Culture Why don’t straight men read novels? - Men often read non-fiction books in the name of self-improvement – but many are reluctant to pick up works of fiction

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Dazed (Archive) - July 22, 2024
by, Georgina Elliot

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Alex, 24, thinks reading for pleasure is a waste of time. Instead, he reads to learn about current affairs, maths, and Black history. Similarly, Finn*, 24, has only read one fictional book outside of his childhood. “I don’t really find the time to read, but if I do, it’s usually non-fiction,” he says.

Alex and Finn* both feel compelled to make ‘good’ use of their time – ‘good’ being a capitalist innuendo for ‘productive’. In our increasingly time-poor, grind-obsessed hellscape — 7-9 gym, 9-5 work, and 5-9 side hustle — coming up for air from being a cog and curling up with a novel just because you want to is a borderline sensual pleasure. “Our culture makes a fetish of practical outcomes, and perhaps because the outcomes of fiction-reading don’t patently lead to higher wages, it seems less worthy,” says Suzanne Keen, Professor of English at Scripps College.

Generally speaking, reading is an indulgence that women permit themselves more than men. In 2022, Deloitte predicted boys and men would continue to spend less time reading books and read them less frequently than women and girls. They were right: in 2023, women made up 80 per cent of the book-buying market in the UK, US, and Canada, and accounted for 65 per cent of all fiction purchases in the UK according to Nielson BookData. The bookish man is a rare species. Case in point: 1.2 million people follow the @hotdudesreading Instagram.

Meanwhile, masculinity continues to be in crisis. Men between the ages of 18 and 34 feel the most pressure of any generation to conform to ‘masculine’ behaviours. In the absence of a positive blueprint of how to exist in the post-MeToo world, a community of podcasting ‘manfluencers’, including ex-navy SEALs Jocko Willink and David Goggins and neuroscientist Dr Andrew Hubermann, have rushed in to promote their idea of what masculinity should look like. Self-improvement, ambition, and ‘growth mindsets’ are the banner messaging of this male-coded media world where Andrew Tate reigns supreme and the aim of the game is to optimise every waking moment to become a financially successful ‘sigma’. Doubtless many men enjoy the fact that reading non-fiction gives them an excuse to peacock their newfound knowledge and mansplain their latest read to their next Hinge date, too (bonus points if it’s Capitalist Realism).

This idea of the hyper-capitalist man with no time for something as ‘pointless’ as reading began to take root in the Victorian era. In the 19th century, reading novels developed a reputation as a frivolous and feminised activity as bourgeois women, imprisoned in the private sphere, took up reading bodice-ripping paperbacks as a pastime. Conversely, ‘serious men’ of the public sphere incubated capitalist messaging: any interest in reading had to be justified by practical utility. While for most of British history, men’s literacy rates far outstripped women’s, by 1900 literacy was actually more diffused among women. As author Leah Price put it in her book How to Do Things with Nooks in Victorian Britain: “Once a sign of economic power, reading is now the province of those whose time lacks market value.”

It is a cultural hangover that persists. A “cult of productivity is still imposed more on men than women,” says Dr Alistair Brown, Assistant Professor of Digital Humanities and Modern Literature at Durham University. “[Non-fiction] seems to have more immediate or meaningful returns on the investment of time.” Consequently, men buy more: in 2023, men accounted for 55 per cent of non-fiction book sales, Nielsen BookData tells Dazed.

Today’s problem also has its roots in the gender encampments of childhood. Boys are less likely to have male reading role models and are generally nudged by parents, teachers, and product marketers in the direction of other pastimes, particularly sports. By comparison, girls are encouraged to read and have a model of peer-to-peer engagement through their mums’ book clubs. So, naturally, girls spend more time reading and reading fiction than boys. This is, as ever, an intersectional issue: boys on free school meals read less than anyone else.

By the time their tween years swings around, a line is firmly drawn. Chris*, 21, who has recently completed his second fiction book in ten years, said he stopped reading at the age of 11 despite previously being a fan of fantasy books because he had “better things to do.” Naturally, such a stereotype cannibalises itself and ends up being reflected by the market. Young adult fiction is the near-total domain of the teenage girl — including what is made, marketed, sold, and read.

As we cut off the legs off future readers, “our culture closes off opportunities for boys and men,” says Professor Keen, who is also an expert in narrative empathy. “Consciously or not [we promote] a model of masculinity that is less introspective, less attuned to others, and less contemplative.”

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Could reading stories offer an alternative route through the masculinity crisis? By creating “a safe space for allowing oneself to feel, with no strings attached,” Professor Keen suggests that reading fiction is the diametric opposite of the stale stoicism of the manosphere. It is a form of immersion therapy that demands you be present and forget yourself to a meditative end. You also become “part of a community,” which “helps you build mental companions as a bulwark against loneliness.” Accordingly, there are measurable mental health benefits such as lower stress levels, higher self-esteem, and lower rates of depression.

If men read, it helps society at large. Reading fiction opens your eyes to uncomfortable truths and unexpected perspectives that you may otherwise not have sought out. Books can surprise you by “smuggling in knowledge through the backdoor of an enjoyable and engaging story,” increasing the possibility of critical thinking when encountering the topic again, according to Dr Brown. When you read, you practice perspective-taking, adopting the inner lives of characters as your own and walking around in their shoes – something there isn’t time for with the visual immediacy of other media like film.

Reading fiction ultimately leaves you feeling full up, a stark contrast to self-improvement imperatives that demand you be more than you already are. Carving out time for such a creative pursuit “refreshes the spirit and expands our sense of possibilities,” says Professor Keen. And in case it isn’t obvious, this is a valuable use of time for men too. Men are not inert vessels for potential economic capital that needs to be squeezed out. So instead of retreating further into the hollow temple of productivity, might we suggest a prescribed course of Fourth Wing for all?

*Name has been changed
 
I imagine there isn't a huge market among straight men for endless pages of butt fucking and trannies.

In general reading is not encouraged from on high because it is harder to manipulate emotions vs. visual or spoken media, and you can't filter it through an intermediary to fit your narrative.

I don't read a lot of novels because I like doing things where I can make up my own stories or develop them myself. Those ones about the guy in Ancient Rome who solves crimes are pretty cool though.
 
Eh? We’ve a houseful of novels, fiction, non fiction etc. half mine, half his.
I don’t think I’d take advice on literature from Andrew Tate.
 
I imagine there isn't a huge market among straight men for endless pages of butt fucking and trannies.
Yeah this sounds like a market issue more than a guy issue. I read novels still as an adult, but none of them are new publications. Books are sort of hard to advertise since it'll take you a day or several to consume a book and determine if you like it, and book reviews inevitably spoil content to be thorough. When a lot of new content that gets advertising isn't really written for men, a lot of guys probably don't go out on a limb to spend quite a few hours only to decide the book stinks.

Self improvement is a lot easier to get into as a guy and I'm pretty sure getting a copy of Meditations is something every dweeb does at 18/19.
 
I'm more into video games for entertainment, but I like novels. I read the LOTR books, several Dune books, Wheel of Time. When I was a kid I read like 10 books in the Redwall series. I'm reading Wizard's First Rule right now.
 
I've read plenty of fiction. Just not vapid trash, which is probably what this glorified blogger favors. Andrew Tate is aggressively idiotic and should be dismissed as such.
 
I'm reading through the novelization of Revenge of the Sith right now. I've always enjoyed books but lately its been more Audible. Highly recommend the novelization to anyone who likes old Star Wars; I know I'm like twenty years LTTP on this but it actually makes you understand how ROTS could've been a kino movie. It's very good.
 
I read a bunch of fiction when I was younger...but I'll grant I've mostly gone back to wells already tapped for that later in life, rather than doing any investment in more recent offerings. Lovecraft is still excellent and I don't even have to buy that to read it.

Plus, more recent offerings clearly aren't for me, so I took a hint.

I should probably try reading that 20 pound tome Nabakov wrote where like 1/3 of the dialog was in untranslated french which caused me to give up on almost immediately when I was like 16, good to tie up loose ends. :story:
 
This idea of the hyper-capitalist man with no time for something as ‘pointless’ as reading began to take root in the Victorian era.
This is nothing new. The Twilight Zone did an episode over 6 decades ago where an adult male is shamed for being a "bookworm" by his boss (and then gets owned by The Universe for it too):

An odd message for a show written by nerdy writers.
 
A number of people -- both guys and gals -- can't picture stuff in their minds in a way that's more vivid than colored smoke.

With me, my mind keeps using mundane modern scenery as backgrounds. Like the interior of a thrift store for the 18th century?
 
There's not a lot worth reading and even if there is you'd have to go through a pretty niche system to hear about it, probably by word of mouth. It doesn't help that most book discussion is female dominated, book clubs are by women for women, book stores are usually run by cat ladies, libraries are for children, etc. Men just don't really talk about books much.
 
Because publishers are all in New England and only publish shitlib authors. Men want to read based classics like The Lord of the Rings and The Last of the Mohicans.
 
Why do headlines like this even get published? You might as well ask why don't normal women play video games.
 
IDK if any male readers here were fans of Michael Crichton, but Doug Preston is making the same kind of male-focused techno thriller novels and I've really been on a tear reading through them lately.
Extinction, the one that (despite everyone in the book complaining about it) is Jurassic Park in the Rockies, but they're de-extincting Wooly Mammoths now, was pretty good.
Even if he totally cheated re: the big twist.
 
By "novels" they presumably mean "crime fiction with female lead #2354141" or "coming-of-age smut #56210". Both are trash and a waste of my time.
 
Well I stopped reading this article before the 3rd paragraph because of how faggy it was leaning, so that possibly answers some of the potential questions.

I prefer a good audio book but they are few and far between.
 
If you read alot you just run out of good stuff to read or the books get hard to find.

The major difference is that woman will read every shit novel you give them while never reading anything good.


I see novels as a waste of time. I only read self-help, “how to” books, or something really meaningful and spiritual and poetic.
Well but some novels are self help...
A Farewll to Arms will help you.
 
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