How to get connections?

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Super Mario Brothers said:
Okay so is this some type of meme or is there actually some type of Freemason-ish society of BDSM kinksters who can set you up with something? I only ask because I'm pretty sure I saw another post like this.
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It was likely me, when someone else asked, or in a discussion about the overlap with LARP and goth community (and the troon one, too). Looks like I was caught repeating myself.
I've noticed that via local social media osmosis, when a mutual friend of several LARP people I know personally, died and many locally known content creators with fantasy, furry and other made-up names expressed their sorrow, for he was a well-known and beloved author of naughty movies, of which I wasn't aware, I just thought he is known for public social media content.
Apart from seeing these connections and word of some fairly useless people who had suspiciously easily landed a good job in Prague (I don't want to spread the stereotype, but it is what it is) , being friends and coworkers with middle-namers, I don't have a solid proof tho.
 
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wish I knew. I have to rely on skill and knowledge
 
Okay there’s no shortcut to this (other than selling your orifices, as other kiwis have mentioned). You need to be smart, attractive, funny, talented, or extremely passionate about some sort of niche hobby that you can share with people.

You will find that even the kids of rich and well-connected people are smart/attractive/funny/talented/passionate. I think rich people make extra efforts to ensure their kids have these qualities.
 
Rapesputin said:
Be born a jeet/chink. If it's too late for that, go to an Ivy League school. If it's too late for that, join the Freemasons.
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No cap I know so many retards in high positions whose only qualifications are being Asian.

Most companies are one white dude stringing along a team of semi-competent jeets or chinks.
 
Depends on what kind of connections you want. I got most of mine from private school. If you want establishment elite, go to an Ivy League, if you want more libertarian counter elite, go to startups. I also managed to meet several in cigar lounges, though you have to have more tact there because sometimes they just want to smoke without issue.

To be honest, most of the time people only do business with people they feel they can trust, especially for smaller to medium sized businesses. So find out where your local elite live, see where they like to go to, learn how to speak and dress like them, and then present yourself slowly.
 
Butterschmalz said:
According to the Matrix movie the goal is to disconnect for good.
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Yeah, trust of couple of "one hit wonder" trannies. Every single of their projects post Matrix 99' were shit. part 2 and 3 were mediocre.

I'm gonna be 100% honest here. I still don't know if this thread is about finding a plug (someone to sell you wholesale drugs) or making lucrative business relationships or both A and B.
 
Making a network at school makes no sense. You'll have a network of people with nothing to serve, just like you don't. "Invite yourself on coffee dates with employers!". Ah yes, you're busy running a business and someone with no job experience thinks they can offer you something. An easy yes.

I've randomly been exposed to different male-centric 'groups' as of late. On one hand it's a good idea, but to travel to a gathering of 100 other men solely to talk to one another is just.. why? What? It's how you network but unless you share some kind of field, ie. rich men who also play golf together, what's there to offer/receive? Networks stem from the kind of work where you get to meet new people. You don't build a network sitting in the corner of an office doing IT.
 
Super Mario Brothers said:
What do?
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find a hobby, network with people there that aren't fags. grad school. conventions related to your industry. etc..

⋖ cørdion ⋗ said:
Making a network at school makes no sense. You'll have a network of people with nothing to serve, just like you don't. "Invite yourself on coffee dates with employers!". Ah yes, you're busy running a business and someone with no job experience thinks they can offer you something. An easy yes.
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If you're not going to a school populated heavily with ethnic minorities, typically some of those people will have connections, or land jobs and become your connection. That's how it works. You take a junior or senior level class. You do a project or otherwise make friends with Johnny McEmployed. Johnny gets a job immediately after college because an internship went really well. Johnny can now get you a foot in the door, if he's not a jackass at his job.
 
Those networking events are a waste of time. People who have things going for them rarely attend. You will very likely have to create your own network. Ask to meet with people who you want to get to know for 30 minutes. That is the fastest, easiest, and most effective way to start building up your network. Then be sure to have good questions to discuss during that 30 minutes. If that all goes well, then what things can you do for them that also doesn’t put you in an opportunity to get taken advantage of? Are these people who can actually help you get to where you want to go? You ideally want mutually beneficial relationships out of all this. Most people will enjoy talking about themselves for 30 minutes even if they got a busy day. Keep in touch with people. People will land all over the place and if you don’t suck and you have good conversations, they might be key to getting you your next job or your next promotion.
 
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