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Cactus Wings said:
Without being too 'tism, I feel the implication here is that you go into a new relationship expecting friendship before anything sexual, while the reverse is true for most straights. Hence why their reaction to a friend being gay is "omg dont fuck me"
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I think on some level, a lot of gay relationships are something like just extremely close friendships. With the men I’ve been with the focus was never on sex. So you have this interesting dynamic where guys generally have some interesting shit they bring to the table and in this generation, a lot of that can involve computers. especially in a way that doesn’t usually apply to women. So the dynamic between two dudes can get Pretty autistic as both of them bring in what are usually male-centric hobbies that can get pretty autistic.

I also wanted to ask other gay guys about this: I’m in my twenties and in my generation being gay was about masculinity. It was about being macho. A lot of stuff focused on buff guys and bears. I talked to a guy around 18-19’and everything seemed to now be about femininity. it seems like the younger generations have done a hard shift away from what’s generally considered to be the cornerstones of homosexuality, a lot of which was the rejection of femininity.
Everyone my age I’ve talked to has noticed this but I was wondering what you guys think and if you’ve noticed the same thing. there’s also a lot more bisexuality and one might get the sense that there’s a lot of people who aren’t really even gay, or just denying it or finding ways to go, “it’s not gay! They’re feminine! It’s a femboy!”
 
YachieKicchou said:
I think on some level, a lot of gay relationships are something like just extremely close friendships. With the men I’ve been with the focus was never on sex. So you have this interesting dynamic where guys generally have some interesting shit they bring to the table and in this generation, a lot of that can involve computers. especially in a way that doesn’t usually apply to women. So the dynamic between two dudes can get Pretty autistic as both of them bring in what are usually male-centric hobbies that can get pretty autistic.

I also wanted to ask other gay guys about this: I’m in my twenties and in my generation being gay was about masculinity. It was about being macho. A lot of stuff focused on buff guys and bears. I talked to a guy around 18-19’and everything seemed to now be about femininity. it seems like the younger generations have done a hard shift away from what’s generally considered to be the cornerstones of homosexuality, a lot of which was the rejection of femininity.
Everyone my age I’ve talked to has noticed this but I was wondering what you guys think and if you’ve noticed the same thing. there’s also a lot more bisexuality and one might get the sense that there’s a lot of people who aren’t really even gay, or just denying it or finding ways to go, “it’s not gay! They’re feminine! It’s a femboy!”
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Its true but its just a trend. Most femboys will either be 100% hetero or trannies in 5 years or so
 
Souroti said:
Its true but its just a trend. Most femboys will either be 100% hetero or trannies in 5 years or so
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Based on what? Why does flamboyant adult gays just keep increasing, if it's something you grow out of?
 
Souroti said:
Its true but its just a trend. Most femboys will either be 100% hetero or trannies in 5 years or so
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Nah bro, a good portion of femboys are just gay twinks wearing feminine outfits. From I've seen, femboys are only straight/bisexual when they're doing it purely for femdom. The troons are the result of trend within a trend.
 
YachieKicchou said:
I think on some level, a lot of gay relationships are something like just extremely close friendships. With the men I’ve been with the focus was never on sex. So you have this interesting dynamic where guys generally have some interesting shit they bring to the table and in this generation, a lot of that can involve computers. especially in a way that doesn’t usually apply to women. So the dynamic between two dudes can get Pretty autistic as both of them bring in what are usually male-centric hobbies that can get pretty autistic.

I also wanted to ask other gay guys about this: I’m in my twenties and in my generation being gay was about masculinity. It was about being macho. A lot of stuff focused on buff guys and bears. I talked to a guy around 18-19’and everything seemed to now be about femininity. it seems like the younger generations have done a hard shift away from what’s generally considered to be the cornerstones of homosexuality, a lot of which was the rejection of femininity.
Everyone my age I’ve talked to has noticed this but I was wondering what you guys think and if you’ve noticed the same thing. there’s also a lot more bisexuality and one might get the sense that there’s a lot of people who aren’t really even gay, or just denying it or finding ways to go, “it’s not gay! They’re feminine! It’s a femboy!”
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Interesting. I’m in my 30s and it seems other gays around my age are still content to do the campy super flaming Paul Lynde or Jack from Will and Grace thing. Not exactly what I’d call femmy, but it clearly seems like they’re putting in an act of how media in my time portrayed gay men and they think that’s how they’re supposed to act to signal to everyone else they’re gay. It can be fun to camp it up once in awhile but these guys really need to learn how to dial it down a bit.

as far as bisexuals go, I don’t see too many in my age group. Usually they’re girls who experimented once or twice in college and decided they weren’t actually bi, or they’re guys who are clearly gay but think calling themselves bi will “lessen the stigma” in more conservative areas because they can tell people they’re still into chicks (but you never see them going out with a girl or even talking about ones they think are hot)

almost never see any pure femboys in their 30s and the ones that are tend to get made fun of when they’re gone
 
Autumnal Equinox said:
almost never see any pure femboys in their 30s and the ones that are tend to get made fun of when they’re gone
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I feel that that's because the femboy fetish is at it's best when the person doing it is still youthful (like early-mid 20s maybe late 20s if they can manage). Once their age starts kicking in, they become less and less appealing unless you've gone way too deep into it.

The main appeal of it, I feel, is the fact that this feminine boy kind of blurs the line between a boy and a girl. Which is probably why it's so popular among the "bisexuals" (gays in denial).

Although, when I put it that way it does give the whole fetish some pedophilic undertones.
 
Autumnal Equinox said:
almost never see any pure femboys in their 30s and the ones that are tend to get made fun of when they’re gone
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Nauseated Courgi said:
Although, when I put it that way it does give the whole fetish some pedophilic undertones.
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I think it's even in the name. It isn't unusual to refer to a feminine man as feminine, but putting that "boy" in there is infantilizing. If it were "Femman" or "Femguy" or something rather than "femboy" it would bother me less. You can't expect a man to be youthful forever.
Nauseated Courgi said:
"bisexuals" (gays in denial).
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I am taking the bait again in order to ask why I should have to "pick a side". Men have wangs and chicks have cunts. Both are fun.
 
Souroti said:
To the bisexual men who fuck both genders, do you disclose that fact to your partners? How do they react?
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i'm not a dude, but my fiance was pretty upfront about it, and i was upfront about it with him too. neither of us was bothered bc we're both queer af.
 
What’s the weirdest relationship you’ve had? I spent a lot of time in mainland Chinese circles just because I tend to enjoy their company and they’re very kind. They really like to approach westerners who are friendly and often times I’m the first American they’ve ever spoken to. They tend to become friends fast.

One of them was gay and heavily in the closet and he got really comfortable with me quick. We ended up having a long-distance thing. I had actually made plans to visit at some point but Covid happened and by the time it cleared up in China he had gotten very busy with university. I think that’s probably the most interesting relationship I’ve ever had.
 
YachieKicchou said:
What’s the weirdest relationship you’ve had?
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It was a combination of a few things. He was a Trump supporter during his campaign , which in my neck of the woods is sacrilege, especially if you’re gay and I’m a libertarian which isn’t looked at too fondly by other gays either. He was much taller than I am (he was 6’3 and I’m 5’4) so that led to a lot of jokes about me being the perfect height (he doesn’t even need to get on his knees to suck your dick hahaha)

probably the thing that gave the most conflict and played a factor into the relationship eventually fizzling out was that he was very much firmly in the closet despite being kinda flaming and I’m openly gay but come off as straight to most people. We could talk for hours on the phone, have wild sex and even discussed marriage at one point but I just couldn’t take constantly being referred to as his brother or his cousin to everyone but his immediate family and keeping everything under lock and key. I’m open about being gay, I’m not in your face about it 24/7 but that doesn’t mean I want to base a long term relationship on a pack of lies all the time. Despite me trying to get him to be more forthcoming about acknowledging who he was, and to stop pretending he’s straight and I’m just some dude he hangs with but he just wouldn’t budge and I had to break it off after 7 years of this.
 
Shiversblood said:
Bisexual men are homosexual men with the voice of Jesus speaking in his ear trying to turn him back straight.
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Is Derek Chauvin homosexual or bisexual? Apparently new evidence has been presented making him innocent or some shit he may soon be aqcuitted. But he still maintains a relationship with many of the men he met in prison detailing what it was like to get a cock pounded in his ass. As men continue to watch the trial and see new evidence of Chauvin being aqcuitted because like every police officer that ever knew him has testifed what a piece of shit he was the country waits in anticipation for him to be aqcuitted because of all the new evidence and shit.

But meanwhile Derek stills maintains his career on the street of sucking Proud Boy cock and MAGA fans off for money to support his case. Meanwhile he is pen pals with several black men whom describe their experience of pounding him in the ass with multiple hard black cocks.

In the letters between Chauvin and the inmates most of the prisoners believe he will be right back in prison pounding his ass as hard as possible.

But many others are very hopeful he will soon be aqcuitted. The evidence?

Well......
..... Not much really. Just hopeful people with Chauvin's cock deep in their throat. Mostly the world thinks he is going to catch that case so hard for kneeling on Floyd with one knee for over 10 minutes while Floyd said he cannot breathe.

We will find out soon! White boy party needs reservations way ahead of time they will throw the party when he gets life in jail.... I mean....
Aqcuitted. Be sure to RSVP
 
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