His kids don't need to experience the double pain of their father leaving their lives and suddenly coming back as an HRT-addled abomination that now won't fucking leave.
Thats gotta be the worst part of this for the kids that find themselves the victims of having a parent Troon out. Its hard enough for a kid having to go through their parents divorce with all the self doubt and worry that they're somehow the cause of it, being uprooted, like their whole world has just lost its fucking keel and they're now adrift.
Add to that the sheer horror and despair of the parent they felt they were losing
being replaced by an ugly cross dressing pervert, thats talking in a weird voice, acting weird, taking hormones so they start looking like a literal monster, a twisted fucking Hellraiser version of the parent they knew and loved... that shit has got to be so fucking damaging on a psychological level, and I don't know what would be worse, the kid being so young that all this shit is just incomprehensible to them, or being old enough that they can find out
just what being a tranny is and entails reading about the sissy porn, seeing their gross fetish posts on pReddit, where they're typing with one hand LARPing about their girldicks, and then
seeing the truth of what the "surgeries" are knowing your parent is so rotted and consumed by a disgusting fetish they're actually paying to have that insanity done to them... and then the monster that was their parent is forcing themselves into their lives, won't leave them alone, embarassing them in front of their friends, looking hideous, talking weird, acting faggy, seeing them get "euphoria" through their too short dresses when they force them to call him "mommy"... shit is fucking child abuse and any one who would subject their children to it should be barred from contacting them or any other child.
Look when you have a kid you are making a fucking commitment to put them and their wellbeing above anything or anyone else, including yourself, for at least 18 years, and really for life, within reason. That child hasn't got a choice who their parents are, the least that parent can do is be a responsible fucking adult.
If you can't make that commitment don't have kids.
Okay so while I find this man absolutely repugnant and disgusting, I will say that I concede that the mother is most likely influencing the kids as to what to say and how to feel about the father. Is it good that she is doing this? To an extent, yes. But...
When parents split up, it is super important that the parents do NOT drag their children into the conflict. The parents should not talk shit about each other to their kids. Obviously this doesn't apply if one of the parents is an abusive person or a rapist or something. But when the dad troons out, that really is a hairy line. Is just him dressing as a woman enough for the mother to keep the kids away from him? I don't know. But I do know that more likely than not, a lot of the talking points from the kids came from the mother.
While I 100% agree with that on principle, if its a situation where a parent Troons out and chooses a sick fucking fetish over their family all that shit goes out the window. The sane parent in those circumstances has a responsibility to both warn their kids of the danger of the pervert that has replaced their parent like a fucking coom soaked pod person, and to protect those kids from being around the Troon and likely groomed.
A decent person doesn't use kids as a weapon in a divorce, but if one person turns out to be a pedophile/troon/rapist/beastophile etc, then its an entirely different situation, with different rules about whats appropriate. You're dealing with a sexual pervert that has chosen a fetish over their family. One thats got a social contagion that compels them to spread it to others.
The kids safety comes first.