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Hi. I have a small collection of tranny related L’s that I have found that I wanted to share with you all. Sorry as always if there are any reposts.
(Also most of these aren’t my screenshots so I haven’t been able to cooy the text some for ease of reading)
Pooner upset at straight men on Grindr whilst being a straight woman on Grindr…
The woman ivolved in the heavily skewed female hobby of crochet are not pandering to this fat fuck genderspecial and her shit cardigan enough.
Troon rejected for job at strip club. Crisis ensues.
Vent
fuck everything. i hate being trans, i hate this literally useless body, i hate it all.
just for one day, i just wanna be a different person. i want to switch places with a random cis girl that has the body parts i was robbed of, the experiences ill never live, the attention ill never get, the womanhood i feel ill never have.
i just want to be a normal cis woman for once, just one day. id give absolutely everything i own plus the clothes on my back if i could live that.
but no, instead I'm stuck here at 4:30 in the morning, after being rejected an audition at a strip club earlier tonight because of my sex, hating myself so much and wishing i could go to sleep and never wake up again in the hopes that my next life will bring me the body i deserved from the start.
tldr fuck everything
That pesky Y chromosome again. Did this dude really think transitioning changes DNA? Also pretty sure your relatives know you are a man anyways…. Plus you humiliate yourself by being a troon everyday anyways. What’s the problem?
Troon grossed out by his and his boyfriends… I mean lesbian lovers genitals. Hard to roleplay as lesbians when there are penises involved I imagine?
So I made a throwaway for this because I was really worried about making a post like this, and I'm so sorry if this brings dysphoria at all to anyone reading it especially. But I started dating for the first time recently (I'm a trans woman 3 years hrt) and my first gf ever is another wonderful trans girl that I love with all my heart (dating for 5 months) . I've never connected with, or felt this way about another person all my life. I do happen to be ace-ish where I don't really find genitalia of either agab to be attractive (however I do find our original equipment to be less appealing of the two), but when we got a little raunchy for the first time, and I see all of her as beautiful and as a woman including her equipment, however I still can't get past her nether region. I don't see this as something that makes her (or myself) any less of a woman in any way, but I just am a little grossed out by it (and I'm also extremely dysphoric and grossed out about my own nether part). I also hide mine whenever we've gotten raunchy and I just don't know how to talk to her about it.
also please don't dm me, I'm signing out of this account right after making this post I just wanted to hear other takes or if anyone could relate or had any advice. thank you so much!
Just lol.
ADVICE REQUEST
Maybe it's an overreaction, but it finally sunk in today, I guess, that I don't pass, can't pass, will never pass. I'm fucking ugly. It was just one accidental slip up, but it was the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm tired of feeling like people are talking about me behind my back, judging me, knowing that I am trans.
I'm going to cut my hair and get on testosterone, likely a very low dose tho, I don't want to go bald. I had an orchiectomy two years ago and boy am I regretting that now as I realize I'll never make it as the opposite sex. I regret it. I honestly regret even trying. Maybe my mental health would've stabilized, and I would be in a much different place.
Instead I'm a loser. I can barely hold down a job and my health issues are growing. I'm only 28 and all I have to my name is that I'm a veteran, and I'm a tr*nny. I'd kill myself if I had the balls to, but I gave those up too I guess. What a failure of a life.
I don't know that I'd ever recommend it to another trans person ever again. I'm not sure I guess, but I don't think I'd tell anyone to pull the trigger. Society hates us when we do that. And I've come to hate myself for it. Any advice or support would be appreciated. Don't even know where to start, probably socially huh? Thanks either way.
Pooner mad that troons talk over her in trans spaces. Speak up lil dudekingbro, you are meant to be the man here!
I'm having a rough time connecting with my local trans community. I'm one of the facilitators for a local support group and help run a discord server. However, all the members except myself and one other guy are all transfemme. I find myself being talked over during group meetings, ignored in the server, while all the other trans girls get attention, love, support, and friendship. Even though I'm a founding member of the support group I feel unwelcome in the community because I'm a guy and the girls make comments about my "white male privilege" and how I just don't get what they are going through.
But mates, I don't pass. I have no privilege. I am just as oppressed by the patriarchy as they are, perhaps even more so because while I am on T that doesn't magically change our patriarchal society. Many of the members have excellent jobs because of the privilege they experienced before coming out, while I'm struggling to keep down a low-paying blue collar job because I'm trans.
I feel so lonely and am considering stepping down from being a facilitator, especially since I am not listened to, or included in conversations. The girls don't want to talk to me. I'm an introvert but friendly, and desperately long for friends (the one other trans guy is rad btw, but more outgoing than I and doesn't seem to have trouble making friend or being listened to in group and discord).
Honestly, I'm very close to a breaking point and my mental health has taken a very steep decline because of this. I hate that society at large sees me as worthless because of my agab, and that the trans community also sees me as worthless because of my actual gender.
Sometimes I hate existing.
You are a coomer.
NOT TRANNY L’s AS SUCH…MORE LIKE HANDMAIDEN L’s.
No comment.
Running event organiser is upset over people gaming their non-binary catergory. How you planning to police that? They are who they say they are at any given time
And my personal favourite. OP’s pooner sister fannot fathom why she wasn’t invited to sisters bachelorette party…. She is mad she wasn’t invited but she probably would have been angry if she had been because of “muh invalidated”. Pooners man.
(Also most of these aren’t my screenshots so I haven’t been able to cooy the text some for ease of reading)
Pooner upset at straight men on Grindr whilst being a straight woman on Grindr…
The woman ivolved in the heavily skewed female hobby of crochet are not pandering to this fat fuck genderspecial and her shit cardigan enough.
Troon rejected for job at strip club. Crisis ensues.
I hate being trans. I just wanna be normal for once
Vent
fuck everything. i hate being trans, i hate this literally useless body, i hate it all.
just for one day, i just wanna be a different person. i want to switch places with a random cis girl that has the body parts i was robbed of, the experiences ill never live, the attention ill never get, the womanhood i feel ill never have.
i just want to be a normal cis woman for once, just one day. id give absolutely everything i own plus the clothes on my back if i could live that.
but no, instead I'm stuck here at 4:30 in the morning, after being rejected an audition at a strip club earlier tonight because of my sex, hating myself so much and wishing i could go to sleep and never wake up again in the hopes that my next life will bring me the body i deserved from the start.
tldr fuck everything
That pesky Y chromosome again. Did this dude really think transitioning changes DNA? Also pretty sure your relatives know you are a man anyways…. Plus you humiliate yourself by being a troon everyday anyways. What’s the problem?
Troon grossed out by his and his boyfriends… I mean lesbian lovers genitals. Hard to roleplay as lesbians when there are penises involved I imagine?
I'm a transbian dating another transbian for the first time, and I love my gf with all my heart but I'm a little grossed out by our original equipment... advice?
So I made a throwaway for this because I was really worried about making a post like this, and I'm so sorry if this brings dysphoria at all to anyone reading it especially. But I started dating for the first time recently (I'm a trans woman 3 years hrt) and my first gf ever is another wonderful trans girl that I love with all my heart (dating for 5 months) . I've never connected with, or felt this way about another person all my life. I do happen to be ace-ish where I don't really find genitalia of either agab to be attractive (however I do find our original equipment to be less appealing of the two), but when we got a little raunchy for the first time, and I see all of her as beautiful and as a woman including her equipment, however I still can't get past her nether region. I don't see this as something that makes her (or myself) any less of a woman in any way, but I just am a little grossed out by it (and I'm also extremely dysphoric and grossed out about my own nether part). I also hide mine whenever we've gotten raunchy and I just don't know how to talk to her about it.
also please don't dm me, I'm signing out of this account right after making this post I just wanted to hear other takes or if anyone could relate or had any advice. thank you so much!
Just lol.
Got misgendered at my girlfriend's Christmas party, I think I'm finally gonna detransition.
ADVICE REQUEST
Maybe it's an overreaction, but it finally sunk in today, I guess, that I don't pass, can't pass, will never pass. I'm fucking ugly. It was just one accidental slip up, but it was the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm tired of feeling like people are talking about me behind my back, judging me, knowing that I am trans.
I'm going to cut my hair and get on testosterone, likely a very low dose tho, I don't want to go bald. I had an orchiectomy two years ago and boy am I regretting that now as I realize I'll never make it as the opposite sex. I regret it. I honestly regret even trying. Maybe my mental health would've stabilized, and I would be in a much different place.
Instead I'm a loser. I can barely hold down a job and my health issues are growing. I'm only 28 and all I have to my name is that I'm a veteran, and I'm a tr*nny. I'd kill myself if I had the balls to, but I gave those up too I guess. What a failure of a life.
I don't know that I'd ever recommend it to another trans person ever again. I'm not sure I guess, but I don't think I'd tell anyone to pull the trigger. Society hates us when we do that. And I've come to hate myself for it. Any advice or support would be appreciated. Don't even know where to start, probably socially huh? Thanks either way.
Pooner mad that troons talk over her in trans spaces. Speak up lil dudekingbro, you are meant to be the man here!
Sometimes the trans community sucks
I'm having a rough time connecting with my local trans community. I'm one of the facilitators for a local support group and help run a discord server. However, all the members except myself and one other guy are all transfemme. I find myself being talked over during group meetings, ignored in the server, while all the other trans girls get attention, love, support, and friendship. Even though I'm a founding member of the support group I feel unwelcome in the community because I'm a guy and the girls make comments about my "white male privilege" and how I just don't get what they are going through.
But mates, I don't pass. I have no privilege. I am just as oppressed by the patriarchy as they are, perhaps even more so because while I am on T that doesn't magically change our patriarchal society. Many of the members have excellent jobs because of the privilege they experienced before coming out, while I'm struggling to keep down a low-paying blue collar job because I'm trans.
I feel so lonely and am considering stepping down from being a facilitator, especially since I am not listened to, or included in conversations. The girls don't want to talk to me. I'm an introvert but friendly, and desperately long for friends (the one other trans guy is rad btw, but more outgoing than I and doesn't seem to have trouble making friend or being listened to in group and discord).
Honestly, I'm very close to a breaking point and my mental health has taken a very steep decline because of this. I hate that society at large sees me as worthless because of my agab, and that the trans community also sees me as worthless because of my actual gender.
Sometimes I hate existing.
You are a coomer.
NOT TRANNY L’s AS SUCH…MORE LIKE HANDMAIDEN L’s.
No comment.
Running event organiser is upset over people gaming their non-binary catergory. How you planning to police that? They are who they say they are at any given time
And my personal favourite. OP’s pooner sister fannot fathom why she wasn’t invited to sisters bachelorette party…. She is mad she wasn’t invited but she probably would have been angry if she had been because of “muh invalidated”. Pooners man.
AITAH for not inviting my trans brother to my bachelorette party or bridal shower?
I (26f) have a sibling (22m) that was born with female genitalia and raised as my sister. After a LOT of therapy, I have finally grieved the loss of my sister and accepted my brother for who he is and wants to be.
The thing that in my opinion though makes this a little weird (and has been a big part of my therapy) is that my brother still looks and dresses more like a tomboyish girl than an actual boy. He has expressed no interest in taking hormones or doing any surgeries, he just buzzed his hair short, shops in the men’s section and gives you the silent treatment for extended periods of time if you ever refer to him as she/her or his dead name.
Well, I’m getting married and will soon be having a bridal shower as well as a bachelorette party. Last week I was visiting my hometown and went to a family dinner with my dad, sister and two brothers (one born my brother, the other my trans brother).
At dinner, I was talking about how excited I was to start planning the bachelorette and bridal shower. My sister asked me who I’m going to invite and what kind of party I wanted to do. I said some friends as well as her and then my brother says what about me? There was this huge awkward silence and then my other brother trying to keep peace was like aren’t bachelorette’s just for women? Us three will find something fun to do (meaning him, my dad, and trans brother). My trans brother then looked at me and said what about the bridal shower? And my brother says also for girls. And I just kind of looked at him and took a sip of water. Then my trans brother proceeded to get up from the table, say he was finished and go upstairs. We haven’t spoken since.
Am I really the asshole here? Isn’t this what he WANTED? Wouldn’t it have been upsetting to him if I did invite him and then he would be like you’re not respecting my gender identity?
I need more therapy idk it’s so hard to accept him when he does stuff like this and I am TRULY trying my hardest.
…
Update: So after seeing a lot of these comments I called my brother this morning to try to break the silence and see where he was coming from. The first call he declined so I texted him saying I wanted to talk about the bachelorette and bridal shower to see where he was coming from because I know he’s upset. No response. I called two more times and on the second time he answered.
Before I could even open my mouth, he starts going into a big speech about how (like I’ve seen some people saying in the comments) it’s 2024 and these events don’t have to be gendered anymore and I’m making an active choice not to include him by saying they’re for women only and that he just wanted to be able to celebrate me and he’s really hurt that I don’t want that.
I said it wasn’t my intention to hurt him at all and if he wants to come I’m not going to bar him from doing that but I’m also not going to open up the guest list and invite other men like my other brother, dad etc. because it’s my party and I for reasons completely unrelated to him I would like it to be the traditional women’s only style.
He then asked why I would make an exception for him but not my other brother. I said well my other brother doesn’t want to come, he is not interested in a party for girls but if you are then just tell me and I will be so happy to invite you. Then he said that’s not the reason and hung up on me.
I (26f) have a sibling (22m) that was born with female genitalia and raised as my sister. After a LOT of therapy, I have finally grieved the loss of my sister and accepted my brother for who he is and wants to be.
The thing that in my opinion though makes this a little weird (and has been a big part of my therapy) is that my brother still looks and dresses more like a tomboyish girl than an actual boy. He has expressed no interest in taking hormones or doing any surgeries, he just buzzed his hair short, shops in the men’s section and gives you the silent treatment for extended periods of time if you ever refer to him as she/her or his dead name.
Well, I’m getting married and will soon be having a bridal shower as well as a bachelorette party. Last week I was visiting my hometown and went to a family dinner with my dad, sister and two brothers (one born my brother, the other my trans brother).
At dinner, I was talking about how excited I was to start planning the bachelorette and bridal shower. My sister asked me who I’m going to invite and what kind of party I wanted to do. I said some friends as well as her and then my brother says what about me? There was this huge awkward silence and then my other brother trying to keep peace was like aren’t bachelorette’s just for women? Us three will find something fun to do (meaning him, my dad, and trans brother). My trans brother then looked at me and said what about the bridal shower? And my brother says also for girls. And I just kind of looked at him and took a sip of water. Then my trans brother proceeded to get up from the table, say he was finished and go upstairs. We haven’t spoken since.
Am I really the asshole here? Isn’t this what he WANTED? Wouldn’t it have been upsetting to him if I did invite him and then he would be like you’re not respecting my gender identity?
I need more therapy idk it’s so hard to accept him when he does stuff like this and I am TRULY trying my hardest.
…
Update: So after seeing a lot of these comments I called my brother this morning to try to break the silence and see where he was coming from. The first call he declined so I texted him saying I wanted to talk about the bachelorette and bridal shower to see where he was coming from because I know he’s upset. No response. I called two more times and on the second time he answered.
Before I could even open my mouth, he starts going into a big speech about how (like I’ve seen some people saying in the comments) it’s 2024 and these events don’t have to be gendered anymore and I’m making an active choice not to include him by saying they’re for women only and that he just wanted to be able to celebrate me and he’s really hurt that I don’t want that.
I said it wasn’t my intention to hurt him at all and if he wants to come I’m not going to bar him from doing that but I’m also not going to open up the guest list and invite other men like my other brother, dad etc. because it’s my party and I for reasons completely unrelated to him I would like it to be the traditional women’s only style.
He then asked why I would make an exception for him but not my other brother. I said well my other brother doesn’t want to come, he is not interested in a party for girls but if you are then just tell me and I will be so happy to invite you. Then he said that’s not the reason and hung up on me.
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