Having Children

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Kids

  • Yes, I'm a pregger fetishist and i hate money

    Votes: 26 44.1%

  • No, I want a succession of flesh dolls for companionship

    Votes: 11 18.6%

  • Idk, just let me get lubes for this fence

    Votes: 22 37.3%
  • Total voters
    59
I'm already at the age where women start thinking of having children and it's a no for me. For many reasons.
I'm poor and if I have kids it would make me even poorer. I take medication that would cause birth defects and I can't risk going off it to have kids. Also I know that I'm not the kind of person who can handle having kids in my life. It's too much responsibility. I can't even take care of pets. Bipolar runs in my family and there's no way I'm going to have a child who is Bipolar.
And childbirth terrifies me and I don't want to go through that.
 
i think it's ideal to have kids by the age of 25, including you have a job you can count on and a place to live in
 
It's a simple question I've been seeing around and I want to see a sample of how popular sentiment is regarding this topic.

Personally, i want kids if only because i feel like they have a lot to offer in terms of emotional reward if done right but its risky and honestly I could go without it.
 
Gave up on relationships and kids, I discovered that its not worth it, especially these days, having kids has become the soycuck thing to do, i'd rather get my life in order and earn my legacy on this earth, not put another quarter in the machine hoping my kids do it.
 
I have kids.

You know what pisses me off? People who bitch about immigration, replacement theory, birth rates and then go and complain that they can't have kids because money.

If you want kids and don't do it because of money you are the biggest cuck in the universe. Money comes and goes. Fertility is finite. Have a kid, have 6. Do whatever you want. There is no love as great as that of a parent for a child. Why would you live on this planet and put up with clown world without experiencing the birthing and raising of progeny? It is the single most substantial thing a person can do.

The poor can raise a decent, happy family too. Just not in a big city.
 
I don't want kids but if it happens I would be a part of their life. Guys don't typically have sex because they want to make a child they just want sex whenever they have the opportunity.
 

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Cynically Insane said:
I have kids.

You know what pisses me off? People who bitch about immigration, replacement theory, birth rates and then go and complain that they can't have kids because money.

If you want kids and don't do it because of money you are the biggest cuck in the universe. Money comes and goes. Fertility is finite. Have a kid, have 6.
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I mostly agree with this, but kids aint for everyone.
 
Maskull said:
If it hadn't become such a costly thing I'd want half a dozen children.
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Amen! Being parent is like signing your life away. Not that it's horrible; it's just you have to make a lot of sacrifices if you weren't born with a silver spoon up your ass and how challenging the future will be children as they grow up. I can't imagine what's it like in today's American public schools and the job market sucks. So good luck trying to make a living.
 
My best friend's dad is a high-school teacher in a shithole city and has 9 kids. If you want a large family bad enough, you can make it work.
Yes, he's white.
 
Damien Thorne said:
I am too homo to ever procreate.

Acceptance of homosexuality is key to avoiding an overpopulated future that is exactly like the movie Soylent Green. Just don’t allow the slippery slope scenarios to occur, and we’ll be fucking golden.
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I totally get that. But if all the bright, aware people decide to do their part and help control the population, we are fucked. We can't just let the idiots breed while we don't. Haven't you seen Idiocracy? Or Louisiana?
 
No. Despite my preaching of traditional conservative values including the importance of the nuclear family and correctly raising the next generation, I'm too much of a childish consoomer to give up any time or money that could be spent on vidya, PC building, and other inane pursuits.
 
Cynically Insane said:
I have kids.

You know what pisses me off? People who bitch about immigration, replacement theory, birth rates and then go and complain that they can't have kids because money.

If you want kids and don't do it because of money you are the biggest cuck in the universe. Money comes and goes. Fertility is finite. Have a kid, have 6. Do whatever you want. There is no love as great as that of a parent for a child. Why would you live on this planet and put up with clown world without experiencing the birthing and raising of progeny? It is the single most substantial thing a person can do.

The poor can raise a decent, happy family too. Just not in a big city.
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It's like that opening scene in Idiocracy:

Yes, I'd like to have kids.
 
Already did!

They're great and I miss them deeply. The wife-at-the-time and I didn't really decide to have them so much as we mutually understood it to be the next step in our relationship. So we laid off the protection and just went at it for a while, and it took a while the first time, but then it happened. It's not without its misery, waking up at 2:00 in the morning to comfort the wife while she's vomiting in the toilet - I have no idea how she gained weight in this process since she seemed to constantly be barfing more than she ate - and then waking up at 2:00 in the morning to feed the brat and get them back to sleep. It sounds terrible and yet at the time it feels very natural and… non-objectionable. Maybe it's hormones or something. I don't know. And it all got easier after the first.

After the slow-motion robbery and kidnapping that was the divorce, I haven't got to see them as much as I'd like to. Dammit, the tears are welling up as I even type this. And it breaks my heart knowing that they're going to grow up without a dad and the life-long repercussions that can come from that - ones I know myself all too well. But I'm trying the best I can from a distance to remind them I exist.

I would say it's definitely not something to take lightly and not something you should do unless you're in your forever relationship. But I'd also say that sometimes, especially for us men, we think we're in the forever relationship, but the partner will have other plans, so… I don't know. I haven't figured it out yet. I guess when it happens, it just happens, and you won't need to overthink it.
 
Nah. No real deep and meaningful reason; after much consideration I've come to the conclusion that I just don't want to and that would be a shitty thing to put on a child who didn't ask for it. I can guarantee I've put more thought into it than people that keep shitting out kids for those sweet :tugboat: bux though.
 
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