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My dad has dementia and alzheimers. They're basically the same thing afaik.
This is correct. Alzheimer's is a kind of dementia, like peaches are a kind of fruit.

AFAIK, so far there are only a couple of studies published of post-op transwoman experiencing dementia. The one you see referenced all the time is pretty short, the one where a 76-year-old had a female partner but separate apartments, started bringing strange men home to bang.

Here's the only other one I'm aware of, where the troon had mild dementia and was either confabulating or keeping his story straight--always been a woman, of course I gave birth to them. However, he was 85 and had had surgery in his 70s, estranging his family when he did so.

I worry that it's going to become a real problem that isn't allowed to be studied, because of the chilling effect of anything that troons might dislike.
 
When I was like 10 or 11 I wanted to be a bunny because I didn't like going to school.
I have a vivid memory of asking my mom "wouldn't you want to be a rabbit so you could eat and rest instead of worrying about human things?"
Clearly I was a therian, guys.
Actually it seems that you've unsuppressed these memories in time to celebrate your authentic self. The working rabbit's holiday of Easter is soon upon us. Don those ears champ, we can see your true calling through the painful text.
We're going to crack your Easter egg. You WILL switch to a diet of only leafy vegetables and dig a hole in the ground to sleep in.
 
the user is an obese type 1 diabetic and can't get troon juice through insurance until he "loses weight". a huge portion of comments in all of their posts are tranny gooners telling them to DIY themselves some bathtub estrogen (of course). there are also the typical "GURL U BETTER RETAIN A LAWYER GURL BECAUSE WHAT UR MOTHER IS DOIN IS ILLEGAL GURL EVEN THOUGH U STILL LIVE AT HOME GURL". again, typical redditor replies.

bonus, here's a cartoonishly graphic NOT MENTALLY ILL BTW drawing they made for attention illustrating how they feel on the inside


Sweet Jesus, I can't even imagine the levels of 'just use the men's room, Richard' this woman must be on. I just hope she uses humor as a coping mechanism, and thus cackles as long and as raucously as it merits. I STG trannies are the most coddled demographic alive, the mere idea of proportionality is a human rights abuse to them.
 
This is correct. Alzheimer's is a kind of dementia, like peaches are a kind of fruit.

AFAIK, so far there are only a couple of studies published of post-op transwoman experiencing dementia. The one you see referenced all the time is pretty short, the one where a 76-year-old had a female partner but separate apartments, started bringing strange men home to bang.

Here's the only other one I'm aware of, where the troon had mild dementia and was either confabulating or keeping his story straight--always been a woman, of course I gave birth to them. However, he was 85 and had had surgery in his 70s, estranging his family when he did so.

I worry that it's going to become a real problem that isn't allowed to be studied, because of the chilling effect of anything that troons might dislike.
Or the generations after will see the fallout, and then it gets a complete and total ban worldwide and research into alternative treatments begin.
 
This is correct. Alzheimer's is a kind of dementia, like peaches are a kind of fruit.
On a lighter note; A few years ago I was talking about the horrors of the srs surgeries with my mother.
My dad heard a bit of it and asked what we were talking about.
I said. "Well, you can have you penis split down the middle, the insides scooped out,
and get the rest shoved up inside you"
His face was hilarious and after a moment, he said "I don't think I'll bother"
 
Is it too late to celebrate TDOV with all of you?
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Wow, what a bunch of bitches! How could they not celebrate this beautiful queen living xer truth?
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Behold the visibility, so much of it!
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The last one is from two years ago, he/she’s come a long way!
 
2 American Transbians have fled Massachussets to Canada. Upset he can't get bottom surgery as it's too dangerous for him to return to the US. Risk of being detained and having documents taken.
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I made a decision that broke my own heart.
I've withdrawn from getting bottom surgery in Massachusetts. Not because I don't want it--God, want it. Not because I'm unsure. But because I can't
I don't live in the country anymore. I can't afford it. 1 can't make the logistics work. And the truth that's been sitting in my chest like a weight...
It's not safe for me to go back
I hate even saying that.
I miss my friends so much it hurts. I miss my family. I miss the version of my life that felt within reach. And now I'm standing here having to let that go--not because I'm ready, but because I have to be.
I can't risk my spouse being detained. I can't risk my documents being taken. I can't risk everythinc we've built just to chase something that, right now could cost us way more than I can handle losing.

And that fucking sucks
I'm angry. I'm heartbroken. I'm grieving something that was supposed to be mine. A step in my transition that I fought so hard to get to-and now I have to walk awav from it
But I'm not walking away from myself
I'm choosing safety. I'm choosing us. I'm choosing to protect the life we're building, even if it means carrying this ache for a while.
I don't regret doing what's right,
I just hate that this is what "right" looks like right now.
But... I'm not starting from zero,
I've already started the process here in Canada. I'm still moving forward. It's just a different path than I imagined.
Still here. Still me. Still fighting for my life--just doing it in a way that keeps me safe

Just... hurting. And healing at the same time. 🏳️‍⚧️
 
STOP LOOKING AT ME !!!!!!! 8)

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People stare at me. And I mean a lot. Every time I go for groceries, for example, at least a couple of men would stare me in the eye. I'm getting kinda used to that (because what can you do), but it's still creepy as fuck. Some of them just stare straight into my soul and don't look away even if I look back into their eyes. Multiple times.

Women stare too, but their looks don't seem nearly as weird as men's (usually). Also kids always do that, but that's not creepy at all, more like funny.

My hair is like chest-long, I'm wearing baggy clothes, don't wear any makeup and shave my face nearly daily. I think you can count that as boymoding. Also I'm like 1.5 years on HRT. I have no idea how actually feminine I look, it's impossible for me to tell because ✨brainworms✨ and in the mirror I see a man staring back at me. My friends tell me that I'm very pretty and girly, but some of them say that I don't look like a girl at all.

So the question is: do people stare so much because they see me as a woman or because they see me as a man with long hair? Is there a way to actually see if you are being read as a woman?

BTW, I was never stared at before transition, even when my hair was dyed blue (it was short though)
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My hair is like chest-long, I'm wearing baggy clothes, don't wear any makeup and shave my face nearly daily. I think you can count that as boymoding. Also I'm like 1.5 years on HRT. I have no idea how actually feminine I look, it's impossible for me to tell because ✨brainworms✨ and in the mirror I see a man staring back at me. My friends tell me that I'm very pretty and girly, but some of them say that I don't look like a girl at all.
BTW, I was never stared at before transition, even when my hair was dyed blue (it was short though)
Sorry, no selfie. Also seems to be the only Reddit post for this account so far.

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Zero. The normal amount is zero.

For trans people, it depends on where you are and (unfortunately) how well you “pass.” I’m a standard issue* suburban white woman , so I don’t get stared often. I’ve had it happen, especially early transition.

In summation: there is no way to measure a “normal” amount of stares. I’m sorry you’re going through it. You shouldn’t ever be getting stares but such is the current state of the world.
Since I got booba ive been stared a lot, I don't wear bras at work and they definitely peak out though...so there's that.

And it's always Men for me

But in reality? No one should be dead eye staring at you ever. Like, Eye contact is for intimate moments and anything more than a glance at someone going about their day is rude.
 
Is it too late to celebrate TDOV with all of you?
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"She told her best friend about it without my consent".

Oh so now consent matters? Not when you're told it's rape by deception if you don't disclose you're a troonardo to the drunk loser you dragged home? In that case his consent doesn't matter, but yours does always?

The audacity of these transvestites is astounding.
 
Another trunt trying to blame CIS people for everything.
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I had my first session today with a new therapist for some short-term counseling support before and after my upcoming gender reassignment surgery in two weeks and to work through a lot of chapters in my life coming to a close at the same time.

Overall, she passed the general vibe check, and we started getting deeper into the weeds about my transition (length of transition, what I've done (including facial feminization surgery), how people in my life have reacted, support during surgery, etc.). Afterwards, she asked me how it felt for my transition to be coming to an end with gender reassignment surgery.

I clarified that I just see this surgery as a major step of my transition and not necessarily the end of it. Before I could say anything else or clarify, she asked if I was trying to turn myself "into a barbie."

I was entirely taken back by this question. I want to give the benefit of the doubt, but it just felt so degrading to have the process of transition be distilled down to that question, and I can't shake the ick I feel from it. I'm trying to decide if I try for another session or just terminate and look for another therapist.

What are people's thoughts? Am I overreacting?

Edit: Shouldn't need to be said, but as I've seen a few comments that seem to insinuate I'm talking down to transgender women who might seek to be super femme, including some that are no longer here, all transgender women are valid however masc, femme, or defying of description.

So asking questions about mutilating yourself and seeing if your okay is now offensive

cis people will look you in the eye and say the craziest shit you've ever heard


I had a coworker say to me (in regards to my transition), “you know, in my country we’d’ve killed you.”

It wasn’t a threat. He said it casually. Like “drinking and driving is illegal.” “Dinner comes after lunch.”

I was like, “ha, yeah… I know…”

And we kept talking casually for like half an hour after that ><


Me: “That’s why your country sucks ass and you didn’t stay there.”
This is the kind of question I always follow up with "What do you mean by that"? If they're implying something shitty, I want them to own it and say it plainly. If they're saying something poorly and im misunderstanding them, I want to understand.
No, I want to be a Bratz Doll 💋💅🏽

This is why I found a trans therapist
Ah yes so they can agree with you and let you win every argument instead of a honest one.

Report her. Extremely unprofessional.
For doing her job.
 
"She told her best friend about it without my consent".

Oh so now consent matters? Not when you're told it's rape by deception if you don't disclose you're a troonardo to the drunk loser you dragged home? In that case his consent doesn't matter, but yours does always?

The audacity of these transvestites is astounding.
That’s one of the many things that infuriates me about these MFers, you spring this bullshit on me AND OUR CHILDREN and I’m supposed to just bear this burden alone? Can’t tell any friends? Not even my parents? And we can only go to affirmation-only couples therapy? I can’t even post about it online anonymously without being scolded for being twansphobic unless I’m privy to the few websites that allow honest conversation. It’s like they don’t even view their own family members as people.
 
These older pooner's had sabotaged their relationships in the past because they were jealous of men and saw the "woman role" as an humiliation slave.


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Sabotaged my relationships because I was jealous of cis men (self.FTMOver30)
submitted 1 day ago by confused_potato777
I’m in my mid-30s and only started seriously questioning my gender about a year ago, and getting the language to understand dysphoria. Before that, I was what most people would describe as a very assertive, dominant, tomboy-ish woman.
But I’ve been reflecting on my dating history (from about 19 to now), and there’s a pattern: I was… not a good partner.
It showed in how I related to the men I dated:
• I would go straight for their vulnerabilities in arguments

• I framed things as a kind of “men vs women” battle

• I constantly tried to prove I was stronger, more stoic, more economically successful

• If they tried to protect me or take on a “masculine” role, I would react badly and laugh at them

• I’d humiliate them by comparing myself to them (money, discipline, emotional control)

• I acted hypersexual at times, even cheating, but more as a statement (“women are sexual too”) than from actual desire
The confusing part is that I don’t actually like dominance or control. I don’t enjoy dom/sub dynamics. I don’t want to “lead” a partner or carry that responsibility. What I’ve always wanted is something more equal: banter, teasing, mutual respect. If anything, I lean more bratty than dominant.
So why did I behave like that?
The only explanation that’s starting to make sense is this: I was jealous of them because they were cis men. They were a mirror of my insecurities, and I was the typical “small dick energy” partner who needs to feel more than others in any field to overcompensate.
Being with them constantly put me in a position where I was “the woman,” whether I liked it or not. And instead of recognizing that discomfort, I reacted by competing with them.
I felt threatened by something they had naturally that I didn’t even understand I wanted: being a man.
And instead of acknowledging that, I pushed them down.
What’s hard is that I did love these people. But the closer I got to them, the more this dynamic came out. I can see now how exhausting and hurtful it must have been.
I’m not writing this to beat myself up, but to understand it.
Has anyone else here had a similar realization later in life?
Where your past relationships make more sense once you started questioning your gender?
I’m trying to figure out what’s “me” vs what was me reacting to something I didn’t have language for yet.


Many in the comments talk about how the often would humiliate their boyfriends to feel powerful or emasculated being treated like women.

jamfedora 38 points 1 day ago
I’m honestly really impressed you’ve managed to identify these patterns, most of them are often opaque to the people doing them, especially the impetus. You probably still need outside help to work on them though, cuz that’s… geez that’s an unhealthy pattern. Not saying I don’t relate though. I was desperate for male friends in school but I had trouble getting or keeping any because I’d get too competitive or rough with them (while I did and do think they tolerated that less in a “girl” and I’d get even madder about it, I also clearly lacked the experience in boundaries they developed years earlier). And I’ve been just kinda weird about my male exes doing anything boyfriend-coded or more masculine than me, in ways I didn’t realize were messing with their self-worth. And sexually I felt it Important to only Domme when presenting as a woman, or never be emotionally or very physically vulnerable for vanilla stuff either, and had a visceral disgust toward straight male Doms, even ones I had every reason to believe were safe and lovely.

[–]marqrs 11 points 1 day ago
Wow... this is deeply familiar in a very uncomfortable way.
I'm about to hit 40 now, but this feels like something I could have written in my mid-30s. I just never thought about it this way.
As a kid I was exactly like this with all my guy friends. All of elementary and middle school this was 100% my MO; it softened a bit in HS when I started dating my now ex-wife, but came roaring back when I got with a guy after.
Story time (skippable):
My first serious relationship was with a women happy to be the fem, so it all played out fine (minus other issues lol). Her mother gave me all the "boy chores" whenever we'd visit, and I was on a serious high every time (now I know the term is gender euphoria).
My second one was and it definitely brought back my old competitive, "girls vs. boys" - gotta prove I am the tough and capable one. Little things cropped up with him that I'd never experienced before too. For instance, I remember watching him shave his face with a fascination and envy that I could not find the words for back then.
He also had some gender confusion in hindsight, so we made it work in some weird ways, because he was perfectly happy to not be the guy once he realized I would fill that role.
On the other hand, he's also the only person I ever cheated on, so... clearly it was not right.
As soon as we broke up, I started seriously confronting all the old gender questions and confusion - it just hit me out of nowhere and cropped up every night before bed. Maybe cuz I was alone and letting myself think/feel?
But also I think partly due to those years of being with a guy, up close and personal.
By the time I got to my current relationship (now married), I had accepted that there was something going on and slowly begun sorting it out. That has helped a lot, though I still have some of that need to prove myself or wear the pants or whatever.
Having a partner who has committed to me regardless of where I land on the gender question helps a lot though, because I can stop suppressing or fearing what's going on internally and just get to know the real me.


mavericklovesthe80s 7 points 1 day ago
Yes. I hated men in general, like really despised them. Feeling superior because I was not into them at all (kinda changed on T now). Turns out I was extremely jealous. So yeah, not strange at all.

[–]Powerful_Rub_2968 4 points 1 day ago
Yeah, this all makes a lot of sense. These feelings hit close to home.

[–]Character_Drop_739 4 points 1 day ago
Hard relate. I was in a years long dick measuring contest with cis men. I think the tough thing is with cis men, there is often lots that is concerning. Their socialization fucks them up. So for me, there was some legitimacy to the concerns and frustrations I had with them (most often sexism or a lack of effort on their part), but often I was unfair/harsh or lacking objectivity or compassion. And that’s me being honest abt where I was at in my 20s.
I think also being on the other side of it feels very different. Testosterone actually does make me feel more distant from my emotions, almost like they are easier to cut off and dissociate. And now being a more masculine partner in relationships with women, I completely get being an avoidant partner and the dance that occurs from a new side.
Tl;dr I completely relate. For me therapy and 12 step around relationships (coda or slaa for example) were the most useful in unpacking my behaviors and relational patterns

[–]confused_potato777 3 points 1 day ago
Dick measuring contest, that’s another accurate way of describing it. Ironically, the avoidant compartmentalizing part in my relationships was me, while these were mostly sensitive men (somewhat abusive in their own way tho, it was mutual). I regret so much that dynamic.

[–]Character_Drop_739 3 points 1 day ago
For me regret and grief is part of growth. As others have said you’re showing incredible insight. I actually don’t think we can be in partnership with another human without our shadowy bits and inner children coming up. You’re doing the work and it’s painful for a reason- AND you are not alone. Because it is exceedingly human to get it wrong, learn and grow and do different now that you’re older and wiser, with more stability.


Toby-Wolfstone 1 point 12 hours ago
I had similar feelings, but as a genderfluid person who identifies strongly both as man and woman—mine was half-jealousy, and half just straight up hating misogyny. I had a lot to prove in both directions, and I never dated men in my attempt to avoid becoming an abusive partner. Now in my late 30’s, on T, and married to an amazing woman, and also having done almost a decade of therapy, I am much more chill and I don’t feel nearly as much like I need to compete with men.
Congratulations on the self-awareness. That’s huge.

[–]ObviousCloudMeansRai 1 point 9 hours ago
I was confused by my hypersexuality, but as a gay man it's not even questioned. But I do know that it's also a stereotype that can be harmful. Many things to think about all the time!

[–]Scary_Towel268 -13 points 1 day ago
I’ll be honest this attitude is safest when dating cis men pre-passing. I don’t pass and that’s how I’d react too because otherwise the cis men get real weird
Call it toxic but if I ever dated a cis man again this is the energy I’d take because otherwise they’d just view me as a femme cis woman. Tbf this is also why I don’t date cis men typically

[–]dizzlethebizzlemizzl 19 points 1 day ago
While cis men are often dangerous and I understand caution, this details actions that are abusive. You do not protect yourself from abusers by becoming one. That’s an easy pipeline, and one that you see regularly on social media a lot, but it’s not a good one, and it’s not one that’s going to help you develop secure and healthy romantic relationships, OR protect you like you feel that it will. The cis men are, likewise, usually prone to those actions through the cycles of abuse they’ve endured. You want to be better than them, mirroring their behavior and responses to their own trauma is not the way to do it.

Scary_Towel268 -3 points 1 day ago
As I said at the end, this is why I typically don’t date cis men(hookup with sure but nothing too close) because the dynamic always turns toxic with me either trying to emotionally connect and getting feminized/misgendered/pushed into a detrans thing or well this.
I currently am not dating at all for my mental health but I recognize that if I did enter a long term romantic relationship with a cis guy I’d see him this way more than likely

[–]chicken-mcmuffin 8 points 1 day ago
Therapy therapy therapy therapy therapy

[–]Scary_Towel268 0 points 1 day ago
I’m already in therapy and we discuss this often

[–]dizzlethebizzlemizzl 7 points 1 day ago
While it’s understandable how you got there, that thought framing is pathological, and it’s the same framing that tends to perpetuate abuse regardless of gender.
Whether your partner is a man, woman, or nonbinary, you need to examine that before you resume dating. While this context of projecting trauma onto others seems valid, if you’re okay with that, it inevitably follows that you project past traumas on all potential partners (just to varying degrees).
It’s not the “safest” way to deal with cis men. It doesn’t protect you from anything for it to be safer. It only harms your partners and sabotages your relationships.
Props for working on your mental health, please continue to do so though. Lots to unpack, as always.

[–]SecondaryPosts 9 points 1 day ago
Dude. This is toxicity at best, emotional abuse at worst. It is not a good or "safe" attitude no matter where you are in your transition or who you're dating.
Cis men are people. If you can't see that, stay tf away from them for their sake.

[–]Scary_Towel268 0 points 1 day ago*
It’s an attitude that ensures cis male partners see me as a guy or treat me as one. I have had partners try to misgender me or detrans me if I showed too much emotional connection and softness. Due to not passing, I sometimes have to be more aggressive in my masculine behaviors with cis men so that they understand that I don’t see the relationship as a typical heterosexual one
As I said I don’t date cis men romantically and rarely engage sexually. I never said they weren’t people but I feel that I shouldn’t do emotional labor or take on a feminine role with them because it can lead to misgendering or pressure to detransition particularly with my look
I recognize it’s not healthy but I do feel safer and know I’m more respected as a man or at the very least not seen as a “typical AFAB person” because of this attitude
Cis men have not treated me like a person so i reciprocate in kind. Often they view me from a sexualized, bioesssentialist lens and seeing what they can get out of the relationship(often trying to get heteronormative emotional and sexual labor) so I view the relationship as equally transactional from the get go


Character_Drop_739 0 points 1 day ago
Hey, just wanted to say I see what you’re saying. It’s a valid choice not to date cis men if this is the pattern that comes up. There is reality to masculine people being primed from birth to abuse anyone vaguely woman shaped. I’ve been reading bell hooks’ “the will to change” on masculinity lately and that has helped me.
As a trans dude I’m gunning for a type of masculinity that is liberatory and does not harm. If I believe thats possible for me, I also want to believe that cis men have the ability and agency to get there if they really try.
For me some stuff that helped was interacting with men more platonically in ways that felt affirming. Once I met dudes that treated me like a dude and didn’t sexualize me, stuff really shifted. I started having more compassion for them and seeing the way that patriarchy harms them too and keeps them stuck.


It's interesting how they see men as monsters who use and abuse and women as just sexual objects not even human.

While the gaycel version see men as something to have sex with, and women are just in the way of that.

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It's interesting how they see men as monsters who use and abuse and women as just sexual objects not even human.
And then they somehow decide they want to be men?
I guess at least they're honest about their abusive bullshit behaviors being driven by insecurity. They didn't have male friends in school because no one, male or female, wants to deal with that shit. It just sounds exhausting.
"I'm an arsehole, all men are arseholes, therefore I'm a man!"
 
To be honest those posts just cement the theory that pretty much all trannies and pooners have a form of personality disorder. "Gender envy" aspect of it aside that is how abusive, disordered people behave. I don't think it was because of the dysphoria girlies I think you guys are just abusive cunts because you're mental.
 
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