Ha, I've been thinking of doing the same thing at some point. What's your current idea for a server?
I have zero experience with server hosting, but looking at
this page, some of these providers have discounts + mod support unlike the
dev offerings. I can only assume mod support is available for these unless stated otherwise, but again, idk. Another issue is if we want to do NA or EU hosting.
Lastly, we're gonna have to decide on mods, and sadly, test the fuck out of them. Last server I played on with Medieval Expansion had the waterwheels gimped to 30% efficiency due to some weird mod conflict. It was a really cool mod, but man it was a lot of iron plates and a lot of disappointment.