I know at my table that if someone tries to rules-lawyer the DM on something pedantic or that isn't based on a fundamental confusion or misunderstanding that everyone benefits from clarity on... be prepared to get slapped the fuck down. The DM's word is law and no one challenges it because he's been running these games forever and knows his shit and no one would try to seriously trump him with some new rule alteration without finding out they're no longer welcome.
We've been very fortunate that every game and group we've played with is full of fun, creative, and generally well-adjusted people that aren't there to shove fetishes and politics down peoples' throats and the DM is there to facilitate that experience.
I can see
@Ghostse 's point though about trying to find new players or going into a fresh group that's been raised on newer stuff and the problems that can arise, especially as time drags on and Retards of the Coast continue to hamfistedly fuck with D&D for the sake of twitter asspats and slowly shift what is considered "normal".