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Could you lead me through your connection from cringe crappy books to feminists? I think I know where you're going, but before I reply I'd rather understand exactly.I mean ... romance literature is a huge market, and the Fifty Shades movies didn't make or watch themselves. I wouldn't trust a coomer to tell me about healthy sex any more than I'd trust a Feminist.
I am disappoint. I thought we clarified that that is not the case at all. Recognition of humanity and related political and legal rights is not predicated on "there are no biological differences between the sexes." Key concepts: 1) biological differences do not make a case for a hierarchy, including and especially basic human and citizen rights, 2) "biological differences" matters for some things and not for others. Men don't need a gynecologist or a nursing bra, for example (despite current-day insanity that we all chuckle at and/or get outraged by on KF), and 3) notallwomen #notallmen: some women will be better shotputters than some men, and some men will be better crocheters than some women.A for back to feminism, the thing is, it's part of the same progressive view of the world that denies biological differences
That humans have failed to hit the right policy notes (or to operationalize policy in rational, successful goal-based ways) every time does not mean it is impossible or that the underlying effort is unworthy.and tries to impose what Adam Curtis calls a "dream world" over pacified subjects. This is why all of this is related, because people that are in the business of pursuing equity or equality are almost always on the business of denying biological differences or trying super-hard to minimize them and to prevent policy based on data.
Separatism meaning exactly what? Literal separatism, opting as women to move away from society and have no interaction with men whatsoever, to the furthest extent possible? Or is the concept something less stark?Anyhow, since it got brought up for a bit earlier, I guess I could ask what women's opinions are on female separatism specifically, since I know that's the "dealbreaker" that keeps some women who would otherwise be full 4th-wave away from the movement.
As example/starter questions: Do you think it's best as an individual decision, or could there be some benefit to a more widespread separatist "wave"? Are you yourself a separatist (and if so, why)? If you aren't, do you believe it can be a good choice for other women, or not? Feel free to add in other ideas as well
Personally, the stark version doesn't resonate with me. That said, I'm not too familiar with the theory or intended practical aspects of it, so am curious to learn.
Without knowing the theory/"plan" in some detail, my reaction is that I can't conceive of it as a broad movement, either from a positive effect standpoint or from a practical one. I can certainly see individuals making that decision if they want to or it is how they want to live, for both their own personal and political reasons.
Intellectually, she has a shallow and literalist understanding of Rousseau. She also seems a bit traumatized by becoming a mother. She makes a fundamental intellectual error of conflating the ability to be a fully capable agent in your life with the rejection of a distinctly female existence, and it all seems like an opportunistic effort.To the feminist kiwis here: What is your take on Mary Harrington and her unorthodox feminist views?
That said, because I try too hard to find merit everywhere, I was initially interested in a couple of incidental points she has made, though on review I decided that they were made primarily in service of poor conclusions.
And she is ass-backward on things like birth control.
God, she needs a Tl; dr.
OK. As I said, she contributed a lot to thought. But her views of all hetero sex as coercive and degrading, and that penetration dooms women to inferiority (note: for (my) convenience I^ loosely paraphrased Cathy Young (ugh, I get it) in her rather mean-spirited bitch about the glowing post-death notices about Dworkin, but if you read Intercourse, the characterization isn't wrong - "Intercourse is the pure, sterile, formal expression of men's contempt for women," is only reasonable for broad adoption as a highly abstract, extrapolated notion). If you really liked what she has to say, in the sense of effecting it in real life, you wouldn't be living the hetero marriage/childbearing the life you live. ...and that is not a critique of you/your life! My point was and is that Dworkin is important for her intellectual philosophical challenge of the status quo/deeply embedded assumptions and dynamics, but it's a matter of pushing the edge to move the needle, not literal adoption on a broad scale (individuals absolutely could and do believe and live it...though not even she did).I liked what Andrea had to say. If she seems paranoid and excessively angry at men, she had every right to be. She was prostituted by her boyfriend against her will and then he'd beat her if he thought she was withholding cash. This happened in Amsterdam in the 1960's.