Just goes to show that X men fetishizing Y women and Y women fetishizing X men, goes in all sorts of directions. Also there's weird phenomena where men and women will desire the person of opposite gender of a different race, while hating the opposite gender the same race.
I'll try to effort post on this without power leveling too hard.
Every case of this I've seen going either way is rooted in that person's negative and positive experience with X women and Y men, then thinking "grass is greener on the other side". The feeling doesn't manifest out of nowhere usually, but granted there are some real basket cases out there.
Big power level but this conundrum is something I've had to personally reconcile with since in my formative years the hand full of black girls that were around always went out of their way to be extra nice to me in particular. Meanwhile, save for a few "exceptional individuals" the interactions with black males were neutral at best since I avoided them, or negative when it couldn't be avoided.
Black women like this in particular tend to be resentful of other black women and extremely jaded towards black men.
A majority will grow up being abused by a single mother with a rotating cast of other abusive babydaddies. Then in the glorified daycare of public schools she'll be tormented by black boys engaging in gang behavior and emulating "rap culture" where they're demeaned for their appearance and behavior, or sexually harassed by feral niglets. When they come of age her mother will begin to see her as competition and treat her even worse than before. See the videos of these BT-1000s berating their daughters like street whores for merely being a teenage girl as example. They may even try to date within their own race at first but quickly realize the abusive, unfaithful and shallow nature of their counterparts. The few who are smart enough to recognize the pattern want an escape so they'll start going outside of their own race. They'll go down the road of talking to white men since they don't engage with women this way. Compared to how they came up, being in an average relationship with a white man may as well be getting the royal treatment. As opposed to becoming d'quarious's 3rd babymama he beats up and cheats on before being brutally murdered in a gang killing before he turns 20.
The same can also be applied to the nigcel passport bros since majority of black women will be extremely low class. They don't want a square. They see nothing wrong with being d'quarious's 3rd babymama. They see being a hoochiemama as aspirational. They want the drill rapper who will have his head blown off over nothing because he has a leased hellcat, fake chain, and a wad of cash because to them that's the height of achievement.