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Pattern Juggler said:
My fatal flaw is not liking travel. It seems like there's no woman alive that doesn't want to be taken to every corner of the planet.
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Find someone with dementia.

I'm only joking, but you remind me of someone I met not too long ago. Lovely woman, but she's decided she doesn't want to do anything or go anywhere anymore, mostly because she feels safe and comfortable in her routine.

Her husband, on the other hand, as much as he loves her, has stated he did not sign up for that. He will be with her until she dies, but he wants to get out and do things.

The deal he's managed to swing is getting away for some long weekends while friends look after her.

I don't know how long it will last, and I think he knows that, so he's trying to get as many bucket list items kicked off before it gets worse.

Point of that story, I guess is finding a woman who you can work it out that you're not telling her that she can't travel, just that you're not going to do it with her.
 
Not A Bunny said:
Point of that story, I guess is finding a woman who you can work it out that you're not telling her that she can't travel, just that you're not going to do it with her.
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I don't think it works like that when swapping sexes. A woman traveling alone can be much more dangerous than a man doing it. If I was in such a situation I'd suck it up and just travel no matter how much I hated it so I can make sure my wife is safe.

But ideally, when it comes to such things I think you should find a partner who's similar in that regard.
 
Lingering butter taste said:
Ya, I’m not sure what that guy was talking about though. My post wasn’t about how Kiwifarms opens you up to the real world, it was sorta the opposite, not even trying to dunk on the site.

What I was getting at was that unlike the real world, KF is a place that has a certain mold you have to fulfill, whilst irl you usually just find groups like yourself to hang around. I’ll be completely honest, Kiwifarms has been gasoline on my hobbies, making me (Well not making me, no one on the site is forcing me) reject things that made me happy just because I know this site wouldn’t like it. But it’s just so tempting to change myself to fit this mold, it’s almost like a high that’s enhanced by how miserable it makes me.
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Why are you so desperate to fit in here of all places? No matter how much you change to fit in there will still be someone who thinks you’re ”uncool”. You can’t please everyone. Continue designing and sowing your traditional Indian saris for men and live in peace (idk, what hobbies are even not approved on KiwiFarms?)
 
long waters said:
A woman traveling alone can be much more dangerous than a man doing it.
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Uh, yeah, about that...

I've been traveling alone for years. I don't know anyone who wants to do what I do. While I don't go places that are particularly dangerous, I know that there are places I might not be safe and I take precautions.

But all of those places can be just as dangerous for men, too. One guy with a knife or a gun is just as dangerous to a man as he is to me.

Maybe that's reckless, but I'm not going to make this overblown fear of the little helpless woman stop me from living my life.
 
rocketfueledwheelchair said:
Why are you so desperate to fit in here of all places?
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I’ve thought about this for a very long time. I think it might be the reaction to not fitting in. I mean, on places like tumblr if you step out of line you’re just called a “bigot” or some other word that means nothing. Kiwifarmers can carefully construct a comment to detail every single reason why you should be shamed, ostracized, and shot out back. And I’d hate for someone to think that of me

rocketfueledwheelchair said:
(idk, what hobbies are even not approved on KiwiFarms?)
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Check the Saberspark thread, just watching cartoons is a no go.
DavidS877 said:
Let me give you a little hint that people don't seem to understand these days.
You don't have to tell everyone on the Internet everything about you.

If you enjoy doing stuff that KF may not approve of.... like owning an electric car. Just, you know, don't talk about it on here. I can come here and dunk on trannies and then go to my secret EV Car forum and talk about how much I love destroying the earth with Lithium mining.
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I guess I just feel bad? Like, if I’m doing something I know would make some people here look down on me, I can’t feel right interacting with them. I feel like I’m deceiving them, like some fraud, lurking underneath the shadows hiding my cringiness deviously.

Imam Shamil said:
You're going to kill yourself if you keep using kf. Leave kf, you insane person. Enjoy whatever gay faggot hobbies you have before you are left with nothing but the word "nigger" echoing in your head.
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For real? Is this a joke? Leaving it seems extreme
 
Lingering butter taste said:
Check the Saberspark thread, just watching cartoons is a no go.
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Bro, I know niggas on here (including myself) who watch the gayest, most cutsie anime possible and they're having no issues. yes, they are absolutley made fun of, but they don't take the mockery so seriously.

idk man, if you like watching fucking Barney or something, there's probably other insane Barney fans around here that you can talk to.
 
Going to have a long Christmas and this will be the last time I see cancer friend in person until Easter I hope. Nobody wants to see you doing chemo unless you know you are dying.
 
Imam Shamil said:
Bro, I know niggas on here (including myself) who watch the gayest, most cutsie anime possible and they're having no issues. yes, they are absolutley made fun of, but they don't take the mockery so seriously.

idk man, if you like watching fucking Barney or something, there's probably other insane Barney fans around here that you can talk to.
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That’s fair… But what happens when the thing you like gets linked to pedophilia because of some controversy you had no clue happened? Take, as an example, Boykisser. I saw it around and always thought it was just some random meme that was pretty unfunny, I knew some guy that liked it for a bit but that’s pretty much all the involvement I’ve ever had with it. You come to KF and find out it’s synonymous with “pedophile” and that’s alarming. The fact that to someone, I could’ve been labeled a genuine evil just by a joke I made completely unaware of the drama surrounding it. Take Vtubers, I’ve quite literally never had an interest in them or known anything about them but they’ve always just been some genre of content to me. On par with “let’s play”s or “Get ready with me”s. You come to KF and they’re ALSO synonymous with pedophile. And it’s like, I never would’ve known this unless I went to KF.

That’s what I’m scared of, what if something I actually like has pedo drama surrounding it that I have no clue of, associating with it would then make me guilty. And the only way I can find this out is via KF.
 
Lingering butter taste said:
Take Vtubers, I’ve quite literally never had an interest in them or known anything about them but they’ve always just been some genre of content to me. On par with “let’s play”s or “Get ready with me”s. You come to KF and they’re ALSO synonymous with pedophile. And it’s like, I never would’ve known this unless I went to KF.
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Truuueee. I also agree all vtuber fans are pedophiles. But my nigga, they have an entire board on here for themselves. The pedophiles are grouping up! Null must do something about this!
 
I forgot why I originally showed up in the thread.

I'm getting ready for my Christmas road trip (yes, I did forget despite mentioning traveling by myself). It's been a rough year and I need the break.

I did find out that I'm not a prediabetic anymore. But I also now have to face the fact that jokes aside, I am likely on the spectrum (my career coach is urging me to get checked), and I've always kind of hated the idea, because it's another label to be conscious of and manage.

I also am figuring out how to get back to school without fishing for another degree. I'm just trying to tilt my resume so it gets me out of the career I'm in, which sucks, but using my experience so I'mnot starting from scratch.

I'm tired, boss. I wish I could just sleep for a week.
 
Imam Shamil said:
I also agree all vtuber fans are pedophiles. But my nigga, they have an entire board on here for themselves.
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It dosent matter, I still don’t want to be considered a pedophile cause of some gay drama I had no idea about or even if I did know, dosent sully my perception of the property. I just can’t.

DavidS877 said:
You seem to be rather overly concerned about this.
Here's a simple 2 part test.
1. Do you fuck children?
2. Do you want to fuck children?
If the answer to those two are "no" then watch whatever media/streamers you want.
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I really wish it was that simple, but like Imam demonstrated, even if the answer to those two are no then your associations can still earn you that title

Look, if you two want to continue this topic we can in DMs, but I know last time we got too deep into this Null got upset and I really don’t want to get in trouble again. Sorry.
 
DavidS877 said:
You seem to be rather overly concerned about this.
Here's a simple 2 part test.
1. Do you fuck children?
2. Do you want to fuck children?
If the answer to those two are "no" then watch whatever media/streamers you want.
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I don't think ur familiar with the Lingering Butter lore. You see, this woman isn't a pedophile but she has POCD, so she thinks she had pedophilic tendencies. Nigga she's crazy, what can you do. @Lingering butter taste keep close to your therapist and don't abondon your hobbies or you'll go even more insane somehow.
 
Lingering butter taste said:
Take Vtubers, I’ve quite literally never had an interest in them or known anything about them but they’ve always just been some genre of content to me. On par with “let’s play”s or “Get ready with me”s. You come to KF and they’re ALSO synonymous with pedophile. And it’s like, I never would’ve known this unless I went to KF.
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Synonymous with what?! You do know there's a whole section dedicated to V-Tubers right? I have no interest in them myself so I don't know the specifics, but I'm pretty sure there are countless people here who are into VTubers unironically. Not all VTs are pedos by default. Hell, there's even a thread for LGBT Kiwis here in the General section...
(Edit: I'm a late retard.)
I swear, KF seems more diverse than any place I've been involved in. It's kind of crazy how you have people with polar opposites opinions somehow coexisting in their own corner of the site.
 
Lingering butter taste said:
Kiwifarms has been gasoline on my hobbies, making me (Well not making me, no one on the site is forcing me) reject things that made me happy just because I know this site wouldn’t like it. But it’s just so tempting to change myself to fit this mold, it’s almost like a high that’s enhanced by how miserable it makes me.
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Dude, why would you give two shits what we think?

Whatever you enjoy IRL is infinitely more valuable to your own life and wellbeing. We're a gaggle of anonymous shitposting retards on a forum about a guy who humped his mom. Nothing I've said here in nearly 6 years and 40,000 posts is of any worth to anyone. Not even me.

Wanna know what I do when I see a Kiwi shitting on someone I like? I leave them a trashcan or a tophat. If it's a thread shitting on someone or something I like? I don't fucking go there, because I'm not gonna change any minds.

Get a fucking grip.
 
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Imam Shamil said:
I don't think ur familiar with the Lingering Butter lore. You see, this woman isn't a pedophile but she has POCD, so she thinks she had pedophilic tendencies. Nigga she's crazy, what can you do.
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Nigga needs to fucking leave this place, it's going to become a liability, and it's also fucking up the purpose of this thread.
 
long waters said:
I would say that this is good advice for irl too.
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Absolutely. I overshare a lot in this thread compared to how i am with people IRL simply because i am anonymous here, i've seen too often how people who share stuff (not even oversharing) with other people get burnt by it. I don't want to be all "You can't trust anyone" but i am convinced it can never be bad to play your cards close to your chest IRL. From personal experience even your own family can fuck you over if you give (in any sense) too freely.
Lingering butter taste said:
KF is a place that has a certain mold you have to fulfill
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I do not understand this. I remember reading stuff like this from many people back when Null turned off sticker notifications, how they are afraid to state their opinions in threads because of bad reacts or how it could go against the grain/tone of the site (whatever the fuck that means). Nigga, it's the internet, the last place where you can be totally free in what you say and with the beliefs you hold, especially on KF. Why feel the need to conform to any standards? Because someone might call you a dumb nigger for your opinions? That is baseline shit (again, especially on here) and should not affect you to the point that your thoughts start to revolve around the site or users on here. I won't even deny that i get MATI at other users from time to time but man, it doesn't really hold weight. Going full boomer here but you should mainly post on here to enjoy yourself, not to fall into despair over what some faceless autist on the other side of the world might think about your posts.

I don't even know where i was going with this, i am the smartest man in the room again today and had a sip of beer just now, thanks to the pain killers i already feel like i am drunk and can't really sort my thoughts.
 
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