🍗 Deathfat Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

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sperginity said:
She lost an inch by developing knock knees. The weight she's carrying fucked up her skeleton that bad. She's 5'2".
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I've actually wondered which measurement should be used for her BMI, if the now-different position of her bones should be taken into account and she should still "deserve" that extra inch, or not.

(That sounds dirty. I like it.)
 
CindyChafe said:
I wonder how Becky rationalizes it to herself getting Big AL every single food items she requests. Can she really still believe the whole “you’re healthy, just big” bit? I get that she’s riding the YouTube gravy train (boat?) and is happy to buy all the cartoon T-shirt’s and snapbacks but can she really be satisfied with that?

I’m thinking Becky is eating right along AL, considering all of the weight she is gaining. Perhaps she’s thrown in the towel and has decided to gain along with her bedbound princess. All of it is so fucking bleak. It’s hard to think about that being an actual person’s reality.
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It’s as you said in an earlier post, Becky is emotionally drained and wants to avoid an argument, so she just does what Amber wants. She’s also not the brightest person around. I do get the criticism of enablers for sure, but at the same time I have a strong degree of sympathy in these situations. Becky would have to be incredibly committed to Amber long term, and perhaps in joint therapy need to understand that Amber needs some tough love, and that treating her for the long term is worth putting up with the short term ramifications of arguments.

I just don’t see Becky caring as much as she would need to change her ways. She would most likely dump Amber if she understood what it would really take to help.
 
"What it would take to help" would be for Becky to endure endless verbal abuse, tantrums and possibly rage/physical abuse. It's insane to expect anyone to put up with that. Are we forgetting that she physically struck Casey/Cassidy, Krystle, and possibly even Destiny?

And even if Becky stopped "enabling", Amberlynn would just ramp up her efforts to find somebody else to "enable" her. I'm so tired of that word.

The demonizing of Becky (moreso on youtube than here on KF) really irritates me. Not because I care about Becky but because this enabler narrative absolves Amberlynn of responsibility. Thousands and thousands of comments blaming Becky and saying Amberlynn will never lose weight until BECKY gets it together. Idiots.
 
suicide girl said:
I’m pretty sure she’s not interested in losing weight now, something bad needs to happen for her to realize that she’s hit rock bottom. “Some people only learn with pain..”
Don’t get me wrong, but what I mean by something bad is, for example, something small (for example, she meeting someone that she used to know and the person calling her fat) that can really hit (but it’s unlikely that she will lose weight because of that), or something more important.. Like she getting diagnosed with a heart disease or something. The heaviest people on earth only lost their weight because they realized they would die if they didn’t change.
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She could also lose weight when they amputate a cankle.

Ambers only real hope is esophageal bypass surgery.

 
Its pretty obvious that Amber didnt simply "forget" to refill her medicine and that's why shes gone cold turkey. With a 50+ pound gain, her dosage would need to change so she would need to revisit the doctor and OBVIOUSLY shes not willing to do that.
 
honestly @ this point our gorl just needs MSHPL. Dr. Now will give her a needed kick in the ass, and she'll have a lot of attention via cameras, and she'll get "more famous" -- if they can work out a deal where she can still vlog somehow, it could really be a good thing for both ALR and MSHPL and be one of the more memorable episodes. She ought to do it. It's win-win; she could parlay it into a new career as a YouTuber who lost weight, and keeps it off, and she'd be more popular than ever.

I'd die for the Dr. Now interactions with ALR/Necky.
-- Dr Now: "Hey how y'all doin? so it looks like you gained another tirty pounds"
ALR & Necky look at each other
-- Dr Now: "Necky, you are killing her. You have to stop driving her to multiple restaurants per day. You are an enabler. And if it was up to me, I would have you locked up for attempted murder. Also, you look like a thumb."
-- ALR: "but i didnt know I was gaineen, and its mostly water weight, ive never felt more petite, i swear to god"
-- Dr Now: "Do you like weighing more than a grizzly bear? you need to cut the shit and stop stuffing your face and stop manipulating your enablers. You've been gaining non-stop for years. Stop for one second and admit you are the one shoveling food in your mouth. I'm gonna set an appointment for you to see a psychiatrist, come back here in 1 munt having lost fity pounds, or there will be no surgery"
 
For me when I think about Becky in terms of being “the enabler” is just that she has to see AL in at least somewhat the same way as we do? Unless she’s extra fucking re.tarded and blinded by love/not having to work/being almost 30 and not wanting to be alone/dazzled by AL’s “status” on YouTube and relatively large amount of money as well as AL’s own manipulation tactics. (Although AL active manipulating is probably less than Becky’s own personal insecurities which make her an easier target to manipulate.)

Just how can Becky not see that Amber is indeed a giant baby who can’t function as a normal adult and will resort to physical and emotional abuse to get what she wants. I’m just trying to figure out what the fuck Becky thinks she’s getting out of this. I guess it has been answered before - Becky just wants to feel needed and boy can AL make a person feel needed what with her inability to do much of anything aside from consume.

In order for Becky to be in this relationship she has to think she is somehow less than AL. Maybe for making a video that’s very hate-watchable rather than suicidally boring AL has Becky beat but in most other ways Becky is way more functional a person and was even more functional til AL came around.

I do agree the people in the YouTube comments who are like “COME ON BECKY WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO REALIZE YOU'RE KILLING AL?!? “ are fucking stupid and aren’t seeing the full picture although I don’t read many YouTube comments aside from the top voted ones which are usually some type of sick burns for lack of a better term.

I think my answer is I gotta stop trying to get inside the mind of Becky because there may not be much there outside of base needs/wants... and it’s also a scary tiny thing that has seen some shit.
 
As fun as it wold be to watch this slow train wreck on MSPL and see her and Dr Now go at it. It would be wasted on her as she wouldn't go to lose weight but to get (in)famous like SA. The success stories might not make great viewing but I rather watch those than people like her who don't want to be helped.

It's clear to all of us but her that she is killing herself. She hasn't hit her rock bottom and who knows if she will while she has enablers around that will get her food, she'll be completely bed bound and still not see it as a problem because she will still get the food she wants. It's frustrating because you really do want to slap her until she wakes up and sees the depths of hell she has created for herself.
 
CindyChafe said:
For me when I think about Becky in terms of being “the enabler” is just that she has to see AL in at least somewhat the same way as we do? Unless she’s extra fucking re.tarded and blinded by love/not having to work/being almost 30 and not wanting to be alone/dazzled by AL’s “status” on YouTube and relatively large amount of money as well as AL’s own manipulation tactics. (Although AL active manipulating is probably less than Becky’s own personal insecurities which make her an easier target to manipulate.)

Just how can Becky not see that Amber is indeed a giant baby who can’t function as a normal adult and will resort to physical and emotional abuse to get what she wants. I’m just trying to figure out what the fuck Becky thinks she’s getting out of this. I guess it has been answered before - Becky just wants to feel needed and boy can AL make a person feel needed what with her inability to do much of anything aside from consume.

In order for Becky to be in this relationship she has to think she is somehow less than AL. Maybe for making a video that’s very hate-watchable rather than suicidally boring AL has Becky beat but in most other ways Becky is way more functional a person and was even more functional til AL came around.

I do agree the people in the YouTube comments who are like “COME ON BECKY WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO REALIZE YOU'RE KILLING AL?‽ “ are fucking stupid and aren’t seeing the full picture although I don’t read many YouTube comments aside from the top voted ones which are usually some type of sick burns for lack of a better term.

I think my answer is I gotta stop trying to get inside the mind of Becky because there may not be much there outside of base needs/wants... and it’s also a scary tiny thing that has seen some shit.
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Well said and I agree. It's crippling insecurity that keeps Becky stuck in her situation. I don't think she's intentionally trying to contribute to the premature death of her girlfriend by enabling, but that's true for most enablers. They do what they do out of misguided love and loyalty. And Becky has taken it a step further, with her own weight gain. Maybe that's also how she 'loves' Amberlynn--by joining her in the trenches, so-to-speak.

Becky's perspective being the "skinny" one in the relationship is also really skewed because of who she's with. She's gained a fuck-ton this year. But...she's dating someone TWICE her size. It's all relative at the end of the day.

Calling bullshit on Becky's new weight, though. Definitely over 300 at this point. She doesn't have to step on a scale or admit it. We have eyes.
 
Becky isn't killing ALR, ALR is killing herself. Becky aside, ALR will find a way to get her food through delivery means if necessary or manipulating someone else. The only person to blame for the weight ALR has gained and the food she eats is ALR herself.
 
Amber thinks she will lose weight by buying the right combination of FitBit, journal, pen, plastic cup and calorie counting plan/app. By golly she’s gone through a lot of them. Any day now she will find the magic combo of Walmart crap that will be the holy grail of weight loss. Maybe she will even write a weight loss book.

Plot twist for a weird Rick & Morty esque alternate universe: Amberlynn Reid is a weight loss guru, shilling her products on QVC and the like. The Amberlynn Reid weight loss protein bar that tastes like a Snickers. The Amberlynn Reid weight loss journal with cahyooot gold Pineapples in the cover. The Amberlynn Reid plastic water cup where everything you drink from it tastes like Sprite Zero.
 
I don't know how I feel about Amber going on MSHPL. I think there's a real chance of it at this point. On one hand, obviously, I'd watch the shit out of her episode. Dr. Now ripping her a new hole in her leggings asshole would be great. On the other hand, I think the show would paint her in a much more sympathetic light than she deserves (no chance they'd cover the false rape accusations, the way she treats her gorlfriends unless she's stupid enough to do it on camera, etc.) and it would boost her ego, which is is the last thing she needs right now.
 
Tbh I don't know what the end game is. One, she dies. Two, by some miracle where hell freezes over, she loses weight..but she will still look ugly with excess skin and 30years old with no job experience (no, her volunteer service doesn't count). It's a lose-lose no matter how you see it
 
While I agree that the demonization of Becky is stupid, I also don’t think the she should be absolved of ALL responsibility. I’m sure living with and loving AL is hard work, no doubt about that, but regardless of how insecure and pathetic she is, there comes a time where you have to put your foot down. I’m not going to pretend I know what it’s like to be an “enabler” (bleh), and I totally sympathize with the abuse, it must be horrible, but she has people in her life, be it her family or Eric and Ricky who she can turn to and say “I can’t handle this girl on my own, I need help.” I completely agree that she is the type of person that wants to feel needed, and taking care of Amberlynn maybe satisfies that, but personally I believe that if she truly loved AL she would take steps to help her and herself out of this rut. Again, I know when AL is screaming, pissing and moaning about how bad she needs a Reese’s cup sucks, and that it’s possible she gets some physical abuse, but she does not have to keep herself in that situation. She doesn’t have to leave AL, like I said she has people she can ask for help, and I think she should ask for some right now. She claims to be a competent person, although I don’t think there’s much going on in her noggin, but I know she is smart enough to ASK for help. Maybe she’s too scared or too prideful, but ffs they’re both dying, no one would blame her for getting someone to help out a little bit.

Yet again I luckily have very little experience living with an abusive land whale, so I’m just someone on the outside looking in. And I also know it’s easy to say to someone who is abused “just walk away!!” When it’s really not always that simple, so I’m just talking out of my ass.

Edit: Typos and I wanted to add something: if getting Amber help means in turn AL will just find another sped to spoonfeed her butter, than at least Becky can truly say to herself “I did my best.” And isn’t that worth something? Becky has no obligation to help Amber, but if she loves her MAYBE she should try. I’m not saying at all that AL’s weight gain is Becky’s fault because it isn’t, but she can take her hand off the wheel if she wants to.
 
Becky reminds me of that one guy from MSHPL that didn't want his spouse to lose weight. All because her becoming more independent would lead her to need them less and ultimately abandoning them. It's not that Becky wants to feel needed, it's that she is so insecure about herself that she fears Amber would kick her to the curb the minute she gets tired of her. She has no backbone and no love for herself (allowing Amber to push her around and putting Amber's binges over her own health) under that guise that she is a strong woman who don't need no help.

Becky has a follower and sheep mentality. If her girlfriend were skinny, she'll lose weight if only to appeal to her taste more. If you put her in a home with a hambeast, she'll gain 100lbs if only to participate in their lifestyle. No thought of her own. If driving Harambe out to IHOP at 4am to get pancakes is what gets her that sweet affirmation and cuddles, then she'll do it. Any rational person in that kind of situation would run for the hills, lose weight, get some kind of vocational training and get a job. But Becky is not normal and obviously has extreme insecurity problems.

 
Amber should kick Becky to the curb. She's never going to get better while she's stuck living in Kentucky, miserable and bored out of her mind, with nothing to do but eat, and Becky doesn't want to move. She might still not get better even if she gets out of Kentucky, but she definitely won't if she doesn't leave.
 
Amberlynn is at fault for her weight, sure Becky could lay the hammer down on carting her around for food but she is not to blame for it. In this age of postmates, grubhub and doordash she could easily pay extra to get food delivered to her. Not to mention Amazon Prime now and etc if its available to her. AL will always find a way to get her DOC, no matter what company she is in.
Becky is a shithead and a leech without a doubt and she knows once AL goes it's back to work for her and Eric will not be able to spend money on bullshittery like he does now.
Becky is more scared of the money flow stopping once AL waddles out the door and the fastest way to that happening is not keeping her stocked on her drugs.
 
I'm drunk so I'm gonna ramble.

Becky and AL are both emotionally stunted. That's just a fact. Just look at Becky, she's a walking talking piece of 90's nostalgia who sleeps with her baby blanket with the IQ of the average hick. AL is still living in her abusive past, using it as an excuse constantly just to avoid any responsibility regarding her mental health and eating disorder meanwhile manipulating friends and partners along the way to get what she wants. I truly believe Becky is too emotionally immature and doesn’t exactly know how to help. Becky did not know what she was in for. She may know it’s really wrong, but it’s probably too real, too confrontational for her to deal with. Despite her silly (completely empty) aggressive threats against haters who would DARE call AL fat to her face IRL. Right goorl…

Becky had a terrible diet too, before AL came along, let's be real. Did Becky think she could change her… or something? What was her plan? Help AL lose weight with her? Just make her feel better? (“You’re healthy, you’re just big!”) HOW? Answer is no, she had no idea.

But when they first got together it was perfect, Becky needed someone to take care of, Amber needed to BE taken care of. It was an ideal situation. I don’t think Necks predicted this, and now it’s spiraling out of control. Amber can barely walk, has trouble sleeping, doesn’t breathe well, sleeps at terrible hours, constantly needs to go to Walmart and get fast food/go to restaurants. I would imagine that’s overwhelming. AL insists they’re both doing sooooo great! That’s where we are now. Becky is still a fucking child and doesn’t know to deal with this in any sort of adult way. She’d rather look away and hope that it’ll just be OK without any sort of intervention and think AL will just figure it out on her own.

This is not love.
So yeah, in the end, they are both horrible for each other.

Edit: I am also not making any excuses for Becky. Just trying to figure out her mindset.
 
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