why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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Waffle Iron said:
>just be urself bro
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Don’t try to be someone else to get someone. It ends poorly. You shouldn’t pretend to like opera/ theatre/ sports/ reality tv/ or whatever to try to get with someone unless you just want to get laid.

Also, any worthwhile relationship is going to change both of you. Lying about your interests is stupid. It’s like cucks who sell shit to please their spouse. Everyone has their hobbies. You should try to meet someone halfway. Try doing something they like even if you don’t really like it. Relationships are give and take.

Just be yourself means don’t be disingenuous about your interests. You know how many retards never correct someone on their interests and 5 years later they are divorced? You need to actually have something in common.
 
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HodgePodgeRogerDodger said:
Don’t try to be someone else to get someone. It ends poorly. You shouldn’t pretend to like opera/ theatre/ sports/ reality tv/ or whatever to try to get with someone unless you just want to get laid.

Also, any worthwhile relationship is going to change both of you. Lying about your interests is stupid. It’s like cucks who sell shit to please their spouse. Everyone has their hobbies. You should try to meet someone halfway. Try doing something they like even if you don’t really like it. Relationships are give and take.

Just be yourself means don’t be disingenuous about your interests. You know how many retards never correct someone on their interests and 5 years later they are divorced? You need to actually have something in common.
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This assumes both you and your interests don't suck.

What then?
 
HodgePodgeRogerDodger said:
Don’t try to be someone else to get someone. It ends poorly. You shouldn’t pretend to like opera/ theatre/ sports/ reality tv/ or whatever to try to get with someone unless you just want to get laid.

Also, any worthwhile relationship is going to change both of you. Lying about your interests is stupid. It’s like cucks who sell shit to please their spouse. Everyone has their hobbies. You should try to meet someone halfway. Try doing something they like even if you don’t really like it. Relationships are give and take.

Just be yourself means don’t be disingenuous about your interests. You know how many retards never correct someone on their interests and 5 years later they are divorced? You need to actually have something in common.
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I agree that pretending to be someone you're not isnt going to work, since she'll fall in love with a fake personality you put on. But "just be urself" is what people do naturally. Going to work, hanging out with the lads and otherwise pursue the introverted solo hobbies didn't generate a girlfriend. And I dont see how continuing to be yourself is going to somehow work out.
If you're a naturally outgoing guy that enjoys doing things in social groups, then of course youre going to bump into potential partners and maybe end up with a girlfriend. So your line of reasoning becomes "I did fun thing I enjoy ->I bumped into my girlfriend while doing that socail thing->social things let you bump into women that you could end up dating". But if step 1 of another person is "go home and play some videogames" then that doesnt work.
 
Waffle Iron said:
I agree that pretending to be someone you're not isnt going to work, since she'll fall in love with a fake personality you put on. But "just be urself" is what people do naturally. Going to work, hanging out with the lads and otherwise pursue the introverted solo hobbies didn't generate a girlfriend. And I dont see how continuing to be yourself is going to somehow work out.
If you're a naturally outgoing guy that enjoys doing things in social groups, then of course youre going to bump into potential partners and maybe end up with a girlfriend. So your line of reasoning becomes "I did fun thing I enjoy ->I bumped into my girlfriend while doing that socail thing->social things let you bump into women that you could end up dating". But if step 1 of another person is "go home and play some videogames" then that doesnt work.
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Well, pretending to be someone you’re not will work to get your dick wet. The problem is that keeping up your fake persona over a long time period is exhausting.

I spent my twenties “being myself” and barely got laid. When I started adopting the traits of a player/womanizer in my thirties, the results were immediate and very fulfilling.
 
I matched with another woman with a septum ring. She mentioned abandonment issues and unmatched me the next day, once again proving septum theory to be true.

Abandonment issues = BPD. Some of the self aware ones try to sugarcoat it.
 
We Are The Witches said:
Like which beliefs?
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As with basically anyone else here, im a very politically extreme person. Most people I've dated seem to solely tolerate my political beliefs instead of agreeing with me. Lots of men say they're politically extreme, but end up just being normie conservitards, which doesnt interest me at all.
 
dehumanizebodyandsoul said:
As with basically anyone else here, im a very politically extreme person. Most people I've dated seem to solely tolerate my political beliefs instead of agreeing with me. Lots of men say they're politically extreme, but end up just being normie conservitards, which doesnt interest me at all.
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You're on Kiwifarms, so I invite you to share your most extremist beliefs, if you feel up for it.

Out of curiosity, to see what they just tolerate but don't agree with.
 
Every other month I give in and recreate my Tinder, get a few matches and delete it. Somehow, sometimes I get matches with fat lgbts and even if the conversation goes great, at some point they without fail flip on a dime; the 'ick' if you will, and it comes crashing.

And yet it's never to do with genders, lgbt bullshit or failed flirts. I think women in general always have one foot out the door. I've had huge fights with male friends and we'd just move on, but to women it's do or die. A symbolic "w/e ur gay lol bye" move to go at any moment.

Sometimes I think back on that fat bitch who /hounded/ me and wonder if I should've for the humor of it, but it was a waste of time.
 
dehumanizebodyandsoul said:
As with basically anyone else here, im a very politically extreme person. Most people I've dated seem to solely tolerate my political beliefs instead of agreeing with me. Lots of men say they're politically extreme, but end up just being normie conservitards, which doesnt interest me at all.
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In that case, just find someone on Kiwi Farms. Just make sure to give all the details on your relationship so all the Farms can... give their love and support ♡.
 
dehumanizebodyandsoul said:
As with basically anyone else here, im a very politically extreme person. Most people I've dated seem to solely tolerate my political beliefs instead of agreeing with me. Lots of men say they're politically extreme, but end up just being normie conservitards, which doesnt interest me at all.
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Now that you've changed your pfp to a pony this is really hilarious to read. :story:
extreme-pony.webp
 
Personally i'm alone because i'm a fucking loner sped with niche interests and i lack the confidence to even approach market cashiers. Plus, i hope one day to move innawoods and become a demented hermit.
⋖ cørdion ⋗ said:
Every other month I give in and recreate my Tinder, get a few matches and delete it. Somehow, sometimes I get matches with fat lgbts and even if the conversation goes great, at some point they without fail flip on a dime; the 'ick' if you will, and it comes crashing.
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This is one of the big fears i have about Tinder despite my brother pushing me to try it to find a woman. I think many times how those heartless foids will talk about the weirdo they matched with, they will use me for a one night free meal or i will only match with mystery meat freaks.

Dunno if it's worth the effort but i rather just keep to myself
 
I deleted the dating apps. Tired of the fatties, crazies, single moms and fat, crazy single moms. I will not sacrifice my dignity to date a bottom of the barrel woman who already has a dozen other simps in her DM's. From now on, I will focus my time, money and energy into enjoying life without the bullshit that is modern dating.

Of course this had to happen right before I have to go to a family member's wedding. Fuck it, I live for myself for now on.
 
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