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Contemporary definition of "tomboy" is almost up there with goth, anything is tomboy.
Especially bad if you are both :'(
How many Kiwis here actually believe and follow the Kibbe stuff? It seems a bit goofy but I think there is some truth to it.
I think kibbe and color seasons and all of those type of guide lines can be as helpful as they can be useless, it's all about seeing what they can ADD rather than how they can restrict one's style.

I agree that there is some truth to it; colors look different against each other and bodies are differently proportioned and structured. But what you like and find flattering is subjective and depends on what you seek: harmony, contrast, dissonance.. And both kibbe and color seasons are a way to experiment and find a bit more about yourself, but they shouldn't feel restricting. Plus there are so many variations of the system it's definitely more nuanced than it seems, and a lot of "experts" are probably just phonies that want to sell stuff a lot of the time.
 
Unique Vintage
Unique Vintage is crap.

It's fast fashion with slow prices. I've bought multiple things from there that felt like Halloween costume quality. Multiple things that I have no intention of trying to wash because they'll just disintegrate. There's one swing dress I have that literally sounds like I am wearing paper as it moves.

I bought a few things that were all pretty okay quality, and then everything after that was awful. A local "vintage" store near me is now 80% reproduction, and just feeling a vintage piece vs a similar UV piece is like a crystal glass vs a Solo cup.
 
Finding cool clothes that are not ridiculously expensive is just a pain nowadays, everything is boring and horrendous quality. The most interesting thing I got recently was a slightly tacky animal print shirt and that was a shitload of months ago >:(
 
The perfect accessory is a pair of oversized bird-watching binoculars in lieu of dainty opera glasses.
Damn, I wish I had seen this post before actually getting some opera glasses.

Though I have been thinking about getting a monocular for a bit.
 
What are some cosmetics-related stocks I should invest in? If mask bans pass in certain areas, protestors will probably resort to camo face paint and other makeup intended to deter facial recognition technology.

I have $20 of EL at the moment.
 
Does anyone here have thick/wavy hair? What kind of dry shampoos do y'all use, or what else do you do for haircare between washes
My hair is very thick and i keep it long, and my greatest challange is dehydration

I use hair mask once a week after shampoo and then i use conditioner right after. If i am just gonna be home all day i usually leave the mask in. I use hair oil like 2 or 3 times a week, just some drops. It makes a huge difference.

I wash my hair every 3 days, When i last got my tips cut, i was told that if you hair is thick you should minimize washing, and she recommend me to wash every 4-5 days to avoid it getting dry.

I seldom use dry shampoo, only if i am in a hurry or before bed. and i usually dont have any particular brand, i just use a cheap one. I really dont like the feel of dry shampoo or styling products, so i avoid putting it in my hair.
 
I use hair mask once a week after shampoo and then i use conditioner right after. If i am just gonna be home all day i usually leave the mask in. I use hair oil like 2 or 3 times a week, just some drops. It makes a huge difference.
Any product reccs?
My greatest problem is waking up bc I get severe bed head. My hair goes down to about the base of my neck (still growing it out), but waking up is always brutal and the only real fix is washing. Brushing and dry shampoo are my failsafe if it really isn't cooperating
Between days the biggest problem is my scalp as it gets a lot of buildup quickly, I've been trying deeper exfoliation methods (like a shampoo brush, T/Gel shampoo etc) and it's seemed to help a bit but it's still a challenge to stick to the 2-3 times/week max my stylist recommends.
 
Any product reccs?
My greatest problem is waking up bc I get severe bed head. My hair goes down to about the base of my neck (still growing it out), but waking up is always brutal and the only real fix is washing. Brushing and dry shampoo are my failsafe if it really isn't cooperating
Between days the biggest problem is my scalp as it gets a lot of buildup quickly, I've been trying deeper exfoliation methods (like a shampoo brush, T/Gel shampoo etc) and it's seemed to help a bit but it's still a challenge to stick to the 2-3 times/week max my stylist recommends.
My mom says to always get your products from the stylist or the pharmacy, and avoid overly expensive or cheap brands. Lol so thats what I do. The ones im using right now I got last time I cut my hair. Oil and mask: 20241015_114256.jpg
Brutal as in frizzy, or as in feeling grimey? Do you have enough length to braid? Sleeping with braids is best is its frizzy in the morning. If your hair feels grimey when you wake up, and it is not wash day, then dry shampoo before you go to bed is better rather when you wake up.

I usually dont have that much trouble withb scalp build up. But I have been told is to never use conditioner or styling products on the scalp. Only shampoo.

If you excercise, wash or at least ringer your hair immidietly after. According to my sister, the sweat and grime cause fast buildup on the hair , so never wait after excercise.
 
Unique Vintage is crap.

It's fast fashion with slow prices. I've bought multiple things from there that felt like Halloween costume quality. Multiple things that I have no intention of trying to wash because they'll just disintegrate. There's one swing dress I have that literally sounds like I am wearing paper as it moves.

I bought a few things that were all pretty okay quality, and then everything after that was awful. A local "vintage" store near me is now 80% reproduction, and just feeling a vintage piece vs a similar UV piece is like a crystal glass vs a Solo cup.
That's great to know! I hadn't ordered anything from them yet but was planning to, so you've just saved me a nice bit of money as their clothes are quite pricey.

Do you have any recommendations for vintage clothing shops that actually provide quality? The blouses I bought from Seamstress of Bloomsbury's are literal rags, completely see through and look nothing like they did on the model. The pants were good but ran large, while their blouses ran small along the bust line so you're screwed if you're larger chested.

How many Kiwis here actually believe and follow the Kibbe stuff? It seems a bit goofy but I think there is some truth to it.
I follow it pretty religiously. I'm an extreme type like you (Romantic) and fast fashion just never worked for me. My body has no overt structure at all; I'm essentially all flesh and have a very "soft" appearence. I'm also short, large chested and my hands and feet are small bit wide - snowman shaped basically. When I discovered Kibbe it was like an oasis in the desert as I finally understand why fashion trends just didn't work with my body, and it was very helpful in pointing me in the right direction towards clothes that flatter and enhance my features. I would recommend Kibbe to anyone wanting to learn more about fashion and dressing for their body. It's not the be-all and end-all though, and I personally pair my Kibbe recs with colour analysis and Kitchener style essences. Even though I'm Kibbe Romantic my style essence leans strongly Ingenue, so dressing very womanly just looks inappropriate on me. Kibbe is best to learn how fabric drapes over your body while Kitchener concentrates on how your facial features and colouring interact to form your overall "vibe" and what clothes are harmonious or contrasting to your features.
 
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Unique Vintage is crap.

It's fast fashion with slow prices. I've bought multiple things from there that felt like Halloween costume quality. Multiple things that I have no intention of trying to wash because they'll just disintegrate. There's one swing dress I have that literally sounds like I am wearing paper as it moves.

I bought a few things that were all pretty okay quality, and then everything after that was awful. A local "vintage" store near me is now 80% reproduction, and just feeling a vintage piece vs a similar UV piece is like a crystal glass vs a Solo cup.

Unique Vintage used to be reliably good quality, but I've noticed how drastically the quality has dipped in recent years. They still make some good pieces, but you really need to pay attention to the product details to know the materials and everything. The majority of it has become ridiculously overpriced fast fashion.

I've purchased two dresses from there recently: One was a light blue 40s-style dress with a pattern and silhouette I couldn't resist, and the other is a long purple velvet dress with bats on it that I plan to wear as my Halloween costume for a cocktail costume party I was invited to (I'm going to be a vampire). The former has that "paper thin" quality to it that you just described (it was so bad that I returned the dress) ... But my Halloween costume actually feels nice to wear and has some weight to it. Kinda crazy.

I understand the appeal of fast fashion especially in this economy ... But Unique Vintage has become so overpriced for what the majority of their clothes are; it's crazy. You're just as good buying something much cheaper with the exact same quality from Amazon, if I'm going to be honest.

If you're going to shop at Unique Vintage, then I highly recommend buying from the UK brands they offer (such as Voodoo Vixen). Those are much better quality.

But ... If you're going to go for better quality vintage reproduction, then I recommend Pinup Girl Clothing, Vixen by Micheline Pitt, and Miss Candy Floss. Those are considerably much more expensive, but the quality is definitely there. I've purchased pieces from all three brands secondhand from eBay too, so I've found ways to not break the bank.
 
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To contribute my own two cents, thrift stores are a sinking ship in terms of finding affordable, well-made clothes. There is too much money to be made from dumb teenagers walking in with daddy's money, that they've essentially outgrown their purpose as a place poor people go to buy clothes. I've found that apps like Depop and Vinted are a much easier and cheaper way to find decent clothes (almost too easy, I have a problem) because people just want to get rid of a bunch of crap in their closet. I've impulse-purchased a lot of books on Vinted especially, and they're often sold for so cheap that it honestly boggles my mind how they even make back the cost of shipping.
 
Any product reccs?
My greatest problem is waking up bc I get severe bed head. My hair goes down to about the base of my neck (still growing it out), but waking up is always brutal and the only real fix is washing. Brushing and dry shampoo are my failsafe if it really isn't cooperating
Between days the biggest problem is my scalp as it gets a lot of buildup quickly, I've been trying deeper exfoliation methods (like a shampoo brush, T/Gel shampoo etc) and it's seemed to help a bit but it's still a challenge to stick to the 2-3 times/week max my stylist recommends.
Have you tried the Big shampoo from Lush? It has big chunks of sea salt in it which make it pretty good at exfoliating your head. I really like it.
 
For cleaning product buildup from your hair and scalp, I like using rosemary oil along with shampoo.

A lot of people misunderstand what rosemary oil actually does, though ... There's lots of claims that it helps with hair growth and it cleans your scalp. Not necessarily ... It just works well as a messaging agent as your wash your hair with a cleanser/shampoo, making hair washing more efficient. And when your scalp is clean, hair growth happens.

Plus, it smells nice.
 
To contribute my own two cents, thrift stores are a sinking ship in terms of finding affordable, well-made clothes. There is too much money to be made from dumb teenagers walking in with daddy's money, that they've essentially outgrown their purpose as a place poor people go to buy clothes. I've found that apps like Depop and Vinted are a much easier and cheaper way to find decent clothes (almost too easy, I have a problem) because people just want to get rid of a bunch of crap in their closet. I've impulse-purchased a lot of books on Vinted especially, and they're often sold for so cheap that it honestly boggles my mind how they even make back the cost of shipping.
Thrifting became daunting in my country few years ago, mostly because of worse supply. I think they actually started picking out better stuff from donations in countries we get clothing from, eg. UK and The Netherlands, some Germany and more recently from Scandinavia, to sell with profit instead shipping all of it to EE. All stores I frequent became used fast-fashion and Shein dumps, it's extremely bleak in my city. Some bigger cities still have decent stock and I noticed old brands from my country hitting them, probably from local donation clothing sold to them.

Vinted is great if you avoid resellers, in certain euro countries they are exactly same as their American counterparts from Depop. Rich kid resellers who never worked a day in their life with pieces curated for newest zoomer -cores and Timeless Fashion ladies charging ridiculous prices for viscose or 40% wool blends. Both love virtue signalling about how they avoid fast fashion while selling old fast fashion. The best way to browse Vinted is to stick with finding certain brands you're interested in and/or fiber contents you want, most importantly avoiding buzzwords and using filters instead. All items after 500 item per query cap are hidden and you can't scroll down further, so add price and condition filters into the mix to narrow results down. Many people don't really write proper descriptions so filters are godsend. It's worth to dig through results, you can find same exact pieces for less than from buzzword using resellers.

I personally stick with buying from middle aged women who have lots of clothing and shoes from my target era. Their prices are actually reasonable. They mostly sell clothing that still was made here, in my country, which they bought new back in the 90s and 00s. Quality is good, there are many interesting pieces out theres but I avoid polyester and nylon over 25% and acrylic completely, so it cancels out so many of these for me unfortunately. Many nice suits unfortunately were 55% poly/45% wool blend and they always feel too plastic-like while being as itchy as bad wool. With shoes it's easier, I found so many nice leather pumps in good shape for little money. Though it's worse to get decent booties or knee-high boots since people keep these for ages until they get worn out completely.
 
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Is anyone else as into Ultimate Fashion History on a YouTube as I am?


Great deep dives into why trends happened the way they happened. For example I never understood the 1950s transition to Yves St. Laurent “gamine glam” from Coco Chanel “Battleship bitches” until Amanda Hallay laid it out as postwar girl boss fashion fatigue. I am now fully equipped to shut down my bestie whenever she gets on her high horse about the obvious misogyny of the midcentury based on having watched Mad Men.
 
Vinted is great if you avoid resellers,
Yesssss. Very important distinction. For finding good deals in Vinted, search by brand (especially if it's a random older brand and not a trendy one) but don't be afraid to sort by clothing type. But avoid adjetives cause only resellers tag those LOL. Sort by prize (cheapest first) and avoid both shitty pictures and pictures that look way too pristine. The best seller to buy from Vinted is a middle-aged woman who's getting rid of extra clothes and wants them gone asap.
Thats where you'll find amazing quality stuff from amazing brands in mint condition for the best prize.

also really do your investigating on brands. I bought an american apparel babydoll dress for like five bucks and then found out there's an older local brand that offers babydoll dresses too, and since its "Old lady clothing" brand wise it's all really cheap, really cute and non ironically really good quality wise, because back then it WASNT a cheap brand. Im sure this strategy works with any piece of clothing as well as shoes.


I personally stick with buying from middle aged women who have lots of clothing and shoes from my target era. Their prices are actually reasonable. They mostly sell clothing that still was made here, in my country
I typed out my message before finishing reading yours, but yes this 100%, you said it perfectly. This is the best route.



also has anybody tried Blendbunny cosmetics? Especially the eye palettes and eyeshadows. How's the formulation?

Is anyone else as into Ultimate Fashion History on a YouTube as I am?
No but I'm interested. I'm definitely giving that a watch later. If you have any other recs please share!
 
don't be afraid to sort by clothing type. But avoid adjetives cause only resellers tag those LOL. Sort by prize (cheapest first) and avoid both shitty pictures and pictures that look way too pristine.
Using buzzwords slowly trickles down to normie sellers in my country. I saw younger gen x women start to overuse them if they really, really want their things sell as soon as possible. Older women usually write descriptions in two ways. It can be either few words or an entire story about how they bought it in some foreign country, it's really cute in latter case. I skip majority of listings with cut out backgrouds, text overlays, etc. or coordinated outfits. Zoomer resellers often slap aesthetic -core shit on or if they take pics of clothes on themselves they all pose in exact same way. A clear picture of item laid on the floor or on a hanger, sometimes on a person is safest bet. Someone just getting rid of old clothing doesn't have so much of free time to burn.

Sometimes I ended up buying from resellers, but only if 1. I liked the piece so much 2. It was in good condition for low price 3. I couldn't find other listing of it.
also really do your investigating on brands. I bought an american apparel babydoll dress for like five bucks and then found out there's an older local brand that offers babydoll dresses too, and since its "Old lady clothing" brand wise it's all really cheap, really cute and non ironically really good quality wise, because back then it WASNT a cheap brand. Im sure this strategy works with any piece of clothing as well as shoes.
Yes, yes, yes!! Getting info on brands is very important. There are few that I like a lot and I started properly researching them. I found old ads very helpful because they feature pre-rebrand logos, which are very useful to identify if piece is truly vintage. There's one local shoe brand who before mid 00s attached fabric labels in insoles instead embossing the logo, knowing it makes it easier for me to find actual vintage shoes.

Scrolling through results from more broad search terms is a good way to find more niche brands to research. I got one very beautiful 90s suit from such a luxurious wool, cashmere and angora mix. I never heard about brand it was from before, I researched it a bit and I started watching it for more similar pieces.

Btw, I'm curious if liking things on Vinted really does make recommended items better because I think I literally broke the algorithm. I get so many random books just because I liked some old cookbooks or makeup books or some totally random items that don't interest me.
 
Okay Kiwisisters, beautypill me on collagen. I picked up Neutrogena's Collagen Bank on a whim, gonna give it a few weeks to see if it does anything. I tried oral collagen a few years ago but it made me break out horribly. I've heard if that happens you should try marine collagen, but I've also heard humans can only absorb like 10% of the stuff and the rest just clogs up your digestive system so it's kinda useless anyways. Tell me your opinions/experiences.

Also wat do about starting to get actual wrinkles in the NASOLABIAL FOLDS. Botox my only option? Thanks :heart-full:
 
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