Culture Why don’t straight men read novels? - Men often read non-fiction books in the name of self-improvement – but many are reluctant to pick up works of fiction

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Dazed (Archive) - July 22, 2024
by, Georgina Elliot

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Alex, 24, thinks reading for pleasure is a waste of time. Instead, he reads to learn about current affairs, maths, and Black history. Similarly, Finn*, 24, has only read one fictional book outside of his childhood. “I don’t really find the time to read, but if I do, it’s usually non-fiction,” he says.

Alex and Finn* both feel compelled to make ‘good’ use of their time – ‘good’ being a capitalist innuendo for ‘productive’. In our increasingly time-poor, grind-obsessed hellscape — 7-9 gym, 9-5 work, and 5-9 side hustle — coming up for air from being a cog and curling up with a novel just because you want to is a borderline sensual pleasure. “Our culture makes a fetish of practical outcomes, and perhaps because the outcomes of fiction-reading don’t patently lead to higher wages, it seems less worthy,” says Suzanne Keen, Professor of English at Scripps College.

Generally speaking, reading is an indulgence that women permit themselves more than men. In 2022, Deloitte predicted boys and men would continue to spend less time reading books and read them less frequently than women and girls. They were right: in 2023, women made up 80 per cent of the book-buying market in the UK, US, and Canada, and accounted for 65 per cent of all fiction purchases in the UK according to Nielson BookData. The bookish man is a rare species. Case in point: 1.2 million people follow the @hotdudesreading Instagram.

Meanwhile, masculinity continues to be in crisis. Men between the ages of 18 and 34 feel the most pressure of any generation to conform to ‘masculine’ behaviours. In the absence of a positive blueprint of how to exist in the post-MeToo world, a community of podcasting ‘manfluencers’, including ex-navy SEALs Jocko Willink and David Goggins and neuroscientist Dr Andrew Hubermann, have rushed in to promote their idea of what masculinity should look like. Self-improvement, ambition, and ‘growth mindsets’ are the banner messaging of this male-coded media world where Andrew Tate reigns supreme and the aim of the game is to optimise every waking moment to become a financially successful ‘sigma’. Doubtless many men enjoy the fact that reading non-fiction gives them an excuse to peacock their newfound knowledge and mansplain their latest read to their next Hinge date, too (bonus points if it’s Capitalist Realism).

This idea of the hyper-capitalist man with no time for something as ‘pointless’ as reading began to take root in the Victorian era. In the 19th century, reading novels developed a reputation as a frivolous and feminised activity as bourgeois women, imprisoned in the private sphere, took up reading bodice-ripping paperbacks as a pastime. Conversely, ‘serious men’ of the public sphere incubated capitalist messaging: any interest in reading had to be justified by practical utility. While for most of British history, men’s literacy rates far outstripped women’s, by 1900 literacy was actually more diffused among women. As author Leah Price put it in her book How to Do Things with Nooks in Victorian Britain: “Once a sign of economic power, reading is now the province of those whose time lacks market value.”

It is a cultural hangover that persists. A “cult of productivity is still imposed more on men than women,” says Dr Alistair Brown, Assistant Professor of Digital Humanities and Modern Literature at Durham University. “[Non-fiction] seems to have more immediate or meaningful returns on the investment of time.” Consequently, men buy more: in 2023, men accounted for 55 per cent of non-fiction book sales, Nielsen BookData tells Dazed.

Today’s problem also has its roots in the gender encampments of childhood. Boys are less likely to have male reading role models and are generally nudged by parents, teachers, and product marketers in the direction of other pastimes, particularly sports. By comparison, girls are encouraged to read and have a model of peer-to-peer engagement through their mums’ book clubs. So, naturally, girls spend more time reading and reading fiction than boys. This is, as ever, an intersectional issue: boys on free school meals read less than anyone else.

By the time their tween years swings around, a line is firmly drawn. Chris*, 21, who has recently completed his second fiction book in ten years, said he stopped reading at the age of 11 despite previously being a fan of fantasy books because he had “better things to do.” Naturally, such a stereotype cannibalises itself and ends up being reflected by the market. Young adult fiction is the near-total domain of the teenage girl — including what is made, marketed, sold, and read.

As we cut off the legs off future readers, “our culture closes off opportunities for boys and men,” says Professor Keen, who is also an expert in narrative empathy. “Consciously or not [we promote] a model of masculinity that is less introspective, less attuned to others, and less contemplative.”

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Could reading stories offer an alternative route through the masculinity crisis? By creating “a safe space for allowing oneself to feel, with no strings attached,” Professor Keen suggests that reading fiction is the diametric opposite of the stale stoicism of the manosphere. It is a form of immersion therapy that demands you be present and forget yourself to a meditative end. You also become “part of a community,” which “helps you build mental companions as a bulwark against loneliness.” Accordingly, there are measurable mental health benefits such as lower stress levels, higher self-esteem, and lower rates of depression.

If men read, it helps society at large. Reading fiction opens your eyes to uncomfortable truths and unexpected perspectives that you may otherwise not have sought out. Books can surprise you by “smuggling in knowledge through the backdoor of an enjoyable and engaging story,” increasing the possibility of critical thinking when encountering the topic again, according to Dr Brown. When you read, you practice perspective-taking, adopting the inner lives of characters as your own and walking around in their shoes – something there isn’t time for with the visual immediacy of other media like film.

Reading fiction ultimately leaves you feeling full up, a stark contrast to self-improvement imperatives that demand you be more than you already are. Carving out time for such a creative pursuit “refreshes the spirit and expands our sense of possibilities,” says Professor Keen. And in case it isn’t obvious, this is a valuable use of time for men too. Men are not inert vessels for potential economic capital that needs to be squeezed out. So instead of retreating further into the hollow temple of productivity, might we suggest a prescribed course of Fourth Wing for all?

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I'm going to take the opportunity to shill the thread: https://kiwifarms.st/threads/what-are-you-reading-right-now.3377/

Unsurprisingly very little of what gets discussed was published in the last few years.

Generally speaking, reading is an indulgence that women permit themselves more than men. In 2022, Deloitte predicted boys and men would continue to spend less time reading books and read them less frequently than women and girls. They were right: in 2023, women made up 80 per cent of the book-buying market in the UK, US, and Canada, and accounted for 65 per cent of all fiction purchases in the UK according to Nielson BookData.
Naturally, such a stereotype cannibalises itself and ends up being reflected by the market. Young adult fiction is the near-total domain of the teenage girl — including what is made, marketed, sold, and read.

So how about publishing books men want to read? This is a supply-side problem, not a demand problem. If books aren't appealing to men, they will play video games instead. There is hardly a shortage of entertainment options out there.
 
Doubtless many men enjoy the fact that reading non-fiction gives them an excuse to peacock their newfound knowledge and mansplain their latest read to their next Hinge date, too (bonus points if it’s Capitalist Realism).
Guys, you shouldn’t be reading information and recalling it, feminists might feel threatened.
Another “it’s not woke to be smart” article for the masses.
 
I read both fiction and non-fiction but I don't think I've read a fictional book written any time after 2005...
 
So how about publishing books men want to read?
I'm an almost 25yo male who reads... mainly the KJV Bible and nonfiction histories. I have read very little fiction as an adult, and those are mainly folktale collections or political fiction (Brave New World) or Christian fiction (The Screwtape Letters). The only odd book out really is my copy of Lewis Carroll's Alice duology.
 
People prefer to read their big 5 personalities. Novels aren't everyone's preference. Personalities change somewhat amongst age, cultures, life stages, traumas, etc. Men and women diverge cross-culturally on neuroticism and agreeableness in which women are higher. These differences we can see lead to women preferring women's fiction, romance, fantasy, journeys, racial, kids, youth; and men preferring self-improvement and sci-fi. Note that unlike women, there aren't any preferences for men who aren't conscientious.

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People will only go beyond their preferences if they have goals that require them to. If you want some goals here's a WIP reading club for How To Read A Book.
 
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i read plenty of novels, but the ones i tend to read are usually at least 50 years old or older. i tend not to waste my time on newer books. there are exceptions, i have read a few more recent things which were good, but most books younger than 50 might as well be thrown right into the trash.
 
Maybe this is a big assumption I've had all my life but aren't most fiction writers straight men? That seems to be the case. I'm not talking about the fantasy porn fodder you see promoted on "booktok" but actual real, serious novels. Some publishers will even recommend female writers pick a gender neutral or male pseudonym.
 
IDK if any male readers here were fans of Michael Crichton, but Doug Preston is making the same kind of male-focused techno thriller novels and I've really been on a tear reading through them lately.
Extinction, the one that (despite everyone in the book complaining about it) is Jurassic Park in the Rockies, but they're de-extincting Wooly Mammoths now, was pretty good.
Even if he totally cheated re: the big twist.
I read a lot of Michael Crichton back in the day. Jurassic Park was great, of course, but I also really enjoyed Sphere. He did historical fiction, too: The Great Train Robbery, Eaters of the Dead, and the posthumously published pirate book. Except for Jurassic Park, skip the movies.

When you read, you practice perspective-taking, adopting the inner lives of characters as your own and walking around in their shoes – something there isn’t time for with the visual immediacy of other media like film.
The modern literary canon is largely built around this idea, that we should read to take on other perspectives that exist in our world. I'm not saying this perspective-building is without merit. I enjoy a bit of it, when I do read.* I also get it from film so I think Brown is wrong on that point, but that's another discussion. My point is, this perspective-taking exercise is usually very boring. I think most male readers, and many female readers, aren't terribly interested in commiserating with average idiots bumbling through the world. We know being poor is sad, we know being unloved hurts, we don't need a novel to give us that perspective on the world. We want new ideas that we could not have conceived ourselves, we want timeless truths to be rediscovered. In high school we had to read stuff like like Wuthering Heights and Their Eyes Were Watching God. What teenage boy, exposed to stuff like that, is going to think, "This is a great hobby, I want to do this in my free time for the rest of my life?"

* Fight Club and American Psycho helped me empathize with the mentally ill. I now have more compassion for violent insane people.
 
Guaranteed when they talk about fiction they mean romance, young adult (particularly the girlboss fantasy variety), or the cookie cutter crime novels that go straight from publication to the bargain bin.

I read a lot, but as others brought up for fiction it's older (<2010) works, indie/self-published sci-fi, or certain fantasy works which get recommended through the grape vine. You want guys to read? Funnily enough they will if you give them stuff they find interesting.
 
fellas, is reading fiction gay?

why else would the author be called phillip k DICK?

seriously though, this could have been retitled "fags publicly signal things they consoom, women most effected"
 
Easy. Most contemporary fiction is just vanity publishing that will quickly be forgotten. Honestly, much of it was never truly worthy of having been printed for mass market at all. Why slog through trash when we already have more than a lifetime's worth of known gems?
 
Men read plenty of fiction actually. Dune, lord of the rings, Phillip Dick, Asimov, etc.

Men don't read modern fiction because 99% of it is badly writen DEI wish fulfilment that suffers from downtown new york syndrome.
 
Because like every other entertainment medium, books fucking suck now. Gone are the days of lord of the rings, or the count of monte cristo, or even gay shit like Harry Potter that was at least fun for kids I suppose. It’s all written by coffee sipping liberal white women in their shitty apartments. Hmm, I wonder why men wouldn’t want to read that and opt for non-fiction instead, that you know, actually educates.
 
I think the last bit of fiction I read was the sequel to the Andromeda Strain called the Andromeda Evolution by Daniel Wilson. It started off good and ended up as a typical action story. I was left thinking it just wasn't that good by the end of it.

I rarely read any fiction, mostly because I think history is far more interesting and anything I could get out of fiction I can get in history. Love, hate, honor, duplicity, heroes, villains, all of it and it really happened so it doesn't feel contrived. I do read a lot of classical literature and mythology. And I read science and math and literature and English Renaissance plays (Shakespeare and his contemporaries).

Basically, I just don't enjoy novels very much.
 
We don't read novels for the same reason we don't paint our nails, wear high heels, or gossip about boys.
 
I read plenty of novels, but hardly any of them have been published in the 21st century. From what I've seen, most novels published in the 21st century are women's romance novels or novels that otherwise cater to affluent white female liberalism. Men are naturally not going to read those.
 
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