I wonder what Mammalynn's "lil fiance situation type deeul" makes of his would be step daughter. Like imagine you meet this woman who, despite her past, you fall in love with and she seems to have turned over a new leaf. Later she reconnects with her adult daughter and being the supportive partner that you are, you are happy for her and support your fiancée in rebuilding her relationship with her child...
...then you are introduced to this 600 el bee 30-something year old toddler who has no friends, no life, relies on her mother for leeeeeeduruhlly everytheeen, and smells like a soiled nappy left out in the July sun.