Your brain is malfunctioning. Empathy can be mapped to neurological processes that correspond to perspective taking, mentalizing, emotional mirroring and regulation; empathy isn't the same as compassion or sympathy where the goal is to feel bad for others, but it's a technique for yourself to allow you to better comprehend the mental state of others.
You're a fucking retard if you don't have the capacity to intuit the mental state of women who have realistic motivations and understandable desires due to the premise of "me good man, me good person, why me have empathy for woman who want good man? me IS good man!" You make the Indian people who read headfirst into trains sound like scholars.