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Can't believe no one posted this one yet. Am I falling for bait, or someone's weird fantasy? Comments are correct in pointing out that OP is whipped as hell but offer no realistic advice beyond forcing the poor kid to call him Mommy.
[Archive] My daughter (3) called my wife's boyfriend Dad.
I knew this day would come. My daughter has only known me as Violet. My son (7) still calls me dad. My egg cracked on a Monday, I told my wife that Wednesday and found out she was pregnant with our daughter that Friday. It's been a long road to get here.
My wife and I have not had an intimate relationship in over two years. She and her boyfriend share one room in our house and I have another. My daughter calls my wife mama and me and her boyfriend by our names. My daughter says a lot that she only wants mama, so I've been trying to explain over the past few weeks that I am one of her parents like her mama.
Tonight at bedtime I took it one step further and asked if she knows how most people have a mama and dada. She said she did. So I told her she has a mama and a Violet. I don't recall what I said next but she replied that my wife's boyfriend is her dada. I didn't want to discount the role he plays in raising our kids. I consider him a parent as well. He's lived with us for a bit over a year and she understands that parents share rooms and show affection for each other. So I didn't correct her. I instead told her that her mama and I made her and that I was her parent.
We didn't talk about it after that. I laid with her with her a few, then tucked her in. As I was leaving she said "good night parent." My heart is so full. Having kids has been the most amazing part of my life.
I was wondering if any other trans parents has had a similar experience and how you've managed explaining this to your kids.
For additional context, my wife is protective of the mom title. She, for better or worse, doesn't want our children calling me mom or any variation thereof. So I couldn't just say "you have two mothers." This has been the cause of many heated arguments and I've acquiesced. I would appreciate if none of the replies be critical of this.
Can't believe no one posted this one yet. Am I falling for bait, or someone's weird fantasy? Comments are correct in pointing out that OP is whipped as hell but offer no realistic advice beyond forcing the poor kid to call him Mommy.
Posts like this make me contemplate becoming a couple's therapist. I mean, you'd have your work cut out for you, but it surely has to be the most entertaining job in Clown World 2026.
I like how the thread can't even agree if this is a Polyamory situation or not. Nothing in OP's post suggest that, in fact a careful reading heavily suggests that's not the case. But the idea that someone can be so buckbroken that their ex and their new partner is still living in their house simply doesn't compute, the logical brain refuses to accept it.
My initial suspicion is that this was typed one-handed. If this were posted on a throwaway and the only post on the account, then that'd be my conclusion. But OP's post history seems to check out. Here's OP giving advice to someone else:
There is a connecting thread of OP's ex fundamentally not respecting them, but it really isn't in a "the author is finding it hot" way, it's in a way that's mostly just a bit sad:
Also, here's a face reveal of OP:
Posts like this make me contemplate becoming a couple's therapist. I mean, you'd have your work cut out for you, but it surely has to be the most entertaining job in Clown World 2026.
I like how the thread can't even agree if this is a Polyamory situation or not. Nothing in OP's post suggest that, in fact a careful reading heavily suggests that's not the case. But the idea that someone can be so buckbroken that their ex and their new partner is still living in their house simply doesn't compute, the logical brain refuses to accept it.
My initial suspicion is that this was typed one-handed. If this were posted on a throwaway and the only post on the account, then that'd be my conclusion. But OP's post history seems to check out. Here's OP giving advice to someone else: View attachment 9673215
There is a connecting thread of OP's ex fundamentally not respecting them, but it really isn't in a "the author is finding it hot" way, it's in a way that's mostly just a bit sad: View attachment 9673220 View attachment 9673228
My initial suspicion is that this was typed one-handed. If this were posted on a throwaway and the only post on the account, then that'd be my conclusion. But OP's post history seems to check out.
Posts like this make me contemplate becoming a couple's therapist. I mean, you'd have your work cut out for you, but it surely has to be the most entertaining job in Clown World 2026.
I like how the thread can't even agree if this is a Polyamory situation or not. Nothing in OP's post suggest that, in fact a careful reading heavily suggests that's not the case. But the idea that someone can be so buckbroken that their ex and their new partner is still living in their house simply doesn't compute, the logical brain refuses to accept it.
My initial suspicion is that this was typed one-handed. If this were posted on a throwaway and the only post on the account, then that'd be my conclusion. But OP's post history seems to check out. Here's OP giving advice to someone else: View attachment 9673215
There is a connecting thread of OP's ex fundamentally not respecting them, but it really isn't in a "the author is finding it hot" way, it's in a way that's mostly just a bit sad: View attachment 9673220 View attachment 9673228
Also, here's a face reveal of OP:
This could have been a normal guy, the kind who you drink a few beers with after worth or play some 20 year old game together, a family guy with two kids, just paying off mortgage, getting a new car, working on some safe suburban hobby.
Then suddenly he decides to castrate himself and leave his family, over some degenerate sexual fetish that he has no realistic chance to ever achieve. Its not even just coming out as a big homogay and being a human sponge on the floor of a gay bar. I could almost understand being a huge faggot and wanting to come out but this? He is never going to be a woman, never going to be seen as one, never going to be accepted one, the only ones who he will ever have any social contact with are the degenerate terminally online tranny cultists and their insincere asspatting, He is throwing out everything he has, his entire life for looking like a leering serial killer degenerate sex pest. What does he gain from this? What is the incentive? What is supposed to be the good outcome?
The tranny mind virus is actually insane in how completely it destroys people and how little it offers in return.
My wife and I have not had an intimate relationship in over two years. She and her boyfriend share one room in our house and I have another. My daughter calls my wife mama and me and her boyfriend by our names. My daughter says a lot that she only wants mama, so I've been trying to explain over the past few weeks that I am one of her parents like her mama.
As an influx of a small number of new users trickle in I had a question which was hypothetical based on a thread where someone from reddit had said they had recently joined the site as they loved forums, however I found something interesting in reddits new terms of service as of September 10th 2026
it seems as though they are rolling out more aggressive updates trying to get people to stop automating posts on the site as I assume that people are either complaing about ai users or bots on the site. So evidently I asked chatgpt because I dont want to make a reddit account to check this but it says in this update that they will flag you for breaking Rule 8 if they suspect that you are a bot or automating your reddit account. So I asked and chatgpt said 1 specific user said they were banned for a high volume of posts and it lead me to a subreddit called r/shadowban, I thought it was interesting there was a subreddit specifically for this created in 2011, and Im thinking to myself, thats quite a long years worth of data to see if theres more or less people posting there and as I suspected
this is not unatural as reddit has gained more users overtime as it is a big site so its hard to tell if it really has gotten worse or not, but chatgpt said.
saying every 3.8 minutes theres a new submission
not really sure what this data could mean but its an interesting look at why this site could be seeing more users or why reddit as a buisness could be dying out because they fail to retain new users as their guest features continue to be removed.
it seems as though they are rolling out more aggressive updates trying to get people to stop automating posts on the site as I assume that people are either complaing about ai users or bots on the site.
I mean, it's r/teachers. They will whine incessantly about kids lacking discipline, and motivation and about shitty parents and so on but will bend over backwards to never mention the race of the people with all those issues.
