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I mean ... romance literature is a huge market, and the Fifty Shades movies didn't make or watch themselves. I wouldn't trust a coomer to tell me about healthy sex any more than I'd trust a Feminist.
Could you lead me through your connection from cringe crappy books to feminists? I think I know where you're going, but before I reply I'd rather understand exactly.

A for back to feminism, the thing is, it's part of the same progressive view of the world that denies biological differences
I am disappoint. I thought we clarified that that is not the case at all. Recognition of humanity and related political and legal rights is not predicated on "there are no biological differences between the sexes." Key concepts: 1) biological differences do not make a case for a hierarchy, including and especially basic human and citizen rights, 2) "biological differences" matters for some things and not for others. Men don't need a gynecologist or a nursing bra, for example (despite current-day insanity that we all chuckle at and/or get outraged by on KF), and 3) notallwomen #notallmen: some women will be better shotputters than some men, and some men will be better crocheters than some women.

and tries to impose what Adam Curtis calls a "dream world" over pacified subjects. This is why all of this is related, because people that are in the business of pursuing equity or equality are almost always on the business of denying biological differences or trying super-hard to minimize them and to prevent policy based on data.
That humans have failed to hit the right policy notes (or to operationalize policy in rational, successful goal-based ways) every time does not mean it is impossible or that the underlying effort is unworthy.

Anyhow, since it got brought up for a bit earlier, I guess I could ask what women's opinions are on female separatism specifically, since I know that's the "dealbreaker" that keeps some women who would otherwise be full 4th-wave away from the movement.

As example/starter questions: Do you think it's best as an individual decision, or could there be some benefit to a more widespread separatist "wave"? Are you yourself a separatist (and if so, why)? If you aren't, do you believe it can be a good choice for other women, or not? Feel free to add in other ideas as well
Separatism meaning exactly what? Literal separatism, opting as women to move away from society and have no interaction with men whatsoever, to the furthest extent possible? Or is the concept something less stark?

Personally, the stark version doesn't resonate with me. That said, I'm not too familiar with the theory or intended practical aspects of it, so am curious to learn.

Without knowing the theory/"plan" in some detail, my reaction is that I can't conceive of it as a broad movement, either from a positive effect standpoint or from a practical one. I can certainly see individuals making that decision if they want to or it is how they want to live, for both their own personal and political reasons.

To the feminist kiwis here: What is your take on Mary Harrington and her unorthodox feminist views?
Intellectually, she has a shallow and literalist understanding of Rousseau. She also seems a bit traumatized by becoming a mother. She makes a fundamental intellectual error of conflating the ability to be a fully capable agent in your life with the rejection of a distinctly female existence, and it all seems like an opportunistic effort.

That said, because I try too hard to find merit everywhere, I was initially interested in a couple of incidental points she has made, though on review I decided that they were made primarily in service of poor conclusions.

And she is ass-backward on things like birth control.

God, she needs a Tl; dr.

I liked what Andrea had to say. If she seems paranoid and excessively angry at men, she had every right to be. She was prostituted by her boyfriend against her will and then he'd beat her if he thought she was withholding cash. This happened in Amsterdam in the 1960's.
OK. As I said, she contributed a lot to thought. But her views of all hetero sex as coercive and degrading, and that penetration dooms women to inferiority (note: for (my) convenience I^ loosely paraphrased Cathy Young (ugh, I get it) in her rather mean-spirited bitch about the glowing post-death notices about Dworkin, but if you read Intercourse, the characterization isn't wrong - "Intercourse is the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women," is only reasonable for broad adoption as a highly abstract, extrapolated notion). If you really liked what she has to say, in the sense of effecting it in real life, you wouldn't be living the hetero marriage/childbearing the life you live. ...and that is not a critique of you/your life! My point was and is that Dworkin is important for her intellectual philosophical challenge of the status quo/deeply embedded assumptions and dynamics, but it's a matter of pushing the edge to move the needle, not literal adoption on a broad scale (individuals absolutely could and do believe and live it...though not even she did).
 
OK. As I said, she contributed a lot to thought. But her views of all hetero sex as coercive and degrading, and that penetration dooms women to inferiority (note: for (my) convenience I^ loosely paraphrased Cathy Young (ugh, I get it) in her rather mean-spirited bitch about the glowing post-death notices about Dworkin, but if you read Intercourse, the characterization isn't wrong - "Intercourse is the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women," is only reasonable for broad adoption as a highly abstract, extrapolated notion). If you really liked what she has to say, in the sense of effecting it in real life, you wouldn't be living the hetero marriage/childbearing the life you live. ...and that is not a critique of you/your life! My point was and is that Dworkin is important for her intellectual philosophical challenge of the status quo/deeply embedded assumptions and dynamics, but it's a matter of pushing the edge to move the needle, not literal adoption on a broad scale (individuals absolutely could and do believe and live it...though not even she did).
I can admire things without living up to them. Just ask the kosher police.
But really in some ways when I read Dworkin I was like.... extreme, but not wrong. I feel like every hetero woman here could recall an incident where the man involved made sex feel very very degrading. Notallmen eh, notallsex, but I can understand where she is coming from.
 
Why are you here acting like you’re going to debate about feminism when you don’t even have a “browsed the wikipedia page while waiting at a stop light” level of knowledge on the topic?

Do you think people get like, kicked out of the united sisterhood of feminists organization? How exactly do you think that works in the one and only singular monolithe of “feminism”?
he's just a troll that keeps repeating himself. he's pretty desperate if he's bringing up some feminists supporting trannies, as if anyone in here does
She’s just another Camille paglia esque conservative that wants to be imflammatory by callling herself a feminist while saying she’s against women’s freedoms and making that into a “feminist” ideal. It’s a very popular grift lots of women do it like Christina hoff summers
fuck camille paglia. ive seen her interviews. her argument is basically "women can vote now so they should be ok with being raped because thats equality"
 
And the connection to feminism?
Feminism is concerned with women, and should be concerned with the choices women make, and the enormous romance lit market that caters, crafts and markets almost exclusively to women, and what women's purchasing choices within that market reveal about them. Whether directly linked to Feminism or not, it's revealing about women, and it can be used as evidence in discussions about Feminism.
 
As usual I can't reply to your post FoDP, but in regards to your comments on separatism, the "stark" version you described is more similar to how a strawmanning antifeminist would characterize separatism than what I think most separatists are really aiming for.

There's not one way to be a separatist, and there isn't necessarily widespread agreement within the movement as to what the "ideal" or "endgame" of separatism would be. What I can say is that none but the most extreme and idealistic ones would unironically suggest that women abandon all earthly civilizations and create their own on Mars or something. As an analogy--if someone describes themselves as a socialist, do they necessarily want a Stalinist revolution and dictatorship "of the proletariat"? Chances are, no.

Some women do live functionally as "complete separatists"; usually they work remotely and/or are self-employed, are not in active contact with any remaining male family members, and either live alone or with another woman (in the latter case, there are of course lesbian and FEBFem separatists in long-term relationships, but there are also straight ladies who have a sort of Boston marriage situation, in which they live and share finances with a female friend or friends).

Then you have the majority of separatists, who acknowledge the impossibility of removing men from their lives entirely, and aim only to keep men out of their "private sphere" despite still having them in their "public sphere". For example, if a female separatist works in an office for an IT company, she may have to see and interact with many men on a daily basis. But she will still not befriend men, nor date/marry men, nor engage with male family members beyond what is expected or necessary. Thus, while she is not completely removed from men, she's emotionally removed from them and doesn't engage with them on a personal level. The most important people in her life would all be women.

Other separatists might have a different view, but my personal opinion is that separatism should be for the individual and, if possible, small groups; by this I mean, separatists befriending other separatists and forming small communities. I read an article a little while ago about 7 Chinese women pooling their money, buying a big house and living together--personally, that would be my ideal end goal.
 
So what are some thoughts about women who troon out to be men?
Are they the ones who are the most self-hating in your eyes? Are they coerced by men into that life? What’s going on with it?

This can be a general question too.
obviously zippertits are the most pathetic of women. They’re just edgelords they don’t even wanna be men they just don’t wanna be women
I love pitbulls.
I love you Dyn but your niggertry is popping out
 
OK. As I said, she contributed a lot to thought. But her views of all hetero sex as coercive and degrading, and that penetration dooms women to inferiority (note: for (my) convenience I^ loosely paraphrased Cathy Young (ugh, I get it) in her rather mean-spirited bitch about the glowing post-death notices about Dworkin, but if you read Intercourse, the characterization isn't wrong - "Intercourse is the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women," is only reasonable for broad adoption as a highly abstract, extrapolated notion).

I can admire things without living up to them. Just ask the kosher police.
But really in some ways when I read Dworkin I was like.... extreme, but not wrong. I feel like every hetero woman here could recall an incident where the man involved made sex feel very very degrading. Notallmen eh, notallsex, but I can understand where she is coming from.
The more I listen to men talk the more I agree with her. ive talked about this before but it’s terrifying the way men talk about sex with wome. It’s as if they genuinely think we’re less than a person afterwards. i don’t feel like sperging but I genuinely believe that men think the mere act of being penetrated makes women less than them and that’s the cause if their unjustified misogyny. I truly think its why they hate us
 
Feminism is concerned with women, and should be concerned with the choices women make, and the enormous romance lit market that caters, crafts and markets almost exclusively to women, and what women's purchasing choices within that market reveal about them. Whether directly linked to Feminism or not, it's revealing about women, and it can be used as evidence in discussions about Feminism.
(Side note: Don't agree with your description of what feminism "should" be doing. And also, most feminist thought does not aim to define women's choices for them. Rather, even across feminisms with divergent views, the point is to advance a view that can be adopted and is advocated, but not to define down each individual's range of directions.)

That aside, though I track your connection (thank you for laying out your thought process), surely you recognize it's a tenuous one at best, yes?

So OK, I don't understand your comment that the fact that women are the overwhelmingly larger consumers of romance novels "can be used as evidence in discussions about feminism." Evidence of what, exactly? And are romance novel readers disproportionately feminist? That would actually surprise me.

Question - are you just aiming to shoot holes in "feminism" qua "feminism"? Why? What about it? I think you've mentioned "the political leadership" and implied that women (?)/feminists (?) have sufficient public power that they are...making life awful for women (?) (not sure I remember all you said, so please correct if I've mischaracterized your view). So is it mainstream women political leaders' positions that are the problem? Which positions have been most harmful? Or is it just the idea of feminism in general?

With respect, you come across as looking for ways or reasons to dump on women even more than on "feminism" per se - because you haven't really articulated here what about "feminism" is offensive. Is that correct?

On the book thing specifically, It is true that women make up ~80% of readers of romance novels, though I have not found info on what % of women read the things. Is it 2%, 10%, 30%, more? In any case, those women buyers drive and overwhelmingly foot the publishing industry, so if you're a reader, you're welcome. Romance novels comprise ~46% of all books sold, and the romance segment is ~ a $1.4-1.5B industry today. That sounds like a good thing, economy-wise.

The more I listen to men talk the more I agree with her. ive talked about this before but it’s terrifying the way men talk about sex with wome. It’s as if they genuinely think we’re less than a person afterwards. i don’t feel like sperging but I genuinely believe that men think the mere act of being penetrated makes women less than them and that’s the cause if their unjustified misogyny. I truly think its why they hate us
I understand that view. And I know with 100% certainty that there are men who, permanently or just in the arrogance of youth and immaturity, truly have that view at some level. And of course spotting and avoiding them is an important life skill. But even if so, and even if you encounter one, [sorry I'm kind of mom-ing here, but I'm really not intending to patronize you] the more important thing is not buying it. Anyone can think anything of you, but that doesn't make it true. It does matter in the larger sense, because they cause harm just by existing with that view, and it also matters because men have disproportionate and often sexist power, but as far as what you know about yourself as an individual, no man's retarded comprehension and lame efforts to compensate for personal shortcomings means anything about you.
 
(Side note: Don't agree with your description of what feminism "should" be doing.
Everyone's Feminisms are different, I'm led to believe. The Feminism currently in power even stands for men in dresses.
And also, most feminist thought does not aim to define women's choices for them. Rather, even across feminisms with divergent views, the point is to advance a view that can be adopted and is advocated, but not to define down each individual's range of directions.)
Stand on reality and you wouldn't have to deal with these parallel universes where everything is made up and the facts don't matter.
That aside, though I track your connection (thank you for laying out your thought process), surely you recognize it's a tenuous one at best, yes?
If you think it's tenuous then just make a statement. Obviously I don't or I wouldn't have pointed it out.
So OK, I don't understand your comment that the fact that women are the overwhelmingly larger consumers of romance novels "can be used as evidence in discussions about feminism." Evidence of what, exactly? And are romance novel readers disproportionately feminist? That would actually surprise me.
I already answered this in my previous post. It reveals unflattering truths about women's choices in a market almost entirely tailored for women. If porn consumption warps male expectations of sex, the chick lit market warps female expectations of romance and commitment.
Question - are you just aiming to shoot holes in "feminism" qua "feminism"?
Statement—You're a nigger qua nigger. You're welcome for literacy, ape.
Why? What about it? I think you've mentioned "the political leadership" and implied that women (?)/feminists (?) have sufficient public power that they are...making life awful for women (?) (not sure I remember all you said, so please correct if I've mischaracterized your view). So is it mainstream women political leaders' positions that are the problem? Which positions have been most harmful?
The Feminism currently enjoying political power thinks men in dresses are women, and ended womens sports and women's private accommodations. You tell me what's wrong with it. I'm just telling you how far away from the plot we are.
Or is it just the idea of feminism in general?
Which Feminism? There's so many. Some put men in dresses above women, so I hope you don't mean that one.
With respect, you come across as looking for ways or reasons to dump on women even more than on "feminism" per se - because you haven't really articulated here what about "feminism" is offensive. Is that correct?
Which Feminism?
On the book thing specifically, It is true that women make up ~80% of readers of romance novels, though I have not found info on what % of women read the things. Is it 2%, 10%, 30%, more? In any case, those women buyers drive and overwhelmingly foot the publishing industry, so if you're a reader, you're welcome. Romance novels comprise ~46% of all books sold, and the romance segment is ~ a $1.4-1.5B industry today. That sounds like a good thing, economy-wise.
The genres women buy and read are as revealing as the porn genres men watch. Garbage in, garbage out.
 
Nice light, optional boxes you have there. Does she lift the heavy boxes:
Women's suffrage?
Birth Control?
Early term elective abortion?
Late term therapeutic abortion?
Marital rape?
Date rape?
Women's enfranchisement (e.g. right to own property, real estate, a bank account, credit card, a cell phone plan, drive a car, move about in public unmolested, etc.?)

I don't think they are light boxes at all. Quite a lot of feminists supports troons in women's prisons, they support surrogacy, and they support prostitution and porno because "sexwork is work" or some dumb shit.

On the other hand, all feminists support womens suffrage and right to own property, and oppose date rape and marital rape. Id say those are the real light boxes. Even most non-feminists would tick those boxes.
 
And what about racism? Are there any well known feminists who oppose the invasion of Europe by millions of African rapeniggers and savage mohammedans? It seems to me, that if you are serious about feminism, you should go all 1488 on immigrants, muslims and streetshitters.
 
fuck camille paglia. ive seen her interviews. her argument is basically "women can vote now so they should be ok with being raped because thats equality"
The argument I've always seen from her is that women should accept that life is more dangerous for a woman, and prepare themselves to defend themselves, to remain wary and build a culture that allows them to protect themselves from situations like that. Carry pepper spray, don't put themselves in a situation where they're vulnerable, basically 'keep your back up against the wall'. What I've seen her express disdain for is the idea that women should be begging 'the system' to protect them, as Paglia sees 'the system' as something that can't be relied on to do that. I definitely agree with that, I mean I know of higher ups in companies that I worked for who were absolute dogs but still mouthed the platitudes, and nothing happened to them. The system protected them because they were the system. The really scathing line from her that I recall was 'women shouldn't be walking around like weepy, melting sticks of butter' or something like that.

Overall her view seems to be that you can't ask for rights or protest for them effectively if you aren't willing to and prepared to fight for them on a visceral level.
 
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