The weirdest thing to me is always why the hell did the LGB ever bother with the T+. Is it case of overlooking the T's many faults and contradictions with their beliefs about themselves? Or was the guys running the LGB just as degenerate and retarded as the trannies themselves?
I have a friend from college who I've stayed in touch with over the years, a gay man who is generally not supportive of the trans movement, who blames this inclusion on "meddling straight people." While I don't think this assessment is entirely accurate, I do see where he's coming from. Well-meaning but misguided wokies, most of whom are straight "allies," look at all of those groups as oppressed/marginalized, and therefore just sort of chuck them all in the same category. Most of the L's, G's, and B's I know personally couldn't give less of a shit about troons.
The weirdest thing to me is always why the hell did the LGB ever bother with the T+. Is it case of overlooking the T's many faults and contradictions with their beliefs about themselves? Or was the guys running the LGB just as degenerate and retarded as the trannies themselves?
Once homosexuals could marry and adopt, we had equal rights. What was there left to fight for? The LGB advocacy groups should have declared their purpose fulfilled and shuttered, or switched to monitoring actual crimes motivated by actual hate. Instead they took pharma corporate money to force-team LGBTQ together as a shield for TQ+ and agitate for medicalizing children, redefining biology and rewriting reality through legislation.
It wasn't just a profit motive, as atheists and postmodernists have a "what is reality anyway mannnnn" axe to grind, and there's also a deep, demonic pedo undercurrent for expanding the legal ability for children to consent. They couched it all in postmodern jargon and media saturation, coupled with anti-phobic workshops, legislation to force insurance companies to cover transitions (which also means tax dollars to cover transitions in every subsidized or total coverage plans), and they sent talking heads to the news to berate any dissenters, when they allowed dissent on at all. Usually stories would go viral, like KJK's "woman: adult human female" definition billboard in the UK.
Some things to remember:
Anti-TQ homosexuals were censored and deplatformed. Look up the history of the LGB Alliance UK for what homosexuals were doing and saying.
There is no gay community. We don't have chapterhouses or meetings and we don't elect spokesmen. It's a demographic, not a community. Anyone claiming to speak for everyone is self-appointed.
If homosexual marriage and family is truly accepted in society, then our interests are represented by conservatism. They can't admit that or pride parades would be absurd. So everywhere you look homosexuality is the wildest degeneracy you've ever seen. Gay is a counter-culture movement that the rest of the counterculture can't allow to become normalized. They have to keep it counterculture so the frontier was expanded, which is why it meshes so well with intersectionality, "indigenous ways of knowing," all cultures are equal, this small tribe had trannies so trans is legit type shit.
The weirdest thing to me is always why the hell did the LGB ever bother with the T+. Is it case of overlooking the T's many faults and contradictions with their beliefs about themselves? Or was the guys running the LGB just as degenerate and retarded as the trannies themselves?
Money. They got gay marriage done and didn't want to give up the sweet stacks of guilt edged bills that rolled in to fund that campaign. Troons were the next obvious branch to cling to - being marginally more acceptable at the time than pedos.
First an tif is upset she can't use the men's bathroom.
Along with the fact that her boss owns the company so no HR to bully them into playing make believe. She also goes into another building to use the men's bathroom there, pervert.
Swan song: when a theymab dances closer and closer to dressing more like Odette than Siegfried, his nonbinary partner - presumably female, based on how this is written - isn't eager to see him swanning about on the stage of life in dresses, which is leading OP to wonder if it's time to exit stage left on their barely year-old relationship. Not sure why OP's partner is suddenly getting cold feet given that OP was openly degenerate from the get-go, but maybe they're having second thoughts about dating a full-time crossdresser as opposed to a hobbyist? Link | Archive
I guess I should start with, I'm not trans...at least not yet. I'm still heavily closeted but those I care about and to those that truly care about me I identify myself as genderfluid using He/They pronouns, but with a strong desire to be more fem. One of those people is my partner. We've been together for about 8 months now and for the most part it's been going well. When I first met my partner They were cis, but a few months in They realized they were enby. And that's cool with me, I'm pan after all and it honestly didn't change much in our relationship but I fully supported them in their efforts to come out as an enby. So fast forward to today, my partner got a dress while we were thrifting today, for no specific occasion, it was just a cute dress and they bought it. When we were driving home I said how much I liked it and I half jokingly asked if maybe in the summer we could get matching dresses and wear them together. Now it's important to note that while I've never dressed feminine around them before, they knew that I already own feminine clothing, there were pictures of me dressed up in them on my dating profile, and we both cosplay and I've cosplayed female characters before, and when I posted those pictures on my cosplay Instagram, they liked and shared pictures of me while I was dressed up in feminine cosplay. So in my opinion none of this was out of left field.
Now with all this being said, when I asked them about matching dresses, they said in all seriousness: "I'm not sure if I'd be comfortable with you in girls clothes." Them saying that took me by surprise and as much as I wanted to say something I didn't because I didn't want to potentially start an argument.
I'm not really sure how to feel or what I should do next if anything...I think most of me feels betrayed, if that's even the right word, but thos has been eating me up all day. Am I overreacting?
Boyohazardous: in a tale as old as time, a woman doesn't know how to ask the man she shares a toilet with to be a bit more courteous about leaving piss everywhere. Seeing as OP's coworker is aware that she's transgender and doesn't care to respect her stupid he/they pronoun setup, I have to suspect this is a case of subtle trolling; in my opinion, the most masculine form of retaliation would be to leave period blood everywhere and see what happens next. Link | Archive
Every time I go to use the bathroom at work there are drips of pee on the seat. My cis male coworker and I are the only two people working at our branch so I know for a fact that it is him not cleaning up after himself. We have a fine working relationship but we’re not friends by any means. How the heck do I even bring this up? Do I even bring it up in the first place? I’d rather not be cleaning up after him day after day but like, I don’t wanna make it weird help!
Edit: a bit more context, He knows that im trans and in the over a year that we’ve worked together he has misgendered me as she/her more often than using the correct pronouns. i use he/they pronouns (I’ve only ever had those pronouns as long as he’s known me) and im basically 99% cis passing so there is literally no reason for him to be misgendering me other than the fact that he knows that im trans. I had to sit him down a couple months ago and told him that he needed to figure it out and since then he’s been better but still messes up (although yesterday he did correct himself with prompting). All that to say, there’s also a weird angle of like transphobia? Or just like disrespect? Idk, that just adds an extra angle of uncomfortable for me to any interaction that is anything other than strictly work related.
After years of pumping himself full of girlyjuice, a TiM's bosom still fails to fill any bodice, which he reports is "agonizing" and makes him "so angry." For some hilarious reason, he's under the impression that a huge set of headlights on his ample frame will "balance" his "way [to] big body," but I believe that his desire to enjoy real-life jiggle physics is the true reason for his despair. The real comedy here, however, is this isn't OP's first time in the Ls thread - which makes me think we may be seeing more of him in the future. So for funzies, take a look at this hottie with a less-than-stellar body and imagine him as he longs to be, with colossal mammaries that could knock out pro-wrestlers. Last Post (Story 2) Link | Archive
Two years! Two years I'm waiting any change. I do everything on the book, checking my oestro level, raising oestrogel check, changing my regimen for more proteined check, doing sport checkI do everything and nothing my buds are still the buds I've got two years ago and still the moobs I've got before.
I'm so sad and angry about it. Hrt does already nothing on me but the fact I don't even have breast growths even a little is agonizing.
It's even worse when I see people showing their progress and telling "ooohh Hrt is magic, I just eat shit and BAM, C cup) So tired of this, so angry, I want to have boobs, I NEED to have boobs to balance my way to big body (>6 feet with huge feet and huge calves and huge shoulder). I want them to jiggle when I move, to put outfit who show them, to have my lover playing with them (If I had one)
So tired of waiting for nothing be careful people Ymmv T_T
At barely 20 years old, a troon's liver is already shot to hell and back, but he has his priorities straightened out because what he really cares about is not being "gatekept" by a "fuckass doctor" who might insist he do something crazy and retarded like, say, not guzzle hot lard every five seconds. While other MTFs in the comments implore our young hero to take better care of himself, all he sees is a ticking hourglass: "I need to transition before 25 so I can pass. Time is running out for me," he writes desperately. "I would rather the estrogen kill me then live like this." Maybe it's time to start eating more girl dinners, king! Link | Archive
I have high cholesterol and fatty liver. And my mother thinks I have cirrhosis since I keep throwing up. Will I still be able to transition. I don't want to get gatekept by a fuckass doctor. I am going to informed consent next month. Will I still be able to transition or is it over and I have no shot and should give up on transitioning?
A FTM writer who over-invests in male characters - to the point of allegedly being "unable" to write erotica featuring women due to her own ignorance about female anatomy - feels conflicted about her gender identity and whether she can count herself as legitimately transgender or not. I like the part where she seems under the impression that she writes male-on-male sex with any form of accuracy; call it a hunch, but I have a feeling if she was checked out of biology classes to the extent she claims she was, she may be writing men with far wetter assholes than they naturally tend to have... Link | Archive
Despite having biology classes and learning all about birds and bees, I always felt like none of it concerned me. I am afab but after years of self reflection I realized I never felt connected to my gender. I just WAS most of the time.
At some point I developed a crush on someone, that's what I thought it was. In reality I was just envious of how they expressed themselves while being afab just like me. I cut my hair like them and got into more masculine style.
Most importantly I picked up my hobby and started writing. Guess what, all of my main characters were and still are men! Because I have no idea how to write a female character, I find it hard to make them believable, alive. That's a whole different conversation though.
Shit's funny but I tried to write smut just a while ago and found myself knowing fuck all about women's anatomy, while writing about men's causes me no difficulties. Because my own equipment just casually sits there and I don't ever use the front.
While, with time, I went back to dressing super feminine (dresses, heels, heavy make up) I also never felt quite a woman. It was almost like I was just playing dress up, because that was the only way I knew how to "glow up".
For about five years now I've been thinking I may just be a dude, that's why it never felt completely right. I leaned back towards masculine stuff and I definitely feel much better and much more me. But, hell, there's tomboys! No one said women can't wear masculine clothes, like "masculine" hobbies etc.
Then, I also still haven't given up on beauty. I don't dress up anymore because I don't know how. Dresses, skirts, anything feminine makes me uncomfortable. While I think men look incredible in women's blouses, I feel like I can't enjoy it without seeing myself as woman. I wish I could be pretty the way men are, at least much more androgynous than I am now.
There's many things that make me question, wonder. I had a pretty groundbreaking thought once: "was I amab I would still feel the same urge to be a creature of the night, cryptid like, experiencing the same disconnet from my body". Because sometimes I just sit and think that's what I am, nothing but some genderless creature. But I would be much happier being such creature with amab body, flat chest.
It's all too much to take and I've been going back and forth with myself for the past two years or so. Maybe even longer. Telling myself that I'm faking, confused, hell, even mentally unwell. Because top surgery and a voice change would be enough for me. I wouldn't mind being a pretty boy, maybe I would even prefer that. God forbid a trans man wants to be good looking and not bend to cis beauty standards. But then! "It's because you aren't a man, you just want to look like your favorite anime twink!" "You're just fetishizing!" And it's getting to me, making me question my whole existence. Even when I'm hairy like a bear and wouldn't mind getting hair in other places, I still fall for it. I'm sorry I can't do anything about my height anymore and don't want to cut my hair.
It's terrifying to think "what if they are right, what if I'm faking it?" If I liked women I probably wouldn't have such a dilemma. I wish I liked women but dating them never felt right. I wish I liked the last woman I dated and stayed by her side for the rest of my life. But as much as I wanted a happy ending, I never loved her more than a friend would.
Fuck this attraction to men, fuck whoever denied me a dick in the womb and fuck being a person in the first place.
So as the title suggests: I have some really nice coworkers that like to joke around a lot, most of them are female and as a result, some of these jokes are jabs at masculinity. These would then often be targeted at me as the “guy” in the office.The jokes are pretty reasonable, joking about stereotypical man behaviour and “girl power”. Recently my egg cracked and I realised I really want to be a woman, these jokes now make me kind of uncomfortable because they’re placing me in a box that I’m trying to escape from. I feel like the only way to stop this would be to come out to them but i still look very masculine and don’t feel comfortable being out at work.
Lastly, a dood grieves over the fact that testosterone abuse has left her face free of fuzz, which she believes is the key to passing sucessfully as a real boy. Don't worry, OP - maybe if you keep praying to Aphrodite like we're somehow still in the stone ages, she'll give you a lush and beautiful beard for being such a devoted little disciple! Can't hurt, right? Link | Archive
TLDR: i passed SO much better when i was pre t + a few years younger. it was easy for others to believe a teen boy was behind on puberty. at 25 it’s not believable. i have no facial hair and i 100% believe its the one thing holding me back.
i’m 25, been on t 2 years with normal levels, my style isn’t fem, 2 yrs post op top. i feel like i cant even call myself stealth anymore when i get clocked ALL THE TIME. today at work i was explaining to a coworker that there was an issue going along with the plan for today bc [redacted] can’t be in a room with men present (aka me). she asked me if it was bc im a man or bc im trans . i haven’t told her im trans. i heard from a work friend that i did decide to come out to that it was a hot topic when i first started. like i was ALWAYS referred to as a man but ppl were gossiping if i was born a man or not. one of my coworkers just thinks im a big fat liar bc she was asking invasive questions on how my daughter was conceived (im openly gay) and i had to come up with shit on the fly so it probably didn’t make much sense + she forsure heard others talking abt me. i really don’t see an issue with someone lying about what parts they have. which is a hot topic outside of work too w my husbands friends. like no i don’t technically have a penis but that’s what i call my clit and it LOOKS like a penis anyways so what does it matter if i can’t urinate out of it?? what good is that info to u??? i feel so defeated. i’m already on t with good levels. what the FUCK am i supposed to do now? like there’s nothing i can even change at this point. i wear plain masc clothes, piercings are hidden at work, hair is a natural color and always wear a beanie so it’s not the cut, no jewelry. i’m so sad
A reply from the pooner upthread going to another building to use the men's dunny:
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Finding work is just going to be harder for us. I’m so sorry this is happening. I woulda told that guy he was gay for talking to me in the men’s restroom and if he tried to say anything else I’d start with the other dudes and be like yeah dude this guy is so obsessed with me lmao I think he’s into boys.
Straight to homophobia for these trannies, isn't it? Just accuse someone of being gay like it's shameful.
At some point I developed a crush on someone, that's what I thought it was. In reality I was just envious of how they expressed themselves while being afab just like me. I cut my hair like them and got into more masculine style.
I've just seen the term described essentially to describe non-binary people who don't take hormones but it doesn't make any sense to me because if you're nonbinary you literally aren't cis..
And yes it is other trans people trying to call some of us that
But this is not the consensus.
There is no consensus really, though no particular contention either.
Not in 99 autistic rule lawyering comments so far.
I may be falling into the cis-normative pitfall of expecting words to have meanings.
Looks like I have to modify my earlier dictum that "cis" == normal.
It still can mean that (depending on context), but ...
New definition:
"cis" == not chemically castrated or sexually mutilated (modulo circumcision I suppose).
Top comment seems to bear this out
But this is not the consensus.
There is no consensus really, though no particular contention either.
Not in 99 autistic rule lawyering comments so far.
I may be falling into the cis-normative pitfall of expecting words to have meanings.
Looks like I have to modify my earlier dictum that "cis" == normal.
It still can mean that (depending on context), but ...
New definition:
"cis" == not chemically castrated or sexually mutilated (modulo circumcision I suppose).
Top comment seems to bear this out
But this is not the consensus.
There is no consensus really, though no particular contention either.
Not in 99 autistic rule lawyering comments so far.
I may be falling into the cis-normative pitfall of expecting words to have meanings.
You could party so hard with a gay hockey team and never, ever get raped. Just go full Bluto and live for the present. Drink your favourite player's jersey number in shots while gazing deeply into his rapidly-yellowing-sclera. Wake up the next morning knowing that none of you, not one, can remember a single thing that happened last night or where any of you left your passports. There's just a level of shared hangover that you could never have in a straight kegger, and that sort of complete and utter renal surrender is naturally appealing to women.
"hey retard, quit spraying piss all over the toilet seat, you're gonna give everyone AIDS because you have AIDS that you caught from all the homeless guys that fuck you in the ass on lunch break, fatass."
idk "recently shaven" to me sounds more like something you'd say about a llama that was sheared four weeks ago. "Clean-shaven" communicates "I do this every day or nearly so as part of a grooming routine."
Does this count as thread tax? SoulsBorne YT data miner Zullie the Witch posted his first video where he actually talks, and he chose as fucking V-Tuber Thirst Trap bat girl and has a faggot tranny lispy voice so embarrassing you'd think it was done for laughs if it wasn't totally co-ordinated with the hot gothic bat girl puppet thing. https://youtube.com/watch?v=LYM1dmXp9Zs
Almost certainly trans. E-begged for money for medical bills last year, later explained as 'reconstructive throat surgery' (hence the weird tranny throat corset thing in his avatar). Definitely sounds like trans post vocal surgery to me.
It's funny because of all the comments I saw online complaining about how nobody believes anyone with that autistic a gamer focus is going to actually be a woman. They were all up in arms that people were doubting this person was female.
If homosexual marriage and family is truly accepted in society, then our interests are represented by conservatism. They can't admit that or pride parades would be absurd. So everywhere you look homosexuality is the wildest degeneracy you've ever seen. Gay is a counter-culture movement that the rest of the counterculture can't allow to become normalized.
People who use "queer" as a verb in academia come right out and admit this when they talk about Queer Theory, which encompasses spicy straights but not gays who choose to be boring adults. Quoting myself because every time I try to type this out I get dumber:
Most semi-hip people reading or hearing "queer" assume it means "gay et al, you know those guys." A shortcut for the growing initialism, an umbrella term for anyone non "cishet" in the context of activism or discrimination. Sometimes the people saying or writing "queer" mean it that way, too, but sometimes they mean "queer" as in "Queer Theory." (Sometimes the same people mean it both ways at different times; there's a difference between the fundraiser and the mission statement.)
Queer theory is the dedication to breaking down existing systems, since they're all designed by capitalism to create and control more worker-slaves. Therefore any boring gays who want to get married and be each other's next of kin aren't queer; you have to be against the state and the status quo.
What's most important is that there's no quick, easy, sane-appearing way to ask someone to clarify what kind of "queer" they're using.
help!
. i haven’t told her im trans. i heard from a work friend that i did decide to come out to that it was a hot topic when i first started. like i was ALWAYS referred to as a man but ppl were gossiping if i was born a man or not. one of my coworkers just thinks im a big fat liar bc she was asking invasive questions on how my daughter was conceived (im openly gay) and i had to come up with shit on the fly so it probably didn’t make much sense + she forsure heard others talking abt me. i really don’t see an issue with someone lying about what parts they have. which is a hot topic outside of work too w my husbands friends. like no i don’t technically have a penis but that’s what i call my clit and it LOOKS like a penis anyways so what does it matter if i can’t urinate out of it?? what good is that info to u???
