose it, yes I want sex and yes, I want a relationship, I have big plans for my 30s, hopefully it will work out.

Here's a protip for you though, get good at masturbation, for real.

If you think all there is to it is basic jacking off, you've got a lot to learn, I've gotten good enough at it that I've had sessions that would blow your hair back, I'm dead serious about that, it's easy to get a good level of sexual satisfaction if you view masturbation as a healthy, legitimate form of sexual expression, I would still masturbate on occasion even if I was in a sexual relationship.

I think it's better to be a virgin than be reckless with it and create an unwanted pregnancy or get an STD, that's what should be shameful, but no, we live in a world where women are proud to get abortions but men are shamed for virginity, that's a completely ass backwards attitude and frankly evil.
 
Dom Cruise said:
Yup, I'm a virgin.

And 29.

It is what it is.

Being a virgin is considered shameful because the idea is you're only a virgin because you "can't" lose it and that's not the case with me, if I really put my mind to it I'm sure it could have, can and hopefully eventually will happen, it's just a matter of time.

I mean I could tell you my life story and it would make sense why it hasn't happened for me yet, but I don't want to power level, I'll just say I have my reasons and it just frankly hasn't been a huge priority for me and I also want the first time to be special, not just a one night stand or a hooker, that shouldn't be that big of a deal, should it?

It's very nasty, obnoxious, a double standard and for the left hypocritical the way virginity is used an insult against men, people's attitude about it just isn't right, the left points the finger and laughs at "incels" (which to be clear, is not at all me, I do not blame anyone or nor am I angry about it) not realizing that very attitude is why there is the "incel" movement in the first place.

But don't get me wrong, yes, I want to lose it, yes I want sex and yes, I want a relationship, I have big plans for my 30s, hopefully it will work out.

Here's a protip for you though, get good at masturbation, for real.

If you think all there is to it is basic jacking off, you've got a lot to learn, I've gotten good enough at it that I've had sessions that would blow your hair back, I'm dead serious about that, it's easy to get a good level of sexual satisfaction if you view masturbation as a healthy, legitimate form of sexual expression, I would still masturbate on occasion even if I was in a sexual relationship.

I think it's better to be a virgin than be reckless with it and create an unwanted pregnancy or get an STD, that's what should be shameful, but no, we live in a world where women are proud to get abortions but men are shamed for virginity, that's a completely ass backwards attitude and frankly evil.
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no one cares, get a hooker faggot
 
Ughubughughughughughghlug said:
lol at the 30% virgins in this thread
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And the 14% uncomfortable with admitting it.

Heartmoth said:
Sex is gross and inspires many to undertake corrupt or manipulative measures to get it.
I don't care about missing out on that.
What I do wish, more than anything, is to have emotional and affectionate closeness.
For some, that comes as a side effect of sexual behaviors,
But I want more than that. Sex isn't for me. Losing myself in her eyes is for me.
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So you want a sexless relationship? You just called sex gross. I assume you don't masturbate either.
And I think very few people 'undertake corrupt of manipulative measures' to get sex. You either have disgusting friends or you're just assuming while you have zero life experience.

Dom Cruise said:
Yup, I'm a virgin.

And 29.
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The cold reality is that your mounting desperation (It's there whether you realize it is or not) is setting you up for heartbreak with a slut. Your lack of sexual experience speaks to a lack of romantic and even social maturity. No normal woman will want to be with you. People can sense that you're weird or different in other ways. Really the only person that will settle for you in that case would be a weird slut that will cheat on you at any opportunity.

Just get a few hookers. Don't be overly nice to them. Get used to sex so that when you're in a position to have it with a normal girl that you have feelings for, you don't sperg yourself out of the opportunity.
 
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