Ask men why they do things the way they do and maybe you'll get an honest answer

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Arbiter said:
Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?
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Most of the time a woman has complimented me and she wasn't family it was usually a way older woman clearly being kind. And it felt nice I just almost always feel that's undeserved, but that's how I've reacted when I've gotten compliments from men, just appreciate it and don't dwell.

Now I've been complimented by women of my age group a few times and they may have been coming on to me, but I'm denser than a block of cheese so I didn't take it that way.

I'm sparing in my compliments because I want them to mean something, and I'd probably teach my kids the same way. I don't think the giving of compliments is a pain point unless someone is really autistic or poorly socialized.
 
souschef said:
I really don't agree with you guys on that. I think genuine compliments are normal and possible without having any sexual interest behind them, conscious or not, regardless of sex
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OK. Let's sound this out. How and under what circumstances would you as a woman compliment a man?
 
souschef said:
I really don't agree with you guys on that. I think genuine compliments are normal and possible without having any sexual interest behind them, conscious or not, regardless of sex
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No you don't get it women are stupid and gay and if they're complimenting us they 100% wanna bang see i thought about this for about 10 hours straight now i swear i'm not just thinking too hard on it because i'm an retard nigga shut up.

Ignatius von Cistern said:
OK. Let's sound this out. How and under what circumstances would you as a woman compliment a man?
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"hey nice boots"
"thanks"
 
souschef said:
I don't know why the fuck we get boners when its cold
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Testicles dangle because they need temperature regulation to maintain fertility. When it’s hot, they hang low. When it’s cold, your cremaster muscle pulls your balls up. This is also the muscle that contracts during orgasm. So when it’s cold, up they go, and your dick says “hold up, why was I not consulted regarding this.”
Look up ‘cremasteric reflex’ for more mind-numbingly interesting details.
 
Kofi Drinka said:
Women want to push a man's buttons to see if he'll react. They're too stupid to realize he may react with "And then I punch you in the face" because you're pushing his buttons. They need to realize an angry man can kill you, even by accident. Don't fucking do it unless you're willing to die for it. Because 1 slap or punch can literally kill you. And when men get angry you're at their mercy. It's why men don't start shit with each other unless they're retarded. It can be lethal.
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The whole goal is to see if they get violent you idiot. The last thing a sane woman wants is to be tied to a violent and unstable man. If he's willing to hit a woman for being annoying hard enough to risk killing her what do you think that kind of man will do with a crying baby?

Ignatius von Cistern said:
It's not just men. Women are just as sensitive, but the dynamic is different. If we let you know that you might stand to loose a few pounds and shave the mangrove between your legs, it's break-up material. "Pushing a man's buttons," is just "nagging," until there is a murder-suicide sort of situation. Don't push a man's buttons. We don't do it to you because we generally like you and want peace and quiet at home & we hope you feel the same.
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>I'm afraid to tease my Woman because she might dump me

All you niggas is weak and spineless. And stupid too. You clearly all have a bit of a tism. It feels as if this is some only child thing, but I'm an only child too. If I'm building a life with someone damn right I will push them around a little. Not to bully them or for fun but to see how they handle a little stress or if I at sometimes act the asshole. Heck it will probably happen naturally anyway.
 
souschef said:
🤔whenever he does something well, wears something nice, or his appearance if i'm sexually interested on him

Pretty much the same i do with women
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But this would be a man you are already involved with intimately? There is no argument against that, that's normal.

I think we're arguing about complimenting the other men in your life.
 
Smashed & Slamed said:
The whole goal is to see if they get violent you idiot. The last thing a sane woman wants is to be tied to a violent and unstable man. If he's willing to hit a woman for being annoying hard enough to risk killing her what do you think that kind of man will do with a crying baby?


>I'm afraid to tease my Woman because she might dump me

All you niggas is weak and spineless. And stupid too. You clearly all have a bit of a tism. It feels as if this is some only child thing, but I'm an only child too. If I'm building a life with someone damn right I will push them around a little. Not to bully them or for fun but to see how they handle a little stress or if I at sometimes act the asshole. Heck it will probably happen naturally anyway.
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I don't think you're a white person and I would't be seeing you to begin with. Races should be kept pure.
 
souschef said:
I'm just saying that i would genuinely compliment anyone without sexual interest, regardless if they're men or women, being a man, or if i was a woman

It's just being nice is all
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Well again, under what circumstances would you compliment a man. Please paint me a scene with your words.
 
General Patton said:
Damn, those things are tricky.
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You were supposed to answer with "You're a guy". Baneposting ruined

Ignatius von Cistern said:
Well again, under what circumstances would you compliment a man. Please paint me a scene with your words.
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I don't get what you want me to say. Hey man, nice shoes. Hey man, you're very smart. Hey man, nice pie. Hey man, nice cologne. Hey man, nice cock!

A compliment could arise in 1001 situations my guy! Some sexual, but most are just genuine compliments...
 
SITHRAK! said:
Can’t do it. Head of schlong hits cold porcelain and bladder locks up.
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If it touches the water and you flush, you might also lose your dick down the pipes. Pissing while sitting down can make you troon out by accident, it's true
 
Motherf*cker said:
Why do men make it so simple to press their buttons? Yesterday I purposely questioned my husband's sense of direction and he melt down and tried to mansplain it while sounding like he was going to get upset.
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I think if he was already wound up about maybe being a bit lost then any criticism is going to hit harder because you’re doing it at a point there’s already an emotional flavour to the situation.
Having a go at someone’s parking skills when you’re sat on the sofa for example isn’t the same as doing it when you’re stressed trying to get the car into a minute space under a time pressure, such as ‘I have to get this kid to the doctor’ or ‘we are going to be late.’
Criticism ‘in the moment’ will often trigger people which is why it’s best avoided.
 
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