Probably should just stick to commander. FNM at the local game shop, in my experience, is full of try-hards with netdecks.
The M:tG that I miss was when we just all entirely ignored charting at the hospital to fight each other with goblins. Commander does somewhat recreate that experience.
Or just build a deck that fucks up the meta decks / learn how to beat each of them. I've seen this kid at my local FNM running the janky infinite combo and get people with Mistcutter Hydra on a few occasions, in Modern. Mind you it was because they had no idea what his plan was he just kinda would get the drop on you if you weren't aware of what he was up to. It reminded me a bit of the Amulet Titan deck but just a very budget version of it.
All else fails do the closest you can to a burn deck and you'll probably go 2-2 at least.
I think the problem you have
@eternal dog mongler is you might have had the wrong expectation of what FNM is. It's pretty much casual training for bigger tournaments/trying out ideas and such, which is why you tend to see a lot of the netdecks and a bit of try-hards. Thing is, least at my store, most of those guys/gals will be more than willing to give you advice about stuff after the match is over. You're probably going to lose, and lose a lot but it's pretty easy to tell who'll be helpful and who's a prick.
Now, if you don't have the cards you want because they are pricey and stuff, find a place you like the vibe of and make a few friends. Most the other players where I'm from will loan you stuff if you ask for the night or whatever as well. Just don't be rough with their cards and stuff.
I might just have a nice LGS though, I only really play Modern, a tiny bit of Legacy when there is a chance, and Limited so I'm probably not much help for Standard stuff.
There is a
MTG thread in games a bit more devoted to this type of talk I'd direct both of you to as well.