How close is your IRL attitude to your KF's? - How much do you tone it down in real life?

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I got into a discussion today with a former employee, with whom things did not go well, who literally told me that I was treating him like a dog to a point where he was afraid to talk to me. Kind of made me think.

Looking back, I can kind of see it. Even though I never meant to hurt him as a person, I hated him as an employee, and I was pretty cruel in some ways. The more he fucked up, the harder I came on him and the harder he fucked up. To me it felt like there was nothing I could do to improve the situation but get rid of him, for him it felt like he lacked support and could not tell me things. Faults on both sides if I am being honest, but anyway.

If we take apart the obvious no-no things, I basically talk and behave the same in my professional and personal life as I do here. Some people have considered me to be a bully. I can also be extremely nice, but the moment someone loses my respect I almost stop to think of them as an individual. They just become an inconvenience.

I am not trying to say this is a good thing or anything. I am just curious to know how others are IRL vs how they are online, and if either affect their behavior in the other sphere.
 
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Quite close because I don't reside in a very zogged up country where it would be illegal to be an autistic racist plus my entire family knows I am insane so Hitler worship and calls to violence against niggers and other minorities are my daily bread (I am also economically 100% self-reliant so I don't give a shit)

However other than my gf nobody knows I watch anime and vtubers. It would be too much for them to comprehend
 
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Honestly, pretty close. I don't have much to hide or act different as a person. I am, however, much more likely to call someone a nigger here if they are acting like a nigger. I've never cared for being an ass just because I have anonymity.

I'm actually more willing to hear an other side of the argument here though, because I don't have to hear their voice. Someone comes off as condescending or makes bizarre fluctuations with their voice, I'll get riled up quick. I am always looking to challenge my own opinion, even when sometimes it pisses me off. I'm more likely to read and understand than I am to listen and understand.
 
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An overwhelming amount of evidence has been recorded that draws a direct link to higher testosterone and an inability to tell lies and conceal information about one's self. This can, in some cases, be very inconvenient for certain individuals but, overall, I believe it's good for society rit-large. It's good when hulking troons and pooners on monkey juice tell on themselves. It's good when PUAs and rapey jockbros spill their guts bragging. It's also good when you can expect a leader to be the most truthful in any given circumstance. If you live a lie, you're not fooling that many, definitely not yourself, because deep down you know you're a bitch, and others do too. So to bring up the old phrase ":null:<There's literally nothing wrong with doxing", I purport that one should try and live as truthfully on, or off, the Internet as possible. And if they can't do that because they're afraid of losing respect or being cancelled, then they're like a horse that's been trained by an electric fence, likely from schooldays, not to go beyond a certain point without receiving a shock, and as a sovereign adult, still obeys the boundaries without the fence even standing anymore.

Everyone should be honest, for their own sake, and the sake of society as a whole, not our current broken society, but the society we could have. That's what I strive to be, even if it offends some people who are willing to employ every manner of underhanded tactic to shock me, I shrug it off because I am a man, and, atleast I would hope, a good Christian.
 
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I don't call people faggots, that just gives them an excuse to dismiss your valid criticism.

I'm also more Socratic and allow people outs to save face because this is essential, on the Kiwi Farms I just tell the faggot horses to drink because I know they're not going to listen anyway.
 
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Here's a good example of someone who lies constantly and thinks slurs are somehow a substitute for manliness. I'd bet he's the biggest pushover in real life and uses the website as a substitute for his lack of real courage. He also keeps using the words "mommy" and "daddy" and hangs out with people like Gravemind who, as you can see above, is a wallflower.

Lying is a female trait, men tell the truth.
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WolfeTone said:
Here's a good example of someone who lies constantly and thinks slurs are somehow a substitute for manliness. I'd bet he's the biggest pushover in real life and uses the website as a substitute for his lack of real courage. He also keeps using the words "mommy" and "daddy" and hangs out with people like Gravemind who, as you can see above, is a wallflower.

Lying is a female trait, men tell the truth.
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I think you're missing the point of the thread to shoehorn your spat with some other users here.

Behaving differently in private vs public or telling half truths, does not necessarily make you a liar. Different situations can require you to adapt your attitude or speech, it's nothing new. It's pragmatic.

You can be honest to yourself while not being completely truthful or expressing your genuine feelings all the time without any filter.

You should stop trying to throw oil on the fire. Where do you think this is going to lead? Do you see a possible win in the future?

Most people here don't give a fuck if you beat your dad. They do start paying attention when you start to try and make a spectacle of your autistic feud with other members at every given occasion.
 
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