I think I get where the OP is coming from & while we all know it's easy to romanticize the past, it's interesting to look back to see how different the lives of working people have become.
If we look back to Victorian times, I think the sense of community was far stronger than today, possibly because we were more homogeneous, we dressed pretty much the same, were expected to attend church every Sunday & we probably had far greater social skills than today. Mainly because in our free time, we'd have to entertain ourselves with storytelling, music & singing, games involving more than just one person, doing craft work by hand or socialising in a pub. All things that are far less common or popular today.
On the downside, if I had been a Victorian, I'd probably be dead by now as I'm middle aged but at least I wouldn't have been concerned about some religious nutter blowing me up in the street & while life will have been exceptionally hard for some children, at least they wouldn't be committing suicide over being bullied on Facebook & I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be stabbing each other to death over drugs or even just being disrespected. In fact, there'd be no 'War on Drugs' because we could buy heroin, cocaine & many other drugs from a pharmacy, so no need for street dealers.
There's no question that life in the past would have been physically harder but as long as we had a job & some sort of home, even if we shared it with many other people, I think life in general might have been far simpler & less stressful than today. There were far fewer bills to worry about without electricity & running water, no credit card bills, no motoring costs & a rural lifestyle would have given many of us the opportunity to be far more self sufficient by keeping animals on common land, or a pig & chickens at home, we'd grow our own veg & probably be able to barter goods & services with our neighbours, who we'd most likely all know by name & probably work alongside with too, as most people worked locally back then. No commuting hell, no motorways scaring the countryside, no Islam, no LGBT+ bollocks, no SJW's = bliss.