Opinion The Problem With “Homosexual”: Let’s Change Our Language

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The Problem With “Homosexual”: Let’s Change Our Language​

In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) made a landmark decision: it removed homosexuality from the second edition of its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-II), marking a monumental shift in how society viewed gay people. This decision came after years of advocacy, scientific research, and cultural change, and while it didn’t immediately end the stigma, it was a significant step forward. Still, the pathologizing label of “homosexual” lingers in our language, carrying with it the weight of its history as a so-called mental disorder.

It’s high time we strip this outdated and harmful term from our vernacular and replace it with words that reflect dignity, humanity, and progress. Words like “gay,” “queer,” or “LGBTQ+” are not only more accurate but also free from the baggage of medical and moral judgment.

A Brief History of “Homosexual” as a Pathology

The term “homosexual” has its roots in 19th-century medical and psychological theories. Early sexologists categorized homosexuality as a deviation or pathology, lumping it in with other so-called disorders of the human psyche. By the mid-20th century, this classification found its way into the DSM, where it was labeled a mental illness. The APA’s 1973 vote to remove it followed pivotal research, such as that by Dr. Evelyn Hooker, which demonstrated that gay people were just as psychologically healthy as their heterosexual counterparts.

Despite its removal from the DSM, the term remained loaded. It was often weaponized by conservative groups and institutions to uphold discrimination, perpetuating a harmful narrative of otherness. Even today, its use feels clinical and detached, reducing a person’s identity to a condition rather than acknowledging their humanity.

Why “Homosexual” Has to Go

Using the term “homosexual” in everyday conversation is not just outdated—it’s harmful. Here’s why:
  1. Historical Stigma: For decades, “homosexual” was synonymous with sickness and immorality. It invokes an era when being gay was considered a problem to be cured rather than a natural variation of human sexuality.
  2. Clinical Overtones: Unlike “gay” or “LGBTQ+,” which are affirming and identity-focused, “homosexual” has a detached, medical tone. It feels more like a diagnosis than a description.
  3. Weaponization by Bigotry: Anti-LGBTQ+ activists frequently use “homosexual” in dehumanizing rhetoric. Its clinical distance makes it easier to depersonalize and vilify.
Language shapes how we think and act. When we move away from outdated terms, we open the door to more affirming and inclusive dialogue.

It’s Not That Hard to Change

Some may argue that there’s no harm in continuing to use “homosexual,” but let’s be honest: is it that difficult to just say “gay”? Or, if you’re unsure about someone’s specific identity, refer to the LGBTQ+ community community (conservatives, I know that letters are hard, but I think you can do this–plus, not being able to remember 5 letters isn’t the flex you think it is). This small shift in language demonstrates respect and understanding—qualities that Christians, in particular, should be striving for.

After all, if Jesus taught us anything, it’s to treat others with compassion and dignity. The continued use of language rooted in shame and exclusion stands in direct opposition to this teaching.

Why This Matters Now

In an era where anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and sentiment are on the rise, it’s more important than ever to challenge the systems and language that perpetuate harm. From bans on gender-affirming care to “don’t say gay” laws, the stakes are high. Our words have power, and they can either reinforce stigma or dismantle it.

If we claim to care about justice, inclusion, and the marginalized, we must start with how we speak. Words matter—they shape the stories we tell about ourselves and each other.

A Call to Action

So, let’s retire the term “homosexual.” Unless you’re talking atop using it in sermons, conversations, or policies. Replace it with words that affirm rather than alienate.

If someone is gay, they’re gay—not a “homosexual.” If someone identifies as part of the LGBTQ+ community, honor that identity without resorting to outdated and stigmatizing language.

To Christians especially: this is your chance to show the world that you’re not stuck in the past. Jesus didn’t just tell us to love our neighbors; he showed us how. He healed, uplifted, and welcomed those on the margins. Using language that reflects dignity and care isn’t just a semantic choice—it’s a moral one.

Language has the power to oppress, but it also has the power to liberate. Let’s choose liberation. Let’s choose love. And let’s choose to move forward, leaving “homosexual” in the dustbin of history where it belongs.
 
I thought I was already being generous when saying "gaylord" to them.
 
It also showed up in print first, with no guide to pronunciation.

Not that it would've helped.

But, I'm still not sure if it's "Lah-tinks" or "Latin X' or "Lat-neckst"



It's also amazingly ironic the same white liberal people who are decrying cultural appropriation and colonization just up and decided one day to modify the SPANISH language with no input or advice from it's actual speakers.
I mean, liberal dipshits have been renaming groups largely without their input for a long time.

Consider American Indians. They were Indians for a long time (from the Spanish "indios"), then Native Americans, then Indigenous Americans and some morons occasionally use Aboriginal Americans. I think I've even seen an American use the Canadian term "first nations".

This isn't universal, but some American Indian groups got fed up and said fuck it, just call us American Indians.

Liberal types buy into the oppressed / oppressor narrative so deeply that they feel immense guilt for having a comfortable, safe upbringing. They feel like they have to atone for the privilege their ancestors obviously stole from others. But they don't actually want to give anything up, so they "right" imaginary injustices by obsessively focusing on non-problems, like what we call these allegedly aggrieved parties.

Every doofus who tries a land acknowledgement needs to be challenged to sign over his house over to an injun, post haste.
I feel like my entire life I have heard LGB advocates strongly argue against the widespread use of many common synonyms for homosexual. I am not convinced they actually want to reopen that discussion.
I've been using faygele. Faygele is the Yiddish slang for homosexual. It's a diminutive of bird. Like birdy. Reminds me of the old fashioned slur "fairy".

"oy vey, a coupla faygeles came in and kept kvetching at my gun tshirt, telling the bartender to kick me out because they don't feel safe. What morons. I wouldn't waste a bullet on some dicksucker. Have you seen the price of 9mm?!"
 
So, let’s retire the term “homosexual.”
Sodomite it is.

This idea that 'if we take away bad words, people will never think wrong thoughts' has been proven to be completely absurd. No matter what words you attach to deviant or destructive or ridiculous behavior, humans will still see the patterns and recognize the absurdity in them. Then your shiny new label gets caked in mud.
 
I see you, and your stupid rationalisations. Homosexuality has to be removed as concept as it's exclusionary to the People of Gender.
If people were homogender, well then gays would be attracted to pooner pussy, and lesbians to girl dick.
Not how this whole thing works, stupid Troons.
Just because you're brain broken from porn addiction coupled with autistic black and white thinking doesn't mean sexualities change in your favour, because the obstacle is the fact you're all psycho hose beasts who nobody is attracted to.

But just as the word woman must now become synonymous with man, to break the category and stop women politically, socially and supportively working together in their own interests, and deny the biological reality that so offends Troons, so too must the word homosexual be twisted to deny sexual attraction based on biological reality.

You're attracted to gender, and girl dick for lesbians and boy pussy for gay men must be enforced, because next they break the straight man, mainly by removing the gay panic defense and taking advantage of the fact women can spot sex easier in humans, thus men are easier to date rape by deception, then claim hatred and bigotry for non-compliance, or retribution.

If you guys thought #metoo was bad, #ma'amtoo is going to be about 10 orders of magnitude worse.
 
"Let's get rid of a word that is a succinct, accurate, and unambiguous descriptor because it reminds me that I'm a faggot!"

Homo: Latin for "man" or "same."
Sexual: "Of, relating to, or for sex."
Ergo, "homosexual" = relating to sex with men or with the same sex.

If you're so "proud" of having sex with men, why are you so triggered by an accurate, boring, dry-as-desert-sand description? Yes, it's a medical term, and medical terms are supposed to be boring. Because they're supposed to be factual and nothing more. Oh, but you're having a hissyfit because it doesn't "affirm" you or whatever. What's more affirming than a 100% factual term for what you are? OOOOOHHHH, you mean it makes you feel like an outsider. Well, you're <=2% of the population. An aberration. So guess what...

Also, "gay" is supposed to simply mean happy/joyous. You don't get to steal that just because you like dick in your ass. Normal people are heterosexual. Gay people are homosexual. Those who like both are bisexual. That's how language works. Deal with it.
 
"I am NOT a homosexual!" -Young boy in the year of 2009, soon to be abducted and gulagged by the futurecops of the dark distant year of 2024+5. Sentence: Gender "affirming" surgery.

Seriously though with how "queer" became literally everything other than actually homosexual, lumping homosexual intot he lgbtq+++ "queer" slurry just ruins definitions further. This is gonna be worse for gay people than that time when Autists got suddenly treated as all the same dueto it being framed as similarly "stigmatizing and backwards" Fucking nu age "experts" lumped all the variants of autism "HFA/LFA/Aspergers"into a single umbrella of "autism" that benifits nobody but the attention whores that do "quirky" fake stimming and shit for views and clout on social media. Autists still have not fully recovered from that shit and probably never will.
 
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As one of those fabled homosexuals, I would prefer being called a homosexual over being identified as queer. The LGBTQ+ already "reclaimed" queer; why can't we do that for homosexual? It also helps emphasise that I do not want to be sexually involved with the opposite sex, as gay men can now include females.
 
Well there already are numerous alternate words to homosexual. Schoolyards and the Internet are full of them.

The only language clarification I think is useful in this sphere is to finally and clearly separate "gay" and "lesbian". It used to be that lesbians were also called gay but common usage has largely diverged and it's normal to hear "gays and lesbians" for example. The L and G in LGBT are separate letters. But there's still a lingering "gay" includes lesbians in some spheres.

I think they're diverged for a reason. They're not in fact natural allies imo, the behaviours are wildly different and the pathologies distinct. The only valid point I think the author has is the one they don't make - that homosexual describes both gay and lesbian and these are quite distinct things.
 
I think fudge packer, butt pirate, bum bandit, and rump ranger are perfectly acceptable substitutes.
Will pickle sniffer might be an other acceptable substitute? OTOH by using the term fudge packer, I remember more that part where South Park mocked Tom Cruise as a fudge packer. :story:
 
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