- Joined
- Jun 13, 2016
What gets me is Pantsu was dumb enough to go along with Ralph taking full control over all her communication devices from the word go. Ralph started using Pantsu's phone to pretend to be her to talk to Faith as a "good friend Amanda" from the very start of the relationship. As soon as she moved in with him every device she had was subject to Ralph monitoring.
Pantsu is the type of person who joins a cult if she doesn't find an abusive partner. Given her AF fandom you might think she already is in one, but since she's a woman she's not allowed to join the gay catbois, even if she still claims to be a man trapped in a woman's body. If she had been born in the 1960's Pantsu would have joined the Children of God or the Moonies. She seemed to think having Gunt tell her what to do and control her was reasonable life step to take. Get all that complex, confusing stuff off her plate. It's why she likes AF, it's black and white and they give her very specific instructions as to what opinions to have and how a lowly, inferior women should not bother to try thinking, just ask your husband or father for an answer if you have any questions in that empty , silly puddin head.
The fact she still lets Ralph use her twitter account makes me think she still isn't able to stand up to Gunt or take back all that she ceded to him during the relationship. I'm sure dad bought her a new phone, but she seems like the type to keep using anything Ralph might still have trackers on because she's so accustomed to it and to prove something to Ralph. Ralph made her believe the only reason to not let him have access to everything is only if she's a disloyal, lying, cheating bitch with stuff to hide. (Pantsu never realizing Ralph is just projecting his own disloyalty and cheating nature onto her. Ralph would never, ever let Pantsu access to all his devices and see all the women he tries to romance and the shit he talks about Pantsu.)
Pantsu finally got up the courage to leave Ralph, only while he was gone, out of pure misery. I don't think she has developed the spine and intelligence to do the same IRL. Ralph is counting on his ability to manipulate her all over again by switching his tactics. It was said that Pantsu doesn't believe in therapy and counseling, but I hope the Morris family makes her realize how badly she needs it. Pantsu has demonstrated no ability to reflect on why she chose to hook up with a abusive guy, gave him total control over her life, let him treat her like utter trash for two years and almost managed to alienate her from her entire family. Trying to rationalize it as "trad" or finding it acceptable on any level just shows how fucked up her world view became.
Pantsu once again following in the steps of a teenager. I honestly think she realized Faith had the much better deal. Faith gets money from Ralph every month without any argument, doesn't have to fuck him, doesn't have to listen to him holler, doesn't have to be his maid, Faith gets to fuck a younger, not-fat Mexican guy, Ralph doesn't get to humiliate and insult Faith on a daily basis IRL. Hell, Ralph even pretends to like her kid and says adoring things on twitter about Xander, something he's never bothered to do with Rozy.
Maybe Pantsu realized if she left Ralph he would at least pretend to give a fuck about Rozy and spend a few hours a year with her without hollering or bitching. She could also get way more US dollars out of Ralph via child support order than she ever could begging and pleading IRL every week for a hundred pesos. She won't be subjected to Ralphasweat, Ralph's mexican food and tequila shits. She will never again have to gaze upon the bisected Gunt or quadtits on a daily basis. I'm sure the smell of Ralph and their Mexican bathroom will haunt her nightmares for years. Everytime she passes a port-a-potty homeless people use it will trigger her Gunt PTSD.
