Oh yeah, this guy...
My issue with Gaijin Goomba is that he thinks that Japanese people are an alien species that are somehow different than us lowly humans. Granted their cultural rules are different, but that's it. They're just people.
What made me dislike him is this:
He mentions how a Japanese family was super uncomfortable with him, a random guy, trying to force himself into them. I mean, wouldn't you? One thing is being friends, another is someone, out of nowhere, forcing themselves into your family uninvited. It's creepy and unconfortable as hell. Anywhere.
Granted they "hosted" him. But that doesn't meant that they will want to be related to him long term.
They didn't tell him to fuck off because that's rude for the japanese, so they politely tried to avoid him so he would get the hint . Yet he thinks it was because some japanese bullshit "tatamae" or something. And he admitts that he tried to force himself into them for months until they gave in.
And then he explains how he basically forced himself into other Japanese people.
I believe him when he says some Japanese people are racists. But maybe, just maybe, some of them just didn't like him? And thinking the Japanese are just waiting for you to enter their "tamamae" and conquer their "kokoro" and earn their trust through rituals or something is delusional?
Just saying.