I just watched the Mr Snowflake video and everything seems to line up to point to Valentine and Tommy/Emily being the same person. I didn't believe Valentine was Tommy at first because with Wifey, her identity had quickly been discovered so Amber pretended she had broken up with Wifey and got a new gf in a desperate, weak attempt to put the genie back in the bottle so to speak.
We didn't know anything about Valentine, so it didn't make sense to me at first why Amber would say she broke up with her and then claim a minute later she had a whole new gf that she was totally in love with. It only served to make her look flakey, being totaly in love with Wifey, then another person, then Valentine, then Tommy,, but of course she had to do that because Tommy was in a relationship with a sick, dying woman when Amber was talking to Valentine.
If Valentine and Tommy(and that third girl from just after the wifey break up) are the same person -which they really seem to be at the moment-then this is so much worse than Tommy being a just feeder, which was pretty bad, but could be dismissed as a weird, creepy fetish or kink. This, though is straight up evil and if Amber knew that Tommy had a partner and she was waiting for her to die, then Amber is an even worse person than I ever thought she was and I always thought she was a selfish narcissist, but shit, its like she has no soul at all to do this and/or be ok with someone else doing this .
And when you go back and look at Tommy crying over Colleen at the memorial service, talking about how she loved her, how they had such a strong, solid relationship and think about the fact that she was already talking to Amber, and telling her that she loved her and couldn't wait to be with her her...there are no words to describe what a horrible person she is.
Ive been saying that I don't believe Amber and Tommy broke up, I really don't think anyone believed it, but now I really, really hope they haven't, because this like one of those awful, yet entertaining psychological horror movies from the 1970s and 80s about what would happen if the two most selfish, , narcasstic sociopathic lesbians were to meet each other and 'fall in love.' If two people ever deserved each other its Tommy and Amber.