Sooo, thread necro.
I got ME:LE for free I think on Amazon last year. Finally decided to sit down and play the first game. I had tried it at a friends house in 2007 when it came out originally but for some reason it just didn't jive with me, despite on the surface having everything a sci-fi nerds into. I loved Knights of the Old Republic and Jade Empire, so you'd think I'd have been instantly into this BioWare game when they were still in their prime, alas...
So I started ME 1 and honestly, I kind of regret not giving it a chance all those years ago. The menu systems, shit as they are, are such a nostalgic throwback. I love how much of an unrepentant asshole you can be as Shepard, the writing is pretty sharp and reminds me of the before times before Whedonisms took over dialogue in media. The character customization I thought sucked, but they all did back then. Knights of the Old Republic's was garbage too and took from the Jedi Knight games, which were as bad. That being said, I got my Shepard to not look like a mongloid.
I don't mind the RPG bullet sponge mechanics much, since I went exploring everywhere and doing side missions first before I even got Liara. Now I have everyone almost completely maxed out and I have all the Spectre guns for Shepard so I don't expect kicking Saren's ass to be that hard. I can understand why some people wouldn't like those mechanics because it does feel grindy but I'm only playing a few missions every couple nights.
The story itself doesn't feel that original (maybe it would have back in 2007) but it's fun and engaging none the less. I wanted to do a pure xenophobic playthrough but this being my first time playing, didn't want to miss all the optional content in the game because of that. Still, the Renegade dialogue options are nice. I wish the armor was more "customizable", in mods and appearance. I felt since the guns get two mod slots the armor should as well, though in my current playthrough I think I have all the top armors for everyone now so it doesn't much matter.
All that being said, I think I'm about halfway through the story and I'm enjoying the game. I hope 2 is as good and I'm seriously considering picking up Andromeda to try out after I eventually beat 3.