Crazy Pacer said:
What happens next time Null?
Being constantly rescued by the efforts of others is what turned Chris into what he is today. Do you seek to enable him even further? Obviously you do.
Return the money and we can all forget about the time you turned in Anna.
Who gives a shit about the wishes and desires of Chris? If we started listening to what he wanted, the Cwcki would be chopped down and this forum shut down.
I donated privately in the form of a money order, and it was made out to Barb Chandler. I feel for Barb and the years of hell she has probably gone through because of him. That's why I gave. She doesn't deserve what happened. She's "not right" either, but at least she made an effort in her own way. She is the victim here in my eyes. Not only is she recorded on a telephone call as asking Chris for help in cleaning, but she is physically incapable herself. And it was his responsibility regardless of her whims and any difficulties she may pose (as all hoarders do in cleaning up hoards), as she is a sick woman in her 70's. He should have manned the hell up and fixed it. Secondly, he is the one who was making coffee in a bathroom at 2am. It doesn't matter if it was for Snorlax or at her request. She is a sick, 70+ old coot, and Chris should have known better. I don't care if Chris doesn't want money or wants to get new clothes, food, or even vidya. If he doesn't, that's fine too. But Barbara is the ADULT who will provide a roof over their heads and provide the bare necessities for life. In any event, I don't think you could argue that helping a family recover from a fire is enabling. It is a very noble and just thing to do.