Eh, I hate Ragatha, she reminds me of a person I known in real life that's a constant thorn in my side. She's incredibly fake. She acts nice for her own comfort, lying to your face as necessary and not thinking twice about it. She could be right that Jax is a dangerous person to be around, but that still doesn't excuse her manipulating people for her emotional safety. Sometimes you have to be a bit direct and give people criticism, and learning to do that is part of the difference between nice and kind. Even without the stupid sauce, Gangle clocked her on that. All of these people would be hard to get along on some level.. except maybe Pomni, she seems to be the least mentally ill person to enter the circus (at least post Dementia for Kinger, otherwise Kinger is the clear winner.)
I can deal with people like Jax easier than Ragathas, because a Ragatha will always think less of you than she claims, while you might theoretically mean more to the Jax than he lets on. I knew a few people who just enjoyed being the asshole, and yet, because they were the jerk to everyone it was much easier not to take it personally that when it's someone who typically has a neutral presence and then just decides to target you personally.