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If anyone has any recs, I am looking for a pencil (!!!) eyeliner that is insanely smudge-proof, yet still blendable. My eyes are hooded (like Lawrence's, example attached), and I've still not found a pencil liner that wouldn't transfer. I'm currently using the NYX slim eye pencil (it's not good, just found it in a good color), and am not interested in various extra products like setting sprays and so on, since I don't use anything else.

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I use Essence waterproof Longlasting Eye Pencil, it lasts all day and it's like two bucks. its crayon, though, not pencil. No transfer, though it has a blue undertone when smudged out, so if you are doing a Smokey eye, be aware of that before buying lol.
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my favorite brush eyeliner is Nyx Liner, but I like doing Smokey eyes instead of liner these days. I like pot gel waterproof liner for that, more bang for your buck.
 
I use Essence waterproof Longlasting Eye Pencil, it lasts all day and it's like two bucks. its crayon, though, not pencil. No transfer, though it has a blue undertone when smudged out, so if you are doing a Smokey eye, be aware of that before buying lol.
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my favorite brush eyeliner is Nyx Liner, but I like doing Smokey eyes instead of liner these days. I like pot gel waterproof liner for that, more bang for your buck.
Thank you, I'm willing to try them out. Maybe the convenience of a sharpened pencil liner could be offset by a sharp angled brush. I generally do a relatively sharp wing and blend it inward so that I don't have to deal with eyeshadows, which are a fucking hassle with very hooded eyes.
 
could be offset by a sharp angled brush.
Yeah, that's how I used to do it when I did liner with it instead of brush ink liner. The angled brush works perfect. I don't have hooded eyes but my mom does and she used to do it that way, too, so it could work!


brushes are honestly super important. Even the cheapest brush will be the key for a good look, just makes it so so easy, and you don't really need a huge variety either. That sounds silly to say but other products (cream shadows and cream products in general, shadows, cream products in IMO) work fine with fingertips, so...
 
Anyone have a pore minimising matte primer recommendation? I've been using E.l.f. and it does a decent job making my skin look smooth, but I'm not keen on the scent. (Using just primer, no foundation, as I've finally managed to get my skin tone even.🥳)
Unscented, or just something that smells good? I use the marshmellow primer from Nyx. It smells like candy, but it's not something extremely strong. It also has a very nice and soft texture, almost like whipped cream.
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If anyone has any recs, I am looking for a pencil (!!!) eyeliner that is insanely smudge-proof, yet still blendable. My eyes are hooded (like Lawrence's, example attached), and I've still not found a pencil liner that wouldn't transfer. I'm currently using the NYX slim eye pencil (it's not good, just found it in a good color), and am not interested in various extra products like setting sprays and so on, since I don't use anything else.

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Try Maybelline's tattoo liners. They have a very smooth texture when they're freshly applied, are seriously resistant to everything when they fully dry (you have to rub HARD to get them to smudge), and they're super pigmented. It's gel pencil so I don't know if that's something that gets them disqualified, but they're cheap and the color stays where I put it for the whole day.
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I use the marshmellow primer from Nyx
I also use a NYX primer! But I use the yellow one. I was debating on yours as well, because those two seem to be loved by many people.
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it Is the only primer I own or have ever used, so I have nothing to compare it with, but I do notice a big difference in the feel, look and wear of makeup with it on.

I very rarely wear skin complexion products, though, so what I swear by is not primer but setting spray. Keeps eyeshadow on ALL day and allows you to be able to rub your eyes or whatever without it becoming a smudgy mess. I have only tried this NYX one so I dont know how well it compares with others, but it's definitely miles better than nothing.
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I used to think setting spray was just a marketing ploy, but it has become an absolute essential for me.
(The electrolytes thing is probably absolute bogus, honestly. I just got it because of the finish.)
 
i've been having a nightmare finding some cute long skirts and cardigans anywhere - as we're going into the winter months i hardly have any cute outfits to wear around campus that are practical - if anyone has any inspo or links (pref available in the uk) i'd be massively indebted to you all <3
For long skirts - I have one of these wool swing skirts and would highly recommend.

Not sure about cardigans though, every cardigan I get these days seems to pill super easily. You may have better luck thrifting or getting something from poshmark.
 
Unscented would be ideal as my skin is rather sensitive. Although I've never had foundation sting, so perhaps I shouldn't worry too much about primer either?

Using this and it's kinda stinky lol
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Well my skin is extremely sensitive (rosacea...) and the marshmellow primer hasn't given me breakouts or irritation. I think it also has something calming in the formula because it tones down the redness a bit.
 
So... My hair is finally more white than brown. Every new hair is pretty much white, at this point. The problem I'm having is with finally being able to grow it out (since I'm not currently working in a kitchen). My hair has developed a new waviness, which I kind of like, but it is also frizzy(?) as fuck. I currently have a cheekbone length blunt bob cut. I've never spent time on hair maintenance, due to not giving a damn about it. Is there any way to mitigate the frizz without sacrificing these new-found waves that I kind of like? My scalp is combination(?)
 
I work in a perfume store, and I had to do one of those online training courses they give us. Except, instead of being your standard training, it was all about the best way to sell Willow Smith's "Alien Goddess" fragrance, including a special and unique way to hold the bottle when spritzing customer's at the front door. It's a claw position, in case you were wondering. And no, I haven't seen anyone do it. Not in my store, not in any store.

On top of that, most of the questions outlined in the actual training module were along the lines of "What keywords come to mind when thinking of Mugler's Alien Goddess line of fragrances?" Fierce? Correct. Fantasy? Correct. Solar? No, idiot. NEVER solar.

Really bizarre, and made me even more bitter about how cosmetic companies market themselves. I've started seeing concealer marketed as Y2K. How long before they start marketing cottage-core cosmetics?
 
On top of that, most of the questions outlined in the actual training module were along the lines of "What keywords come to mind when thinking of Mugler's Alien Goddess line of fragrances?" Fierce? Correct. Fantasy? Correct. Solar? No, idiot. NEVER solar.
Friend of mine worked at a hippie-dippie retail store once. Part of the orientation involved the corporate dronos saying "we practice what we call Nomadic Selling. What does "nomadic" mean to you?"

The actual definition of a nomadic person was not what they wanted.

I forget what their answer actually was, but it was the weirdest Gen Xillennial marketing slosh. My friend didn't last very long there... under the good-vibes hippie-dippie patchouli-scented facade, it was just your average shitty retail job.

The people who come up with this shit are just so far detached from how normal people think.

Also, some drag queen apparently has an actual eyeshadow palette called Cottagecore. It's not cottagecore at all, and looks exactly like something you'd buy from Limited Too in the 2000s.
 
Is there any way to mitigate the frizz without sacrificing these new-found waves that I kind of like?
Ready for correction, but I've found I like the spray-on hair oils for frizz, anything calling itself "weightless mist." It takes some self-restraint to only do a couple of sprays, because the goal isn't to saturate or brush in.

Congratulations on achieving white hair! I think it always looks nicer natural than dyed; you earned that gravitas, dammit.
 
So... My hair is finally more white than brown. Every new hair is pretty much white, at this point. The problem I'm having is with finally being able to grow it out (since I'm not currently working in a kitchen). My hair has developed a new waviness, which I kind of like, but it is also frizzy(?) as fuck. I currently have a cheekbone length blunt bob cut. I've never spent time on hair maintenance, due to not giving a damn about it. Is there any way to mitigate the frizz without sacrificing these new-found waves that I kind of like? My scalp is combination(?)
Try switching over to sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner that target frizz, and add a lightweight leave-in conditioner. L'Oreal Everpure Frizz-Defy shampoo/conditioner and the 2-in-1 spray come to mind as price friendly options.
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So... My hair is finally more white than brown. Every new hair is pretty much white, at this point. The problem I'm having is with finally being able to grow it out (since I'm not currently working in a kitchen). My hair has developed a new waviness, which I kind of like, but it is also frizzy(?) as fuck. I currently have a cheekbone length blunt bob cut. I've never spent time on hair maintenance, due to not giving a damn about it. Is there any way to mitigate the frizz without sacrificing these new-found waves that I kind of like? My scalp is combination(?)
Your hair can definitely change textures with age/hormonal changes/stress. My straight hair went to wavy during puberty and now loose curls as an adult. Leave-in sprays with some sort of hold are good for waves, cantu is a usual go-to for me for styling but for general conditioning I stick with palmers, either the coconut oil or olive oil leave-in sprays. If you have thicker hair, I'd definitely recommend the leave-in cream though. Back when I had a bob, it was the only thing that defined my mix of waves and curls well without making my hair greasy and I can't remember it ever being frizzy when using it.

As for some sort of routine, I typically use whatever conditioner in the shower too and leave it in until I'm about to get out, then rinse it with colder water to help minimize frizz. Quick (but gentle) towel dry to keep the hair damp, put in the leave-in, and then scrunch it up and let it air dry. You don't need to do the whole "curly girl" routine of dunking your head in a bowl and satin bonnets.
 
As for some sort of routine, I typically use whatever conditioner in the shower too and leave it in until I'm about to get out, then rinse it with colder water to help minimize frizz.
What's helped me is putting a hair mask on my mids to ends (dry) and leaving it for several hours (if I'm hanging around inside) and then washing it off in the shower.
satin bonnets.
Also SILK BONNETS AT NIGHT! I cannot recommend them enough. They have made my hair 100x easier to deal with. But make sure they are silk and not an imitation; silk reduces friction considerably better and it is way more breathable, which our scalps need.
 
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You also need vitamin C to synthesise collagen, so eat meat, including the skin on chicken etc , and your fruit and veg. im seeing women I know who are my age who have been vegetarian or vegan for twenty years and they look so so old. Thin yes, but twenty years older than they should. Eat MEAT. Or fish, whatever. But animal protein. It’s a truism but there’s a point you choose between your face and your arse .

Wanted: a heat protector for hair that does NOT contain siloxane type chemicals. Any ideas? This side of the pond (the poor side.)

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This suit Melania is wearing in this post. Where’s it from? I must have it. Or I must have a few very decent photos of it so I can replicate it
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At his current rate of growth, scientists project that Barron Trump will be 9'8 by the end of Trump's second term.
Apologies for tagging you in the lady boards , Schwarzwald, it was just the easiest way to shove the picture in.
 
The Telegraph says it's a "grey double-breasted tweed Christian Dior suit, comprised of the house’s classic Bar jacket and a neat knee-length pencil skirt."
Thanking you kindly. I imagine that’s well out of my budget. It is lovely though!
There will be knockoff patterns, it’s very New Look isn’t it? I think my Christmas sewing project may require some Harris tweed in grey
ETA: it looks more like the marlène jacket.
https://archive.is/OCfg9 (still running, give it a mo…)
Pricey.
 
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i went to le anime convention this year and hit the absolute jackpot. got a really cute JSK for $55 that reminds me a lot of angelic pretty's milky planet (which i will never be able to afford) and a local business who vendors here every year was selling some sample pieces for like half off, i got a skirt for $25 and socks for $8. it helps that i now make my own bracelets/necklaces/hairclips so i was able to focus on buying things that i can't make myself.

also, i finally found my colourpop black felt liner.
it was in one of my doc martens.
 
So... My hair is finally more white than brown. Every new hair is pretty much white, at this point. The problem I'm having is with finally being able to grow it out (since I'm not currently working in a kitchen). My hair has developed a new waviness, which I kind of like, but it is also frizzy(?) as fuck. I currently have a cheekbone length blunt bob cut. I've never spent time on hair maintenance, due to not giving a damn about it. Is there any way to mitigate the frizz without sacrificing these new-found waves that I kind of like? My scalp is combination(?)
The John Frieda frizz ease stuff is pretty nice. It has stuff for both curly and straight hair and a whole range of products. My hair (straight) is pretty frizzy on certain days and that stuff works really nicely. I suppose with all the advice you've got lots of brands to try out to see what works for you. :>
 
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