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"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
 
melty said:
There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
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It's honestly a bit grating how EDF glosses over things like this without mentioning the difficulties involved. I have a poly friend who was in emotional anguish for ages because she can only be happy while in multiple relationships at once but couldn't find a partner who would tolerate and support her. It's not all flowers and romance.
 
Zeorus said:
It's honestly a bit grating how EDF glosses over things like this without mentioning the difficulties involved. I have a poly friend who was in emotional anguish for ages because she can only be happy while in multiple relationships at once but couldn't find a partner who would tolerate and support her. It's not all flowers and romance.
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There are a ton of difficulties with poly relationships. I had one friend who broke up 3 different long term relationships in about 2 weeks. Breaking up with one person is bad enough. But that kind of thing is never covered by SJWs, it's always sunshine and rainbows and everybody loves each other equally and you all have happy lesbian sex and raise your beautiful nonbinary children together happily in harmony and other nonsense.
 
melty said:
There are a ton of difficulties with poly relationships. I had one friend who broke up 3 different long term relationships in about 2 weeks. Breaking up with one person is bad enough. But that kind of thing is never covered by SJWs, it's always sunshine and rainbows and everybody loves each other equally and you all have happy lesbian sex and raise your beautiful nonbinary children together happily in harmony and other nonsense.
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The entire "poly relationships are totes better than monogamy" thing just reeks of naivete at best (people who have seen or witnessed a lot of bad relationships and think that poly relationships are better without truly understanding why relationships in general fail and number 5 is a pretty blatant example) and blatant exploitation by your typical horrorcow at worst.
 
Melancholic_Cowboy said:
Honestly, this article seems pretty damn irresponsible, especially since it's targeted at people who are in a very vulnerable position in their life (being confused about their gender identity).

"Trying something out – like a new name (or nickname), a new pronoun, a new shirt or a new hat, even low dose hormones – can be the nudge that pushes you in the right direction. It can turn an abstract experience of discomfort into concrete validation of “this feels right.”"

Don't get me wrong, hormones can be a God-send to those who legitimately have gender dysphoria, but there's a very good reason that any doctor worth their salt just doesn't hand it out like candy. Hormones can, if left unchecked by doctors, can have negative effects on the body. Hell, a lot of people have to go through medical and psychological evaluations just to make sure they can even psychologically/physically handle the changes hormones bring.
Also, if you're on hormones long enough, some aspects of your body will permanently change.
With hormones you are doing something that has a drastic effect on your body and the fact that the author of the article seems to think it's okay to just lump them in with trying out a new shirt or a new hat is just fuckin' stupid!

"Read, lots: blogs, forums, books, magazines, journals.
The more you think about it the clearer things will get (eventually), and the more information you have to think with the better armed you are to construct your own conclusions.
Another wonderful option is to attend local support groups. Finding gaggles of non-binary folk is hard enough online, although you may be surprised how many other gender questioning people there are in your near vicinity.
Although nobody’s journey will be exactly the same, finding like-minded folk you can share experiences with is invaluable."

Okay, so absolutely no mention of going to see a professional psychologist or gender therapist? Are people who are professionally trained to advise others in these specific areas too hetero-cisnormative for you people?

I'm sorry- this frustrates me. This is shitty, touchy-feely "advice" directed to people who are in a vulnerable position. I hope that anyone who is having issues with their gender identity can see through this bullshit and go seek the advice of a real mental health professional.
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This is transsexual.org levels of horrible
 
melty said:
"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
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What happened to polygamy being like this
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melty said:
"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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I like Number 4 the best. The adults at the left are like "We had all the sex" and the adults at right happily go like "and we do all the work!"

Number 1: Yoai fangirlism
Number 2: Snowflakes as jigsaw puzzle
Number 3: Lesbian sex is hawt + disabled people are always nonsexual
Number 4: Communism
Number 5: I was born yesterday!
 
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melty said:
"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
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It's almost like the mainstream just treats polyamory like the joke it is.
 
*Asterisk* said:
17 Lies to Stop Teaching Girls About Sex.
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3. All Women Are Born with Vaginas
Some items on this list focus on the anatomy of those assigned female at birth in an effort to illuminate issues that many girls don’t get to talk about enough, but the purpose is never to be exclusionary.
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How is a biological fact a myth?

Gender identity is different from biological sex, and trans women are women, period.
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No it's not.
A Woman is a human being born with a vagina. Anyone who claims otherwise is mentally ill and is following a dangerous trend that will be laughed at in a few decades.
 
melty said:
"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
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There ain't a damn thing that that whole image I "needed" to know.

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1) You need a course on masturbation?
2) You can get a scholarship to take it?
 
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melty said:
"5 Radical Ways People Do Non-Monogamy That You Need to Know About"
http://www.donotlink.com/gtz8


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There's honestly little difference between the "styles", they are entirely made up and most poly people promote all of them anyway. And of course they make being poly look like its a really fun and progressive sitcom at all times.
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The sheer level of jaw-dropping delusion that's going into this is stunning. But sure, let's take a look and get educated:
1.) It's very important to treat queer people like special little sexual medals that validate how progressive you are. They just love relationships based around the knowledge that things would be different if they weren't a minority.
2.) Our romantic life should be a political statement!
3.) STDs? Who gives a shit?
4.) Yeah, kids raised with a poor definition of who has authority over them and an ever-shifting set of caretakers often grow up to be really well-adjusted. Cute kid though. Shame she's going to grow up to eat people.
5.) Commitment is hard and growing up sucks; let's act like we're 20 forever.

Well this has been fun. If nothing else, it explains a lot about why I've never met a poly couple with a stable, healthy dynamic.
 
ChurchOfGodBear said:
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1) You need a course on masturbation?
2) You can get a scholarship to take it?
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I find it funny they have this thing since like half if their articles are about how you need to constantly self flagulate for being white/cis/whatever.

Which is it, EDF? Because the two are kind of contradictory.
 
I'm fine with poly relationships, but I agree with the others who say this is making too light of the subject. It's sad that whenever these comics appear, it's almost always the white CIShet person who is in the wrong. In the end, they must always repent and do what they can to fix it. (It's kinda like a Chick Tract.)

3) The concept of aromantic is confusing. So they don't want sex or to go on dates or celebrate Valentine's Day then?
4) Let me get this straight: The two on the left (who may not be even be a couple) are the little girl's birth parents. While the ones on the right (who may also not be in a relationship together) are her primary caregivers. Or do the all live together as a joint unit?

Android raptor said:
I find it funny they have this thing since like half if their articles are about how you need to constantly self flagulate for being white/cis/whatever.

Which is it, EDF? Because the two are kind of contradictory.
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I think it's only if you're the right kind of person.
 
Evilboshe said:
From what I've heard on Tumblr and the like, people say you can be aromantic and still experience sexual attraction.
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Even under the generous assumption that this is a real thing, why not just hire hookers?
 
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