Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

[Malagor the dank omen]

Uh wut?

Pee pee history???

How many people you fucked. I try to come up with new names even if they sound autistic as fuck

 

[Ido]

How many people you fucked. I try to come up with new names even if they sound autistic as fuck

I mean, you succeeded but pee pee was the best you could come up with?

I dont hand out tumblr links very often but ffs get a little more creative:

Words Used to Describe Genitals

So at one point someone suggested we start a list of words used in fanfiction to describe genitals. After a particularly great Twilight fic was submitted, I decided to start that list, and Im...

wtffanfiction.tumblr.com

Ask a dude how often hes given a girl his Cockness Monster before plz.

 

[Fek]

Nothing I say is gonna convince any of you that sex isn't something worth obsessing over..but it's not.

Said it similarly elsewhere, but it still rings true here. For those of you more in the "virgin but really wanna wanna lay some pipe or sink the salami" camp:

Focus on making yourself into a better version of who you are, and in time the rest is gonna sort itself out. The better you can be at being you, the more confident (and attractive) you'll become (which, incidentally, means more confident/attractive potential partners for you..win-win). And I don't mean just physically attractive, either. I'm not sure how much it's been talked about (forgive me - I'm not reading this whole thing tonight), but having similar mindsets about life really makes the sex that much better.

If you find someone on your wavelength and you really gel together, the sex is gonna happen in every goddamned way you both ever hoped/dreamed of having it (and probably more) in due time. Two people with their shit at least partially together who find each other very attractive are gonna have a much better time than settling.

There's nothing wrong with avoiding succumbing to your base urges and potentially fucking your life up with some psycho who promises she's on the pill (HA) or asshole who promises he'll pull out (or worse) just because you were so obsessed over your virginity. You're just gonna have a hard time accomplishing a better outcome in any real meaningful way if you keep putting the cart in front of the horse, so to speak.

Hopefully that's helpful for at least a few of you.

 

[Philosophy Zombie]

I'm a cultural virgin.

 

[Van Darkholme]

Sex is fine and all and something you can have, but don't really have to. It's also not worth obsessing over (as many others have said), which is something those cringy ass incels will never understand.
Invest your energy into something else if you really can't get any.

 

[Cope or Rope]

Why yes i am an incel how could you tell?

 

[Splendid]

Why yes i am an incel how could you tell?

Prove it.

 

[Ughubughughughughughghlug]

Something that comes up if you’re inexperienced with women (including having had few relationships, not just being a virgin) is that you’ve got less to talk about in a social setting, other people talk about their ex girlfriends and dates and you have to hope nobody’s attention falls on you.

 

[Caesare]

Also, question: my friend is 24 years old, autistic, Asian, and still a virgin, and he feels really hopeless. He is considering an escort because he's worried that a future partner would think it odd he's still a virgin, and he's losing hope he'll ever find a partner. I have advised him to do what feels right to him, but I'm not sure if I took the right approach because I don't know very much about sex workers or losing it to a sex worker. What would you advise him to do?

This is an old post, but did your Asian friend get a prostitute? Did she steal his money?

 

[Cabelaz]

This threads autism levels are OFF the charts

 

[Lord of the Large Pants]

Sex?

I've heard of it.

 

[emptyblu]

The reason why virgins are looked down on is because sex is very important for a stable and fufilling relationship and if you’re boyfriend/girlfriend is awful in bed then you can always replace them with someone who is better at sex and virgins are known for not being good at sex and the number one reason for infidelity and failed relationships is a lack of or a bad sex life.

So yes regardless what you believe you’re sex life is indeed an indication of you’re worth it determines if you’re partner wants to stay with you or not and I can kind of understand why virgins might be insecure since there is a lot of pressure to be a sex god you’re first time and despite trying you’re best sometimes it’s still not good enough and it can hurt a lot when the person you’re attracted to isn’t pleased with you it makes you feel unattractive and worthless.