Men are Visual, front loaded, they pretty much don't care about other stuff unless you are a literal screaming meth addict. Women are Mental, back loaded. They want to know what did you study? where do you work? where is your life going? whats your five year plan?
If you are guy looking for a relationship with a girl, you'd better have a plan, even if it's to be the best crack dealer on the block and expand your crack business.
Nonsequitur to avoid replying to what I really said; which is that you think you’re repulsive and need to trick a woman into getting into a relationship with you.
Also what you say (in this post and many others) is stereotyped to the point of caricature. Women aren't a monolith and your dates are at partially evaluating you on your unquantifiable characteristics; she's thinking to herself "do we click?" but you think she's judging your metrics like an AKC judge judging a dog's teeth.
One more thing. I've noticed this attitude or aura about your postings. It's kind of a self-hating, desperate, and anxious disposition. You think you need to trick women into liking you by looksmaxxing or finance-maxxing or getting her drunk. That if she knew the real you, she'd find you repulsive. And you act like you need to line up a bunch of enticements (like a high-paying career, fast car, owns home, has hair, etc.) to attract someone into going steady with you.
My friend! The call is coming from inside the house. This Franz Kafka RP needs to stop. Spergio is right that women can sense desperation, and they can also sense resentment. I can sense it from you from just reading your poor-Eeyore postings. They're so nihilistic and self-defeating that I don't even need to see you in person; I can smell it through the goddamn fiber.
When you land that date, you need to treat her as her own person, and not an avatar of all the things you hate about women. Because if you come off as a self-pitying, resentful, angry guy obsessed with sex, most women are going to pass on you.
Weird way to try to warp what he said in order to shit on men and set women up as burdened martyrs as always.
And you think I have a victim mentality, lol
The reason trafficking is so bad is because otherwise it’s a voluntary position. They put themselves there, and I’m pretty sure that they understand the lay of the land. They probably prefer autistic, awkward guys to potentially violent druggies, so it’s not a bad day for them.
I disagree. And also, perplexed by this first sentence.
People who become prostitutes 'voluntarily' are 99.9% likely to be dealing with some stressor that makes it impossible for them to get enough money any other way. The most obvious reason would be a drug habit; and now you need $200 of fentanyl to get through the day without getting dope-sick. But you've also got mental illness, domestic violence (i.e. your bf makes you do this), homelessness, poverty and debt, all of which could conspire to make someone "voluntarily" become a prostitute when they actually don't want to be.
My honest opinion is that nobody really wants to be a prostitute, and fucking Chris-Chan is not necessarily better than fucking a drug addict.
Idk how well of an understanding you have of the actual process of therapy, but I think just having the sex is enough. If you don’t have insurance, it’s cheaper than therapy on top
I probably have a better idea of what happens in a shrink's room than you, because I usually leave therapy feeling kind of upset and anxious. Kind of the opposite of a happy ending massage.
Yeah, talking to some stranger. That will fix the problem caused by an external force.
Unlike women men's problems actually exist in reality, so they don't need to just talk their way out of it.
You're misinterpreting me. I'm saying that men who visit prostitutes because they're psychologically damaged are also the kind of men who would refuse to go therapy if someone suggested it. I'm going to guess you are one of those guys, since you seem to think that therapists can't help anyone.
Open Question: Do Incels really want sex, or do they want the social recognition of being a sex-haver? Because they seem a lot more hung up on the social implications of having sex than they are about the act of sex. And it's not like they can miss the sensations of sex; they're incels.
If an incel could choose between fucking Stacy, but no one would ever know it happened, or having everyone in their social circle think he fucked Stacy when nothing happened, which would he choose?
I'm just making an observation of reality.