Opinion The Problem With “Homosexual”: Let’s Change Our Language

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The Problem With “Homosexual”: Let’s Change Our Language​

In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) made a landmark decision: it removed homosexuality from the second edition of its Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-II), marking a monumental shift in how society viewed gay people. This decision came after years of advocacy, scientific research, and cultural change, and while it didn’t immediately end the stigma, it was a significant step forward. Still, the pathologizing label of “homosexual” lingers in our language, carrying with it the weight of its history as a so-called mental disorder.

It’s high time we strip this outdated and harmful term from our vernacular and replace it with words that reflect dignity, humanity, and progress. Words like “gay,” “queer,” or “LGBTQ+” are not only more accurate but also free from the baggage of medical and moral judgment.

A Brief History of “Homosexual” as a Pathology

The term “homosexual” has its roots in 19th-century medical and psychological theories. Early sexologists categorized homosexuality as a deviation or pathology, lumping it in with other so-called disorders of the human psyche. By the mid-20th century, this classification found its way into the DSM, where it was labeled a mental illness. The APA’s 1973 vote to remove it followed pivotal research, such as that by Dr. Evelyn Hooker, which demonstrated that gay people were just as psychologically healthy as their heterosexual counterparts.

Despite its removal from the DSM, the term remained loaded. It was often weaponized by conservative groups and institutions to uphold discrimination, perpetuating a harmful narrative of otherness. Even today, its use feels clinical and detached, reducing a person’s identity to a condition rather than acknowledging their humanity.

Why “Homosexual” Has to Go

Using the term “homosexual” in everyday conversation is not just outdated—it’s harmful. Here’s why:
  1. Historical Stigma: For decades, “homosexual” was synonymous with sickness and immorality. It invokes an era when being gay was considered a problem to be cured rather than a natural variation of human sexuality.
  2. Clinical Overtones: Unlike “gay” or “LGBTQ+,” which are affirming and identity-focused, “homosexual” has a detached, medical tone. It feels more like a diagnosis than a description.
  3. Weaponization by Bigotry: Anti-LGBTQ+ activists frequently use “homosexual” in dehumanizing rhetoric. Its clinical distance makes it easier to depersonalize and vilify.
Language shapes how we think and act. When we move away from outdated terms, we open the door to more affirming and inclusive dialogue.

It’s Not That Hard to Change

Some may argue that there’s no harm in continuing to use “homosexual,” but let’s be honest: is it that difficult to just say “gay”? Or, if you’re unsure about someone’s specific identity, refer to the LGBTQ+ community community (conservatives, I know that letters are hard, but I think you can do this–plus, not being able to remember 5 letters isn’t the flex you think it is). This small shift in language demonstrates respect and understanding—qualities that Christians, in particular, should be striving for.

After all, if Jesus taught us anything, it’s to treat others with compassion and dignity. The continued use of language rooted in shame and exclusion stands in direct opposition to this teaching.

Why This Matters Now

In an era where anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and sentiment are on the rise, it’s more important than ever to challenge the systems and language that perpetuate harm. From bans on gender-affirming care to “don’t say gay” laws, the stakes are high. Our words have power, and they can either reinforce stigma or dismantle it.

If we claim to care about justice, inclusion, and the marginalized, we must start with how we speak. Words matter—they shape the stories we tell about ourselves and each other.

A Call to Action

So, let’s retire the term “homosexual.” Unless you’re talking atop using it in sermons, conversations, or policies. Replace it with words that affirm rather than alienate.

If someone is gay, they’re gay—not a “homosexual.” If someone identifies as part of the LGBTQ+ community, honor that identity without resorting to outdated and stigmatizing language.

To Christians especially: this is your chance to show the world that you’re not stuck in the past. Jesus didn’t just tell us to love our neighbors; he showed us how. He healed, uplifted, and welcomed those on the margins. Using language that reflects dignity and care isn’t just a semantic choice—it’s a moral one.

Language has the power to oppress, but it also has the power to liberate. Let’s choose liberation. Let’s choose love. And let’s choose to move forward, leaving “homosexual” in the dustbin of history where it belongs.
 
They want to get rid of homosexual because it means attracted to the same sex, which is transphobic. Troons want to be able to identify as attractive to you by switching their gender.

Words like “gay,” “queer,” or “LGBTQ+” are not only more accurate but also free from the baggage of medical and moral judgment.

Remember when Q stood for "questioning"? Pepperidge Farm remembers.
 
Words like “gay,” “queer,” or “LGBTQ+” are not only more accurate but also free from the baggage of medical and moral judgment.
This is a fucking lie. Queer is an anti-sodomite slur. Gay is even stronger, it's a universal slur to stain something unrelated with the stigma of sodomy. Elgie bitty cue is not a word.

Patheos is one of the most disgusting sites on the online, it has a culture of lying about everything, as if its readers don't have internet access.

Everything they post, most certainly this article, can always be boiled down to that timeless smuggie:
It's a pozzed rainbow churchian.

They want to get rid of homosexual because it means attracted to the same sex, which is transphobic.
This, and "homosexual" is a real thing, while "gay" / "queer" / "LGBTQIAP" are "identities".
 
I know where they come from but people didn't view themselves as heterosexual. Heterosexuality was just the default. A century ago, the word invert was more commonly used for both gay and transvestite.
That's true but I don't think having a techincal term for the normal or default state is necessarily a bad thing in and of itself, though it does imply, by its existence, that being a homo is somehow comparable or a viable alternative to to being normal, where, from an evolutionary stand point, it's more of an aberration that leads to a dead end.
 
Gay.
I’m just calling them gay or faggots if they don’t want homosexual
 
They should make a competition to find the best word. Though I bet the majority would be faggot or perhaps bumfucker. Turbofaggot for the extra gay. Or Pedophile in the making?
 
Latinx sounds like a name for a prescription medication. Also, to people that actually speak Spanish, it is not a natural ending in the Spanish language.
It also showed up in print first, with no guide to pronunciation.

Not that it would've helped.

But, I'm still not sure if it's "Lah-tinks" or "Latin X' or "Lat-neckst"



It's also amazingly ironic the same white liberal people who are decrying cultural appropriation and colonization just up and decided one day to modify the SPANISH language with no input or advice from it's actual speakers.
 
That's true but I don't think having a techincal term for the normal or default state is necessarily a bad thing in and of itself, though it does imply, by its existence, that being a homo is somehow comparable or a viable alternative to to being normal, where, from an evolutionary stand point, it's more of an aberration that leads to a dead end.
I don't necessarily have a problem with the idea of there being a word heterosexual, I'm just curious about when it was created and pushed into common usage, because that's a thing that would have had to have happened. I guess that considering the fact that the push for cisgender clearly comes from TRAs, and that it has a very firm push back from people who are very angry about having that term pushed on them, I wonder how that compares to the creation of "heterosexual" and how we all just accept it now.
 
I don't necessarily have a problem with the idea of there being a word heterosexual, I'm just curious about when it was created and pushed into common usage, because that's a thing that would have had to have happened. I guess that considering the fact that the push for cisgender clearly comes from TRAs, and that it has a very firm push back from people who are very angry about having that term pushed on them, I wonder how that compares to the creation of "heterosexual" and how we all just accept it now.
I remember when the term "heterosexual" started coming into currency in the 1990s. Prior to that, the word was "normal."
 
I don't necessarily have a problem with the idea of there being a word heterosexual, I'm just curious about when it was created and pushed into common usage, because that's a thing that would have had to have happened. I guess that considering the fact that the push for cisgender clearly comes from TRAs, and that it has a very firm push back from people who are very angry about having that term pushed on them, I wonder how that compares to the creation of "heterosexual" and how we all just accept it now.
Well, according to wiki, so, take it as you will, both terms were originally created by some Hungarian journo in the 1800's and then reintroduced in the 1890's by some sketchy seeming German psychiatrist and German neurologist.
 
I feel like my entire life I have heard LGB advocates strongly argue against the widespread use of many common synonyms for homosexual. I am not convinced they actually want to reopen that discussion.
 
I have just been reminded of the freshers' week event at which the Dean of Faculty, a genial old man who was a little hard of hearing, introduced the (as they were then titled) LesBiGay Convenor of the Student Council to a room full of about 700 stunned first years as "the leader of the university's Let's Be Gay Club".

It was the first time I remember seeing grown adults try to suppress literal tears of laughter.

That was the year the LesBiGay position on council was renamed to LGBT Convenor, and yes it was a direct result of this fucking hilarious incident. The Let's Be Gay Convenor remained firmly convinced that the Dean did it on purpose to 'suppress student involvement' in the (freshly renamed) LGBT Society, known on campus for years afterwards as the Let's Be Gay Club.

The Dean at the time was living openly in a homosexual relationship with a man 20 years his junior (therefore also old), but never let the facts get in the way of a good grievance myth.
 
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