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- May 7, 2018
This sums up what the problem is with the majority of those online claiming they have INTJ personality . The INTJ female is even worse when you start reading their posts in forums . I find that it is like BPD or a coveted vogue illness because people wanting to be trendy will claim they are this personality.It's not that the personality type itself is bad--there are plenty of INTJs who have actively cultivated empathy and good interpersonal skills, and aren't utter spergs. But in online groups devoted to discussing specific types, INTJs (the least common type) tend to be the most active and prolific posters, take this shit with far more seriousness than it warrants, and, worst of all, use their personality type and its description as an excuse to keep engaging in some of the most unappealing behaviors ascribed to their type. And, as a group, they not only reinforce each others' identities as INTJs, but also the worst qualities of the type.
The fedora-wearing euphoric atheist who thinks that if he just keeps hammering away at other people with pure logic, they'll come to their senses? That's the kind of INTJ who populates online groups. The dude who finds other people's emotional needs tedious, and doesn't even bother to try being sympathetic? Same. This guy, and what he says about his relationship with his wife? Perfect example.
[Source: Am an INTJ, try not to be an asshole, and noped the fuck out of online groups for INTJs because holy fuck.]
There are definitely people with this personality but the majority of people online claiming they are just want to be something they aren't even close to .
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