Fetishes - Where do they come from? Are they harmful? Who really cares?

[WallaceandGromit2]

Your thoughts are not all your own. There are external agents too. And ones that try to possess you inner.
Here is a good link:

Cry of a Lost Soul

Spoiler

"To him who prays with perseverance little by little God gives so much light, so much strength, that even the most debased sinner will at the end come back to salvation. During the last years of my life I did not pray any more, so I lacked those graces without which nobody can be saved. Here we no longer receive graces. Moreover, should we receive them we would cynically refuse them. All the fluctuations of earthly existence have ceased in the other life. For years I was living far away from God. For, in the last call of grace I decided against God."

"I never believed in the influence of the devil. And now I affirm that he has strong influence on the persons who are in the condition in which I was then. Only many prayers, others and mine own, united with sacrifices and penances, could have snatched me from his grip. And even this only little by little. If there are only few externally obsessed, there are very many internally possessed. The devil cannot steal the free will from those who give themselves to his influence. But in punishment of their, so to speak, methodical apostasy from God, He allows the devil to nest in them."

"I hate the devil too. And yet I am pleased about him, because he tries to ruin all of you; he and his satellites, the fallen with him at the beginning of time. There are millions of them. They roam around the earth, as thick as a swarm of flies, and you do not even notice it. It is not reserved to us damned to tempt you; but to the fallen spirits. In truth every time they drag down here to hell a human soul their own torture is increased. But what does one not do for hatred?"

 

[Darksy DePhil]

I know on most cases it is the fetish that makes the cow, and not the other way around, but sometimes i'm rather surprised when some new, mostly uninteresting artcow pops up for lighter reasons unrelated to their "kinks", and then people dig out more info and find out they're into some gross shit like scat or abdl, almost like the cherry on top of the shake. And they always seem to be the same 4 or 5 fetishes (Inflation, Vore, Diaper fetish, Foot Fetish, and sometimes Scat) that are so common and shared between lolcows. While lolcows with paraphilias like BDSM do exist, they don't pop up on the same volume as diaperfurs and inflationfags for some reason. I also thought this was mostly just retained to furfags but there seem to be a lot of non-furries who have these same gross fetishes as well.

Just how do lolcows end up with these fetishes, and why is it those fetishes most of the time? Have you ever asked any faggot with these fetishes why they are into that shit and gotten any meaningful reply?

 

[Milkis]

Fetish treadmill. They are fundamentally porn/masturbation addicts who get off on seeing the "taboo". The weird shit is just the result of their looking for more and more extreme stimulation as vanilla porn doesn't cut it for them anymore.

If you find yourself matching that description (aroused by transgressive sex acts mostly because they're transgressive) it's not too late, stop masturbating, find a partner you get along with and learn to satisfy each other the way two humans are naturally supposed to. And get a more productive hobby.

 

[Chilson]

These fetishes have existed since men could comprehend women were not the only holes and women can use other things than a dick. Its not abnormal as we all have a few kinks that get our rocks off. Before though, there was a societal understanding that these kinks stay within the bedroom with willing partners. The difference now is that we live in such a "free" society due to the internet that such degenerate fetishes that used to stay in our private lives (where they belong) have now found whole communities of people who also "enjoy" the same fetishes. These communities started on the internet due to it frankly being really hard to identify who likes to jerk off to what kink in real life, anonymity. These communities still exist and the vast majority of people realize that its still not okay to reveal this shit to the world with a real life face and name.

As far as lolcows go, some people are so deluded/stupid and so used to the "acceptance" of these circlejerk communities that they don't realize how fucking creepy their fetish is when you put a face to the pervert in real life. They simply don't understand how society will react to them with anything but the acceptance these communities incorrectly "taught" them. Its why the more anti-social lolcows stick to their guns when confronted, while borderline lolcows or more socially active cows retreat after realizing that this was a mistake.

 

[The Lawgiver]

I know on most cases it is the fetish that makes the cow, and not the other way around, but sometimes i'm rather surprised when some new, mostly uninteresting artcow pops up for lighter reasons unrelated to their "kinks", and then people dig out more info and find out they're into some gross shit like scat or abdl, almost like the cherry on top of the shake. And they always seem to be the same 4 or 5 fetishes (Inflation, Vore, Diaper fetish, Foot Fetish, and sometimes Scat) that are so common and shared between lolcows. While lolcows with paraphilias like BDSM do exist, they don't pop up on the same volume as diaperfurs and inflationfags for some reason. I also thought this was mostly just retained to furfags but there seem to be a lot of non-furries who have these same gross fetishes as well.

Just how do lolcows end up with these fetishes, and why is it those fetishes most of the time? Have you ever asked any faggot with these fetishes why they are into that shit and gotten any meaningful reply?

What if it was the result of some sort of fucked up mkultra-esque social conditioning scheme? This strange constant combined with how the heavily political types of people just all seem to be almost mass produced in a way where they all parrot the same points and generally have the same personality type really gets me thinking sometimes.

 

[Damien Thorne]

With all the weird shit going on the Internet these days, it won’t be long before people might consider the missionary position to be a fetish.

 

[verygayFrogs]

i totally understand sub/dom fetish stuff
but whats up with diaper fetish and scat
whats up with omorashi
whats up with south park inflation art

Spoiler: traumatizing

I actually have answers to that! Except the South Park one. Most likely the person was abused as a child and wants to revert to a safe spot and give themselves the childhood they never had, which often involves diapers and using them. The piss kink and scat might be abuse but because they were always forced to live in their fucked up clothes? That’s more Freud than anything.

Hell, some of these kinks might be because it gives the person a sense of power and control that they don’t have in their normal day to day life, so they vent it out in disturbing ways

 

[Sigma]

I actually have answers to that! Except the South Park one. Most likely the person was abused as a child and wants to revert to a safe spot and give themselves the childhood they never had, which often involves diapers and using them. The piss kink and scat might be abuse but because they were always forced to live in their fucked up clothes? That’s more Freud than anything.

Hell, some of these kinks might be because it gives the person a sense of power and control that they don’t have in their normal day to day life, so they vent it out in disturbing ways

From what I've read, it's more often about trying to relive the feelings they had as a kid in one way or another. Not necessarily about abuse either.

 

[BOONES]

Mine are fairly normal but I feel bad for those cursed by super degenerate stuff.

 

[Julias_Seizure2]

Not to power level too hard but im kinda into BDSM and not even really sure why honestly just always have been. For me something about it is just really relaxing in a way nothing else compares to.

Seems like everyone has a different reason for liking it though but i have noticed that some sort of trauma before getting into it is fairly common

 

[queerape]

I don't think having a fetish makes you a cow. Everyone's unique in what gets them off. Theres more ways to have sex than missionary in the dark with no foreplay and not everyone is attracted to the exact same kind of person, What makes a lolcow vs a person with a sexual proclivity or preference even if they are open about it is that the cow makes it the entirity of their identity purpose and accomplishment. They belong to that community and that community only.

 

[Sigma]

We don't know exactly why people have different interests in general so the fact that different sexual interests exists shouldn't be that surprising, I'd say.

 

[Spit bucket]

Depending on how weird the fetish is determines how degenerate the person. For me at least fetishes like wanting to wear latex/leather, which I have, is pretty harmless. Feet is weird but still in the realm of reality. Anything to do with a fursuit is questionable but not the worst. Scat and gore people need a therapist.

 

[Baptiste XIX RoseOfSharyn]

I don’t care about other’s fetishes, but it becomes a problem when they shove it in my face, I don’t want to watch yer god damn MINECRAFT foot fetishist skits! Or that fucking overabundance of ABDL shit on Imgur, I just want to fucking laugh at funny images, not watch some god damn anime girl suck on tits while pissing her diaper!
If it gets you off good for you, but not good for fucking me when all I want is to laugh.
All I wanted was a laugh!

 

[Tree]

The devil (and jewish propaganda). Yes, they are. We all pay the consequences of those who don't care.

I don’t care about other’s fetishes, but it becomes a problem when they shove it in my face, I don’t want to watch yer god damn MINECRAFT foot fetishist skits! Or that fucking overabundance of ABDL shit on Imgur, I just want to fucking laugh at funny images, not watch some god damn anime girl suck on tits while pissing her diaper!
If it gets you off good for you, but not good for fucking me when all I want is to laugh.
All I wanted was a laugh!

It should be clear by now if it isn't a social taboo it won't be something they keep to themselves. "Oh you can't be mean to the degenerates" Yes we can and we should. Maintain the public ideal in public. Evil people aim to destroy the possibility of there being a public ideal by smashing people together and hitting "puree". Once we're nice and liquid they'll be able to dye us whatever color they want. You will buy the funkopop and you will like it. You know what is a social taboo? Discrimination. Maintaining the sanctity of what is good. Trying to uphold a public ideal.

 

[Bionicle of War]

Is it degenerate to have a fetish even if you keep it to yourself and don't act upon it? I'm also unsure of where exactly to draw the line for degeneracy, other than the arbitrary 'whatever I don't like'.

 

[Never Scored]

Is it degenerate to have a fetish even if you keep it to yourself and don't act upon it? I'm also unsure of where exactly to draw the line for degeneracy, other than the arbitrary 'whatever I don't like'.

If you have a fetish, you keep it between you and a willing partner and are able to maintain a healthy relationship, you're fine. I guarantee there were guys who went home from the Ford factory in the 1950s and had their housewife stick shit up their ass. They kept it to themselves, they didn't broadcast their life in the bedroom to everyone.

If you constantly tell everyone about your fetish, you're fucked in the head.

If your fetish is part of your identity, you're fucked in the head.

If your fetish is something that cannot possibly exist or something that no sane partner would willingly participate in, (Vore for example), you're fucked in the head.