Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

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are you a virgin?

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Proud Skeptic™ Supporter said:
It has been scientifically proven that virgins are much more likely to be edgy right wingers, prove me wrong.
pro-tip: you can't
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You can't force a leftist (or anyone) to admit they're a virgin. If they do, they write an entire article on why no one should use the word "incel" as an insult on the Chapo Trap House sub-reddit then get downvoted.
 
Jewed Hunter said:
You can't force a leftist (or anyone) to admit they're a virgin. If they do, they write an entire article on why no one should use the word "incel" as an insult on the Chapo Trap House sub-reddit then get downvoted.
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Doesn't dispute any of my FACTUAL SCIENTIFIC PROOF though, huh, tough luck I guess.
 
Jewed Hunter said:
Well, where is it?

EDIT: actually, I know the reasons how you can be right. I'll wait for you to figure that out.
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Ayo hol' up. So you be saying to me that if I were to make a hypothetical claim... then I have to back it up???
Well, sadly, I'm a part of the eBic alt-left neoreactionary squad and my feelings dictate that what I said is the case and guess what bucko... you can't change what I feel like...
Fuckin' moral relatavists they're arguments are always so laughable LMFAO.
 
Proud Skeptic™ Supporter said:
Ayo hol' up. So you be saying to me that if I were to make a hypothetical claim... then I have to back it up???
Well, sadly, I'm a part of the eBic alt-left neoreactionary squad and my feelings dictate that what I said is the case and guess what bucko... you can't change what I feel like...
Fuckin' moral relatavists they're arguments are always so laughable LMFAO.
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I'm not sad, I'm just disappointed.
 
I've had sex but it's been a while. Honestly I'm in no hurry to have it again but part of that might be the meds I'm on.

The way I see it being a virgin is only bad if you're mad about it. If you're a virgin and you're fine with that, good for you! If you're an incel or VIRGIN WITH RAGE then you're an lolcow and you'll probably be an lolcow forever.
 
I'm not in a rush to lose mine tbh, I'd rather have my first time be with someone I actually like than with some random thot. That doesn't stop me from making fun of other virgins though :lol:
 
I think the more self-conscious and angry you are about your virginity, the less likely it is for you to actually get laid.
 
honestly i don't understand why guys get so upset at being a virgin. what is the big accomplishment of fucking? really? our grandparents did it heck their are 7 billion people in the world. i understand if they are a bit akward they should just work on that. if they are REALLY insecure about it why not get an escort where it is legal? or just lie I mean its not like the "fuck police" exist and will "investigate" weather you fucked or not lol.
 
therealchrischan said:
honestly i don't understand why guys get so upset at being a virgin. what is the big accomplishment of fucking? really? our grandparents did it heck their are 7 billion people in the world. i understand if they are a bit akward they should just work on that. if they are REALLY insecure about it why not get an escort where it is legal? or just lie I mean its not like the "fuck police" exist and will "investigate" weather you fucked or not lol.
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I think its more about experience. I mean some of it is about wanting to belong or be loved, but that's not what the anxiety about "you need to lose it by X age" is about. With adult virgins, nobody wants to be their first, especially if it's going to be awkward, bad and maybe not even last long if youre a dude, or something--especially when there are other options on the table and there invariably will be a lot. Most people have a bank of experience so they end up knowing what they want or need and there is a huge pool of candidates, and the other stigma is that virgins are clingy and kind of crazy.

There are people who dont mind, and even people who collect v-cards, but if youre being practical and looking at the real world, that's pretty rare and there's usually other stuff there.

Plus I think a lot of incels bought into that "dont worry about it, be yourself, it will just happen!" thing, and that's why theyre so entitled. As a guy that is the worst advice you could give them because, while girls do approach, Ive been approached by pretty much all of my girlfriends but I kind of follow that "friend->girlfriend" thing. On average if a man doesnt go out there and approach or whatever, at least put out hints or something, he's not gonna get much--nothings going to happen. Hell even if they did put themselves out there theyll probably be turned down a lot, it's not a guarantee. I mean that goes for everybody, but you have women more often complaining about receiving too much attention and being harassed and badgered for sex and shit so theyre super bitter.
 
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DuckSucker said:
I think its more about experience. I mean some of it is about wanting to belong or be loved, but that's not what the anxiety about "you need to lose it by X age" is about. With adult virgins, nobody wants to be their first, especially if it's going to be awkward, bad and maybe not even last long if youre a dude, or something--especially when there are other options on the table and there invariably will be a lot. Most people have a bank of experience so they end up knowing what they want or need and there is a huge pool of candidates, and the other stigma is that virgins are clingy and kind of crazy.

There are people who dont mind, and even people who collect v-cards, but if youre being practical and looking at the real world, that's pretty rare and there's usually other stuff there.

Plus I think a lot of incels bought into that "dont worry about it, be yourself, it will just happen!" thing, and that's why theyre so entitled. As a guy that is the worst advice you could give them because, while girls do approach, Ive been approached by pretty much all of my girlfriends but I kind of follow that "friend->girlfriend" thing. On average if a man doesnt go out there and approach or whatever, at least put out hints or something, he's not gonna get much--nothings going to happen. Hell even if they did put themselves out there theyll probably be turned down a lot, it's not a guarantee. I mean that goes for everybody, but you have women more often complaining about receiving too much attention and being harassed and badgered for sex and shit so theyre super bitter.
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good point but virgin guys don't have to volunteer information to their girlfriends they can just lie. i understand it would be hard to cover their sexual akwardness while in bed but what they could possibly say as a lie is that they went through a bad breakup and are not at their best idk. Then learn for lack of a better word what their partner likes in bed and make an effort to satisfy them. Part of sexual akwardness to an extent is one partner wanting to satisfy themselves but not thinking about what their partner enjoys. however I honestly don't think their potential girlfriends are "undercover fuck police" lol.

but yeah many virgin or incel guys should approach women and not just "expect it to happen"
 
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