why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

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fat_rat_on_the_grass said:
They end up here, they just know what the climate is like so they dont outwardly brag or show off for the most part. Most people here who have some brain cells know that a lot of people act larger than life or put on a persona when they post for shits and giggles. The postcounts also are ususally a lot lower than the base population of manly kiwimen and they are more content to just watch but they are there. Also that brings up a good point because most of the guys here are the same where they are off kilter too. It is not black and white however and ive seen all sorts on this site in so many different job professions with so many different values lol.
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I'm saying that your average normal woman isn't going to end up on this site. Your average normal man won't either, but I feel like it will take more mental illness for a woman to end up here, then post here, vs a man posting here. It took me years to even make an account, then another year to start posting on it, for example, and I am an autistic woman. This isn't a normal website.
People find this site primarily because of radical political views or because they are latched onto a lolcow. That isn't normal or wholesome behavior, but men can at least blame higher testosterone levels for why they get pissed off at something enough to post about it online. Your average e-woman will haunt instagram or tiktok, your average e-man will haunt reddit. Reddit is deeper Internet than instagram or tiktok. KF is on a whole other level. Entrenching yourself on the Internet is already indicative of mental illness or unhappiness with one's own life.
If you think that there are more than a handful of 'normal' people here you don't know what a normal person is.
 
Not everyone is here to watch the world burn and see people encounter misfortune.. I for one always want them to become better people and cheer on the ones who arent pedophiles and animal fuckers (they go in the blender). Ullilililia is a good example. seeing him manage to make it and enjoy a normal life is my favorite. I feel like you are very black and white in your thinking and i just dont agree at all with most of what you said because it wasnt the way I found it :story:

I found it through artwork and stayed for the fun threads that shared a ton of images that were funny and silly. The site has changed over the years as have people, we are more online now than ever, even those youd consider normal spend a considerable amount of time each day online. It is simply the landscape now. i feel like you assume too much and your idea of normal isnt what other people percieve or believe in because everyones normal deviates drasticly depending on beliefs, status, knowledge, and wealth.

From talking to many people here ive learned many found this place through the most bizarre and strange ways that are silly, often just by chance and sheer confusion like me and then stayed for the laughs and lurked for a considerable amount of time.

There are many fun and great people on this site! Some normal, some have stuff going on or silly heads but I think so much of them all the same! I just wanna say its a lot more complicated than just lumping people into categories like that and thats not the kind of negativity and obsessive thinking that will do you any favors, but that is my opinion.

the perameters of normalcy that I see, many people from here fit into that. Lots have stable income, some friends and close family ties, they go out and read interesting things and seem to be quite worldly, ive met several like that here, and they are kind people too, far kinder than others on different sites which has always surprised me. Ive seen persons of interest who have been unfortunate friends of really cruel cows be consoled and helped countless times with great advice from people here and give a really appreciative impression.

I guess what im saying is everyone is so different and lots have stories worth listening to despite being abnormal and struggling, in fact its the struggle that often makes their stories so enthralling because somehow they found their way despite all of the suffering and chaos and i refuse to tear down a hardy motherfucker who goes rat mode to get shit done
 
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fat_rat_on_the_grass said:
There are many fun and great people on this site! Some normal, some have stuff going on or silly heads but I think so much of them all the same! I just wanna say its a lot more complicated than just lumping people into categories like that and thats not the kind of negativity and obsessive thinking that will do you any favors, but that is my opinion.
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You seem to think that I dislike abnormal people, and that mental instability or even illness is something that I perceive as negative. I don't think that all of the users here have twisted, fucked up minds and that we're all degenerates. I also didn't say that in either of my posts. I do think you are deluded for your big feely tangent though, which in of itself is an indication of the Internet mentality that I spoke of before.

I attend college. I am surrounded by normies every day. I make references to things that none of them understand but that most users on this forum would be at least somewhat aware of. A lot of them don't actually spend that much time on the Internet because they are busy with IRL activities like sports or hobbies. You are projecting your experience onto normal people and greatly overestimating how much time normal people spend on the Internet. If you went up to an average woman at a grocery store and attempted to tell her about the incredibly long threads that get posted about certain people or topics, would she understand or relate? I'm talking about statistical norms here. You seem to think I am passing judgement.
fat_rat_on_the_grass said:
the perameters of normalcy that I see, many people from here fit into that. Lots have stable income, some friends and close family ties, they go out and read interesting things and seem to be quite worldly, ive met several like that here, and they are kind people too, far kinder than others on different sites which has always surprised me. Ive seen persons of interest who have been unfortunate friends of really cruel cows be consoled and helped countless times with great advice from people here and give a really appreciative impression.
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The parameters of normalcy don't include spending hours at a time reading and contributing to an obscure Internet forum. That part of their life is abnormal. Someone can live a near completely normal life but they collect and categorize toy trains to an insane degree--most people would consider this person abnormal, regardless of how normal they seem otherwise. If you count the people who visit the site rarely or only come to read one thing, then sure, they aren't considerably abnormal.

This discussion began because I called the women that one could realistically find on this site abnormal. The people who visit the site rarely or only read one thing or who only lurk do not contribute to that quantity, because they aren't active members.
 
YHWH's Strongest Soldier said:
You cannot hide from me, tranny. I've posted on Kiwi Farms for a decade under multiple accounts and have over 300 confirmed tranny doxes. I've honed my mental illness into a deadly weapon and you stand no chance.
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If I was a tranny I'd kill myself. Trannies are retarded faggots who don't acknowledge reality because they know they're so ugly and insufferable they couldn't ever be successful as what they are. I am not a tranny, I am a woman with ASD/Aspergers. One of my IRL friends is also a true and honest woman with ASD. We do exist.
 
From what I've seen there are a variety of female users here. Some of them came here because it's the only place you are allowed to shit on trannies. Some came here to follow and discuss their favorite lolcow, others came because of corona, etc. Some of them seem functional with families and what not. I'm sure there are also crazy catladies. While I can understand your standpoint on most normal people not using a lot of internet, a male kiwi probably isn't looking for someone who's very extroverted. And I think introverts are a lot more online and a lot of the female users were would be more introverted than the average.

I wouldn't say I would specifically want to date a woman that uses kiwifarms, but the type of woman I think I would mesh well with would be someone that could fit the user profile of a kiwifarmer.
Fat and ugly might not be very attractive, but some of the features of a "normal" woman wouldn't necessary be attractive either. As introvert social gatherings drain my energy, while quiet recharges them. Dating someone who would always want to seek out social gatherings would not end up working out.

Who would share personal info here anyway, sounds like a bad idea.
 
Forsaken Wanderer said:
I don't know if there is a term for the opposite of stockholm syndrome but that is what women have given me. They have been so unfriendly and so toxic for the past 15 years that I cannot find any reason to want to be near one of them.
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I want to like women. I want to look at every woman and imagine myself a troubled soul that deserves redemption. Then I look at my actual experiences with women. Around women, adjacent to women, experiencing women, and they've been inferior every single one.

I think it peaked when I sat in a relatively normie Discord, witnessing a guy walk on eggshells as he tried to express a simple take: "I am hopeful for women but I've only had bad experiences with them". Two supposedly 'banter-friendly, one-of-the-boys' women immediately flamed him, a friend of years. No, he must be the issue. No woman is capable of being even remotely unlikeable. These women who in theory may not even exist are queens, unlike this loser; their supposed friend.

I know boring brunettes who yearn for a 4/10 exist, but like said 4/10s, they reside at home, scared of going to social spaces or attempt to find love online. Dating apps are dogshit but nonetheless they're a litmus test of someone ready to 'stoop' to actually wanting to date and let people know as much. I've matched and spoken with a few of these loserettes and it always falls through because they simply do not have the social skills, probably from self-isolation to avoid stalkers and simps.

Yet, men are told to face these issues and overcome them. Hit the gym, become worthwhile. Most women are told they're worthwhile from the get-go and as long as SoCieTy puts them on pedestals, they'll never have to stoop. They'll only get to choose between bad dudes, sure, but they got options nonetheless. "I just need one good job interview" is easier on the soul when you get 3 interviews a month than 1 a year.
 
WillyPete said:
I'm just going to wait until I'm in my 30s and have a good career / stable income and then marry a 20 something from a poor eastern European country or the Baltics and I'll make it absolutely crystal clear who is in control, and the only reason I even want that is because I want kids
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Get a load of this retard.

Look retard this shit has been done by milenial men and it landed them either broke and single or broke, single with alimony and child support payments. Faggots like you cries about the evils of women who are willing to do 50/50 on dates. You think your cheap , broke and sagging German ass will be remotely interesting for eastern European women in a decade from now? You think slavic women are that cheap, poor and stupid as your german women and accept splitting on dates?!There are now eastern Europeans coming back from your meme country in droves . Poland, Bulgaria and many others have net zero immigration because your country taxes everyone to death so some mudslime with his 2 wife's and 10 children can live free on taxpayers dime.

Not to mention you deindustrialize faster than Soviet Union countries in the 90s.

You will be lucky some sheboon will be interested in your white ass in 2030s and you will be lucky if you have any job in by that time and not have to go to mother Russia for work like the gasterbaiters in 50s/60s/ 70s who came to yours,loser.

Ooga booga women from other countries will want to split bills and do the bulk of the chores because I am big white ape. Fuck off cheapskate go find your bangmaid in fucking Nigeria or afganistan.
 
Chester Copperpot said:
I'm 50 and female and lets face it, men desire young women, and qualities in a man that might appeal to women, such as intelligence or financial security, don't have the same currency going the other way. Maybe I also need to filter the crap out of my photos to get a bite, but what is the point of giving people the wrong idea? Obviously once we meet they will see what I really look like.

Its ok. I'm pretty happy to be single.
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Just put in you have a house then open the age filter from 20 to 60 . Watch matches roll in. Make sure your hobosexual looks good and knows how to treat women . Never marry them or put them on anything yours .

There are plenty 20 something men who will gladly dance to your tune if you have a spare bedroom.
 
Pure Soap said:
I put off dating in my 20s so I could save up enough money to put a significant down payment on my house. Now I’m in my early 30s and all of the women that are available either have kids or are batshit insane leftists. Shit sucks, man.
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So I dated a lot in my 20's and all the women I was with were batshit fucking insane, so I took a break in my 30's from dating so I could focus on myself. I "dated" two women in my 30s for less than a month each time. Now I'm in my 40's and all those women who were in their 30's had even more kids or are even more insane than when in their 30's. It doesn't get better lol.
 
Justa Grata Honoria said:
Just put in you have a house then open the age filter from 20 to 60 . Watch matches roll in. Make sure your hobosexual looks good and knows how to treat women . Never marry them or put them on anything yours .

There are plenty 20 something men who will gladly dance to your tune if you have a spare bedroom.
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Unfortunately in Australia letting them move in results in a defacto marriage at law, so no hobosexuals in my future. I did search to see if there was a male equivalent to the mail order bride, but it seems like Nigerian scammers are the closest thing. And I don't want to send money for fake picks and being asked if I ate today. 🤣
 
PSA: If you're worried about your assets being taken in divorce, put them in a trust. Also, get a prenup. A lot of the manosphere's biggest talking points against relationships are divorce settlements, but there's pretty good protections nowadays if you have any kind of significant assets.
 
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