🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[Trasha Pay That A$$]

Amberlynn is at fault for her weight, sure Becky could lay the hammer down on carting her around for food but she is not to blame for it. In this age of postmates, grubhub and doordash she could easily pay extra to get food delivered to her. Not to mention Amazon Prime now and etc if its available to her. AL will always find a way to get her DOC, no matter what company she is in.
Becky is a shithead and a leech without a doubt and she knows once AL goes it's back to work for her and Eric will not be able to spend money on bullshittery like he does now.
Becky is more scared of the money flow stopping once AL waddles out the door and the fastest way to that happening is not keeping her stocked on her drugs.

Those services like Postmates et. al. don't service Monticello though. Amazon, sure (not Prime Now though), but that doesn't really help her restaurant fix. The best she could do in her current living situation is delivery pizza. She would have to move out of a rural town to get her fix in those other ways.

 

[ADHD]

What was her plan?

To get herself a sugar mama to financially support her so she could quit working a real job.

 

[ihavent_ee_uhn]

To get herself a sugar mama to financially support her so she could quit working a real job.

As much as this jobless, worthless existence-less blob came into fruition, I have to disagree (at the beginning). That is way too calculating for an individual like our dumb-dumb Necky. She may not have planned it at first, but yes, it is working out for her lifestyle very well right now. But I have to say she doesn't know how to deal with AL. Like, her big AL is gonna die soon. What then? She better step up soon, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Or at least make a plan after AL kicks the bucket.

 

[Twinkie]

I believe that the only way for her to stop gaining (much less lose any weight) is for her to become broke. That's the only reason she lost weight. She aged out of the foster care system and could only eat what she was given by Krystle's parents and/or foodstamps. That's the ONLY time she ever lost weight.

And I don't see her ever being broke again, soooooo rip

While I agree that the demonization of Becky is stupid, I also don’t think the she should be absolved of ALL responsibility. I’m sure living with and loving AL is hard work, no doubt about that, but regardless of how insecure and pathetic she is, there comes a time where you have to put your foot down. I’m not going to pretend I know what it’s like to be an “enabler” (bleh), and I totally sympathize with the abuse, it must be horrible, but she has people in her life, be it her family or Eric and Ricky who she can turn to and say “I can’t handle this girl on my own, I need help.” I completely agree that she is the type of person that wants to feel needed, and taking care of Amberlynn maybe satisfies that, but personally I believe that if she truly loved AL she would take steps to help her and herself out of this rut. Again, I know when AL is screaming, pissing and moaning about how bad she needs a Reese’s cup sucks, and that it’s possible she gets some physical abuse, but she does not have to keep herself in that situation. She doesn’t have to leave AL, like I said she has people she can ask for help, and I think she should ask for some right now. She claims to be a competent person, although I don’t think there’s much going on in her noggin, but I know she is smart enough to ASK for help. Maybe she’s too scared or too prideful, but ffs they’re both dying, no one would blame her for getting someone to help out a little bit.

Yet again I luckily have very little experience living with an abusive land whale, so I’m just someone on the outside looking in. And I also know it’s easy to say to someone who is abused “just walk away!!” When it’s really not always that simple, so I’m just talking out of my ass.

Edit: Typos and I wanted to add something: if getting Amber help means in turn AL will just find another sped to spoonfeed her butter, than at least Becky can truly say to herself “I did my best.” And isn’t that worth something? Becky has no obligation to help Amber, but if she loves her MAYBE she should try. I’m not saying at all that AL’s weight gain is Becky’s fault because it isn’t, but she can take her hand off the wheel if she wants to.

"If she truly loved AL" there it is again. That's like saying if you truly loved a guy you'd forgive him when hits you. An abusive partner is not "being difficult" they are being fucking abusive. You gain nothing by taking ABUSE just so you can say you did your best, that's fucking re.tarded. This is a 30-year-old woman not a child

 

[Xenomorph]

As much as this jobless, worthless existence-less blob came into fruition, I have to disagree (at the beginning). That is way too calculating for an individual like our dumb-dumb Necky. She may not have planned it at first, but yes, it is working out for her lifestyle very well right now. But I have to say she doesn't know how to deal with AL. Like, her big AL is gonna die soon. What then? She better step up soon, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Or at least make a plan after AL kicks the bucket.

She has used exes for money before.

 

[89elbees]

I don't think money was part of Becky's motivation to date big AL. It's certainly a perk, but she's definitely in that relationship for some weird combination of fear of being alone/not being able to do better and needing to care for someone. She had a job until AL made her quit and I believe she'd try to get one again if they broke up.

 

[Twinkie]

I don't think money was part of Becky's motivation to date big AL. It's certainly a perk, but she's definitely in that relationship for some weird combination of fear of being alone/not being able to do better and needing to care for someone. She had a job until AL made her quit and I believe she'd try to get one again if they broke up.

I definitely agree. It wasn't about money. Becky was stupid enough (desperate enough, really) to fall into the trap that Destiny avoided. Amberlynn tried to turn Destiny into a house nigger too, but Destiny refused to quit working.

AL became more and more of a cunt and got dumped for it. Becky came in mostly blind, seeing Amberlynn depressed and drunk on youtube with her pages full of HAYDUR comments and she was afraid AL would kill herself (projection much, necky?), so she reached out. They met. It was really slow at first which I'm sure drove Amberlynn bananas. Then, in a stroke of really bad luck, Becky fell and sprained her ankle and was truly unable to work for a short time. Amberlynn got her claws in at that point.

Don't get me wrong Becky is responsible for her own shit so I don't exactly feel sorry for her. She WAS tricked, but she still has agency and could get her shit together.

 

[Xenomorph]

I don't think money was part of Becky's motivation to date big AL. It's certainly a perk, but she's definitely in that relationship for some weird combination of fear of being alone/not being able to do better and needing to care for someone. She had a job until AL made her quit and I believe she'd try to get one again if they broke up.

AL kept forcing Necks to stasy home and they shit canned her. Between her "fall" and "injury" in the begginning and then AL asking Necky to stay home all the time they let her go. Thing is..Necky could have said no to Amber..it's her fault she caved.

 

[THEY’RE CODEPENDANT]

"If she truly loved AL" there it is again. That's like saying if you truly loved a guy you'd forgive him when hits you. An abusive partner is not "being difficult" they are being fucking abusive. You gain nothing by taking ABUSE just so you can say you did your best, that's fucking re.tarded. This is a 30-year-old woman not a child

Oh no I’m not like defending abuse at all, I think what’s going on with Becky and AL is awful, what I’m trying to say is that usually when people truly love and care about each other, they want the best for each other. For Becky, that would be to get out of this relationship. For AL with Becky, it would be for Becky to say no sometimes. I’m also saying that Becky is choosing to stay in this relationship, and choosing to obey every one of Amber’s demands, demands that lead to both of them being harmed. Yes, they are adults, and I think that if they truly want the best for each other, they should act like it. I don’t mean that she should take the abuse, I think that if she is going to CHOOSE to STAY with Amberlynn, she should defend herself by not accepting the abuse, by saying NO.

 

[Twinkie]

When Becky says no to Amberlynn she gets abused for it, so I don't follow your reasoning.

 

[ADHD]

Just out of curiosity, how do people think Becky would react if Amber said no to buying her more snapbacks and sped boy shirts? I'm pretty sure Becky can give as well as she gets.

 

[CindyChafe]

Just out of curiosity, how do people think Becky would react if Amber said no to buying her more snapbacks and sped boy shirts? I'm pretty sure Becky can give as well as she gets.

I don't think she would scream, cry and throw a tantrum because although she likes getting those things they're not her drug of choice. I don't think Becky would have to make up "the SnapBack Monster" to justify her abusive actions towards AL when she didn't get what she wanted. Although who knows maybe Becky is as Two faced as AL, we just haven't seen it aired out on camera over and over.

Amber's jealousy was likely the main catalyst for Becky losing/quitting her job. In the first Becky videos it was mentioned multiple times. Although I can't imagine there were many more females other than Becky working at the lumber mill so what was Amber really jealous of? I guess jealousy, not being able to stay home all day in the Fag shanty (back when Becky would drive her to Hannah and Rafe's daycare)...

 

[Bunny]

It's sad to see someone so young be this big and potentially fuck up their body for the rest of their life because of their food addiction. I don't know what will make her see that she needs to get serious about losing weight. What's scary is all it takes is one fall and she will be bedbound and the chance of her ever losing weight will be a pipe dream. She needs to realize how lucky she is to even be the tiny bit mobile that she is at this weight. I don't see her ever truly committing. I see her dying tbh.

 

[Twinkie]

It's purely a control thing, I believe. I doubt that AL was afraid of a specific woman. She probably just had this vague discomfort with Becky being around other people when Amberlynn was not present.

It's classic grooming type shit an abuser does. Control control control.

Becky is a braindead asshole and I don't like her. But she's not a gold digger. She's not pulling any strings here. She fell right into the trap. She was so worried about Amberlynn being alone, and Beckky probably projected her own depressed/suicidal shit onto Amberlynn. In doing so, she didn't realize what was actually happening re: Amberlynn running her game.

 

[Dutch Courage]

I fully expect her to drop dead, but not until after a long, protracted decline in bed. It's a moot point about whether or not she can lose the weight. She can't. To reach her target of 170, she needs to drop 382 pounds. That would be one of the biggest weight losses for a woman in history, and it would have to come from a woman who gains 10 pounds every time she goes on a diet.

Medical/psychiatric intervention is the only thing that would help her now. Simply losing weight isn't going to fix all the damage she has done, as if losing weight were even a possibility.

Losing her YouTube income would be helpful, because she would no longer have an incentive to act out. However, that doesn't mean she'd actually lose weight; it would only slow her gain. If she were homeless, she'd lose a few pounds, but she would probably also die pretty fast. She is not the type who would last long roughing it.

She reminds me of Ryan Dunn of Jackass, or Amy Winehouse, or Steve Irwin, or Stobe the Hobo, or Kurt Cobain in a way; while she's alive, you know her lifestyle will kill her, but there's nothing you can do but wait for it to happen. You watch them, knowing they are doomed, and when the inevitable happens, you say "well, I saw that one coming..." The only difference here is that those people at least had talent at what they did, to distract us from their eventual deaths. Amberlynn has nothing; she is, after all, a deathfatty.

Not to mention, she's still conning us. She is playing disingenuous. She knew the risks going in, but out of haughty arrogance, refused to believe it would happen to her. Now that it's happening, she's like "I didn't sign up for this!" while stuffing ads in her vids.

 

[sis no]

I mean, didnt Destiny meet Dana at work? Other than it being control because Amby is a manipulative fatty, I’m sure she was also afraid of the same thing that happened with Destiny happen with Becky

 

[Sparkletor]

You guys are thinking too hard about this. Becky loves Amberlynn because she is the prettiest princess around and Amberlynn loves Becky because she has mad coloring skills.

 

[Chantalsgarlicdip]

I fully expect her to drop dead, but not after a long, protracted decline in bed. It's a moot point about whether or not she can lose the weight. She can't. To reach her target of 170, she needs to drop 382 pounds. That would be one of the biggest weight losses for a woman in history, and it would have to come from a woman who gains 10 pounds every time she goes on a diet.

Medical/psychiatric intervention is the only thing that would help her now. Simply losing weight isn't going to fix all the damage she has done, as if losing weight were even a possibility.

Losing her YouTube income would be helpful, because she would no longer have an incentive to act out. However, that doesn't mean she'd actually lose weight; it would only slow her gain. If she were homeless, she'd lose a few pounds, but she would probably also die pretty fast. She is not the type who would last long roughing it.

She reminds me of Ryan Dunn of Jackass, or Amy Winehouse, or Steve Irwin, or Stobe the Hobo, or Kurt Cobain in a way; while she's alive, you know her lifestyle will kill her, but there's nothing you can do but wait for it to happen. You watch them, knowing they are doomed, and when the inevitable happens, you say "well, I saw that one coming..." The only difference here is that those people at least had talent at what they did, to distract us from their eventual deaths. Amberlynn has nothing; she is, after all, a deathfatty.

Not to mention, she's still conning us. She is playing disingenuous. She knew the risks going in, but out of haughty arrogance, refused to believe it would happen to her. Now that it's happening, she's like "I didn't sign up for this!" while stuffing ads in her vids.

Yea, and from what I know about bariatric surgery, once you hit the 500s very few surgeons will operate on you due to the danger of you dying on the operating table

Furthermore, add on ambers unstable mental health, and no surgeon would touch her with 10 foot pole. And its near to impossible to lose 300lbs naturally.

So who knows what amber's going to do. But what I know for sure, any sort of weight loss surgery is out of the question.

 

[Erica]

Its pretty obvious that Amber didnt simply "forget" to refill her medicine and that's why shes gone cold turkey. With a 50+ pound gain, her dosage would need to change so she would need to revisit the doctor and OBVIOUSLY shes not willing to do that.

For anti depressants, not really. Lexapro certainly not. They work your your brain, not your body. Dosage would change based on how much you need to get an appreciable effect out of them.

There’s a lot of possible explanations (doctor wanting to change meds, doctor wanting an appointment, doctor wanting a physical, Amber just being lazy, etc), but her weight wouldn’t affect the dose much, if at all.

 

[easyaf]

There’s a lot of possible explanations (doctor wanting to change meds, doctor wanting an appointment, doctor wanting a physical, Amber just being lazy, etc),

I could definitely believe the doctor saying that now she's been on these awhile we need to do checks or start using these as part of a wider program of changes. No way would Amber submit to a full barrage of tests, especially when meltdowns get her more views.

ETA: If she were to go get the tests and be honest about the results, that would like get her a fuckton of views, but no way would she do it.