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[Magic Pickle]

The "T" stands for taxonomy: a straight-with-extra-steps T4T couple has issues when the pooner girlfriend defines her sexuality based on biology and not genderfeels; OP, the tranny half of the equation, claims that he doesn't want to pressure her to redefine herself but then basically writes about how he wants her to redefine herself nonetheless.
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The way my partner(21ftm) defines their sexuality troubles me(20mtf)​

i want to start off by saying their sexuality is theirs, and that i don’t want to ‘change their mind’ or police them, and that how he labels himself is valid.
we are both on hormones and i identify as a transfem nonbinary woman (she/her/they) and they identify as a transmasc nonbinary guy (they/he), so i thought our relationship would be more nuanced in terms of how he views it.
he’s told me that i am a woman 100% and that they are panromantic, but their genital preference is for penises, and that would make them straight. And in turn, our sex life straight, as it is dick-pussy sex.
i have been on estrogen for a year now, and my penis has changed very much! and yet in my partners eyes there is no difference when it boils down to their sexuality.
i asked them, “if i got bottom surgery would it make our relationship’s sex suddenly gay?” and the answer was yes. they don’t see gender as a part of sexuality, only genitals.
i am glad that i’m seen as a woman to him but it feels so icky that there is no difference to them whether it’s a trans woman or a cis guy with the penis it’s just, genitals. and i hate being grouped in with men in that sense.
to me, my sexuality (bisexual) is so nuanced and based on gender identity and expression and even just vibes. i don’t have a genitalia preference but my attraction to said genitals changes wildly, depending on the identity of that person. i see sexuality and genital preference as two separate things.
i do want to add that genitals are a big part of sexuality for most people, but i do not think it is the sole and leading factor in sexual attraction.
i feel like they’ve stuck with the definition we’ve been handed to us from a young age by cishet society and it feels very uncomfortable having it within a t4t relationship. it also feels kind of bio-essentialist in a way, not him specifically but the definition itself.
they’ve offered to agree to disagree but i don’t know if i truly can, if i’m being honest.
is it okay for me to have these grievances? and what are your thoughts? i’m not sure how else to approach this situation..
(also excuse the formatting i am on mobile </3)

A married man, now feeling himself as a saucy, sensual little siren after beginning his journey as a crossdresser, struggles to get his wife on board to appreciate the lusty lesbian lover he has rebirthed himself into. I love the part where she doesn't react sufficiently to his sexy selfies thus triggering his 'rejection sensitivity' - why not try uploading your pictures to the various trans subs? And I'm totally not just saying that so I can post them here to point and laugh at, I pinky promise!
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Feeling lost in my relationship since my transition​

I (32F) have been with my wife (32F) for 12 years. I think we've probably had some trouble with sexual intimacy for the last 10. For a long time I thought the source was a combination of her past trauma, combine with general anxiety that would sometimes lead her to panic around the topic. I have always thought this was something that would eventually get worked out, and tried to be as patient as possible. Tried to reinforce the idea that she never needed to do anything she didn't want to, there would never be any negativity towards her saying no or changing her mind. So sex has always been extremely rare. We recently had a conversation where she explained that the desire to have sex or even a lot of touch isn't there. She was unsure when I brought up the term asexual, so I don't want to label her with that necessarily, but what she described sounds a lot like being sex repulsed and even if asexual turns out not to be entirely accurate, I think the reality of what it means for us is going to be very similar. Even certain non sexual physical touch can really stress her out, which is tough because that's my primary love language.
The thing is, while intimacy was always something important to me, I think it was held back by my being trans. I associated wanting more sex or asking her for it with a type of masculinity that I really didn't want to see in myself. The sex itself, while I felt like I wanted it, also never quite seemed to actually give me what I wanted. So I had enough negative feelings around the topic that my desire to approach it also wasn't super high. About 2 years ago I started transitioning, and she's been fantastic and supportive. But recently, as I've started being more comfortable with my body, my identity, a lot of those negative feelings have fallen away and my desire to explore that side of myself for what kind if feels like the first time has gone way up.
Communication around it is so difficult, because the topic itself is so stressful to her. One little mistake in a conversation about it can set off panic. I can't get anywhere close to really getting into my feelings in the topic, because I know if I express too many negative feelings around it she'll feel guilty and have a panic attack. We've done a lot of work in counselling on our communication and can have good productive conversations about most things, but this one topic is untouchable. Intimacy counselling is off the table, and I may actually struggle to get her back to regular couples counselling because I brought this up in a session once.
Now I'm not sure I'll ever get the chance. I may never get to enjoy sex with the body and identity that feels right, in the ways that feel right. I'm reaching out for validation about the changes in my body, hoping she'll find the new things about me as exciting as I do, and there's just no interest. I've given up trying to send her photos the rare time I think I manage to look hot, because her responses just don't feel good. It sets off my ADHD rejection sensitivity like crazy. I've been trying and failing to find a local individual therapist who specializes in this kind of thing, had a couple of consults but noone seems to be the right fit.
I just don't know what to do. I fucking love this woman, so much. I want to be with her forever, and if anything since being on HRT that desire has just intensified. Plus the idea or not being able to be there for her like she was for me during my transition is just completely awful. But everything I find online either suggests separation or poly, and I'm just not interested in poly (well, not the kinds of poly that would apply here). Plus that would require an ability to have serious conversations about sex that we just aren't capable of right now. It feels like there MUST be another solution out there, but I can't find it. And I can feel the strain building, I can tell things aren't sustainable how they are, without even being able to talk about it. How do I move forward? Is acceptance my only other option?

Bedroom blunder: a troon tries to get busy with a guy he picked up at a party only for his paramour to figure out the Barbie he picked up is actually a Ken, promptly tossing him back in the toy box as a result. Credit where it's due for OP that he at least feels guilty for not disclosing, but I can't help but notice that even in the ideal scenario - where a man simply leaves without any fanfare and then tells the tranny not to feel bad about their evening together - he still needs others to tell him how to "feel better" about it. Dude, just be glad he didn't trans panic your ass, maybe?
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I forgot to disclose my genitalia before bringing someone back to my room and now i feel terrible.​

I brought a guy back from a party and we started making out, I thought it was obvious I was trans because of my pride right above my bed and my tall, stocky frame, and in the heat of the moment i thought he knew, or we wouldn’t go that far. Everything was going well until he stuck his hand down my pants and immediately got up. I started profusely apologizing and he said it was okay but i’m not sure. He sent me a text a few minutes later saying i shouldn’t feel bad about it but I still feel awful for forgetting to disclose. I want to know how to make things right or how I can feel better about it.

Defended against the dark arts: a wee witch's enthusiasm towards polyjuice is blistered by terror at the notion that she may wind up looking more like Argus Filch than Cedric Diggory all thanks to JKR's advocacy. Naturally, the cavalry arrives to assure her that she's better off being an "ugly guy" than a "pretty girl," which is pretty funny. How many handmaidens are secretly Stacies that love watching any potential competition kneecap themselves willfully, I wonder?
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scared of being ugly bc of hrt​

yeah, the jk rowling terf "ur gonna ruin ur body" rhetoric got me when I was first questioning my gender lol. I feel bad admitting it, but I'm scared that hrt will make my hair recede and gain weight. I already feel insecure about dumb things about the way I look, some related to gender like my slim shoulders and wide hips, and other random things like my teeth/smile.
Maybe I need to remove being an attractive guy from my transition goal list lmao. Not sure how I should deal with this bc it kinda bums me out but it also feels silly when I explain it

MTF, or Manipulator-to-Female: a tranny keeps trying to push his transition into the faces of his mother and sister and his sister has reached her breaking point; this culminates in an argument where she says OP merely wants to transition as an attack on their mom, which leads OP to threaten suicide if she continued further. This did not stop the sister, and curiously enough, it seems OP lived to tell the tale. Another great example of why you should always call the bluff of suicide baiters! Well played, sister.
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My sister stopped pretending to accept me.​

2yrs back i came out to my sister as a Trans women she। accepted me that time, but whenever i tried to talk to her as sister she became uncomfortable,
Few months, later i came out to my mom, and and following events pushed me and mother to not to ever talk about it again
Sometimes when i did bring it up as i will go through transition and how hard it can be etc she... just dismissed me. I had that feeling that my sister only pretend to accept me to appear righteous, she does that alot, like faking to be emotional or angry, and she sometimes have thrown hurt jokes at me for which i did asked her to stop many times.
Today when we were talking and i just casually brought up transition she just accused me of wanting to transition just for the sake of hurting my mother, we argued and i couldn't bear it , i threatened that i would commit suicide if she continued this conversation any further but she didn't stopped...
I can't just stop crying her words just keep echoing in my head.

Space invade-"her": a TiF feels guilt and shame at the notion that her presence in gay male spaces is unwelcome, deviating from typical gender dipshit form by actually seeming to express some empathy towards the journey homosexuals go through to accept themselves as exclusively same-sex attracted. The comments take on a very 'men ain't shit' vibe that they usually do in spaces dominated by heterosexual women, so I've collected some down below because they made me laugh and sharing is caring!
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Gay dating as a trans man​

Can gay men even find me attractive at all? Whenever I see those "would you date trans men" questions, everyone always says no. Even when I talk about dating in trans spaces, I’m always told I should look for bisexual guys and that frustrates me. I have nothing against bisexuals (I might even be one myself), but it just triggers a lot of dysphoria when people suggest I should try dating people who are also into women. As if I'm just not man enough for gay men. I don’t want to be something in-between..
But I’m slowly starting to think that maybe that’s just my reality and I have to accept it. Gay men are gay for a reason. They go through their own difficult journey of accepting that they’re not into women and then I feel bad and guilty for basically "expecting" them to find a body like mine attractive. But it also hurts a lot to hear and to know that so many men in my own community find my genitals disgusting. I feel so ashamed of my body.
And it always feels very isolating like I’m intruding spaces I don’t belong to.

Spoiler: "i'm 🤏🏻 this close to giving up on cis gay men."

[–] StartOverall2995
I also thought this, but I somehow found myself in a relationship with a fully gay guy. He’s never been with a woman, he’s never had an interest in women. He does not find women attracted. But he loves me and sees me as a man, fully. Even I’ve said to him I can’t understand how he does as i genuinely could not believe a cis gay man would see me that way, but he does. And even though I’m pre-surgery (3.5 years on t), he respects me as a man and has never done anything to suggest otherwise. I’m still in shock about it, but there are some men out there who will positively surprise you.

[–] PenEnvironmental1339
I think the same way as you but I want you to know its based in transphobia. I feel all of your emotions, really I do, and this is how I confront this topic! I hope hope hope this resonates or helps
Firstly, cisgender gay men should be doing the work for us. We go through tremendous amounts of pain pre, during, and post transition (whatever that may look like). Cis gay guys should do the work to unlearn their biases and extend empathy towards us. Ofc many dont, but they have a position of privilege they should utilize in uplifting us. The fact many cis gay guys dont do this is not an indication of an issue with you, but them. Rather than constantly make space for their experiences, they should be making space for ours
Secondly, yeah I get it. Its true many cis gay guys go on a journey of their sexuality that inadvertently renders them against vaginas or "women's bodies". There's a small portion that this is just the case, they can't control their attraction, but the vast majority is transphobia. While all journeys are valid, its not our fault some cis gay men when exploring their identity did not consider the full scope of men and then cemented that ignorance into their identity.
Its transphobic too because while trans men dont have cisgender men's bodies, our bodies are very masculine. Some cis ppl think trans men are Jessica rabbit with a boy haircut, but fail to understand hair changes, body composition changes, breast and vulva changes, etc that make trans men read as men. By ignoring the key parts or masculinization and transition, they erase our stories, histories, and experiences.
Cisgender ppl in general too centre sex around genitals too much. Just as straight people center piv and heteronormativity in their sex, cisgender people centre bodies/genitals and cisnormativity in sex. Just like how gay people can't convince straight people their sex is valid, same happens to trans people. Its not our fault, they're the ones who need to unlearn systematic trans(and gnc)oppression.
Lastly, trans men are men, but before all of that, we are humans. We deserve respect and care. Regardless of gay guys ideas or views, they should always be respectful.
Fwiw, im bi, but I love trans men and view them completely as guys. They are more preferable to cis guys (fr like what do cis guys have on us?) to me and are completely masculine, beautiful, loveable individuals. I understand the drive to be recognized by cis gay men (a real man who likes only men would love me? Means I'm valid- that's how I think sometimes) but there's much love in the trans community.
I write this all to say I hear your pain. I feel it everyday. I was crying abt it not even 15 minutes ago! This is how I logically and emotionally regulate, while holding space for all of our experiences.
(Also, have hope for the future. Maybe cis gay guys now suck, but give it 5 years and it'll be okay? We can hope)

[–] AnotherPerishedSoul
This is a difficult topic because this subreddit has basically just become accusatory to any gay trans men who have issues. Either we're incels or "need to do work" because people here haven't had issues.
In my experience, if you're white, a twink and a bottom (natal genitalia would make it easier. Anal only gets a little tougher), you will have the easiest time. Change any of those and it gets harder. I'd argue being a top will make it most hard, followed by not being white.
I have never had anyone find me attractive. No matches on apps where I don't mention my trans status. Even on hookup apps, I don't get messages except for straight men looking for trans men because they can't get women. No, I'm not feminine. I've been transitioning longer than most here and have been stealth for a long, long time.

[–] MercuryChaos

Gay men are gay for a reason.

They're gay because they're attracted to men. Just like with anyone, some people's sexual orientation is very genital-focused, and some people don't care as much.

I feel bad and guilty for basically "expecting" them to find a body like mine attractive.

Well, you shouldn't assume that every single person in a particular group will find you attractive. But you also shouldn't assume that none of them will. That's not related to being trans, it's just recognizing that there's a lot of diversity within groups.

[–] Alternative-Gear6148​

Yeah and men usually have male bodies. Bodies.are what people are sexually attracted to.​

No but what I mean is a gay guy for example is generally attracted to men so a woman wouldn’t even be in the category of people he might date. Same with me. Sorry i suck at explaining​

[–] MercuryChaos​

I recommend the Contrapoints video "Are Traps Gay?", in which she answers the question of whether it's gay for men to be attracted to trans women (spoiler: no.) It's about trans women, but it's not hard to apply what she's saying to trans men. If you've been on testosterone for a while, you're gonna have masculine secondary sex characteristics, and those tend to be the ones that people use to decide whether you're the gender they're attracted to.​

[–] dmitrichondria
I'm this close to giving up on cis gay men. Tinder is just... Boring AF at this point.Grindr is fucking terrible.
The amount of disrespect and even threats of violence I've received for being a gay trans man are astonishing. I like men, and I am one. Why the fuck am I being treated as lesser than them? I'm not forcing anyone to have sex with me. Or forcing anyone to be attracted to me, and if they don't, I'm not going to deem them transphobic.
Like seriously. If you don't like me, fucking move on.

[–] Alternative-Gear6148​

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I don't know why some gay cis men think that every trans man on earth wants them and will immediately call them tramsphobic if they decline. They have such a weird superiority complex towards us just because they were born with dicks.​

A "manly, muscular, hairy jock" FTM is mad that when she posts to r/FTMporn, the sleazy, sticky scrotum swarm that seeds the sub inevitably descends, writing revolting dirty talk in her inbox that leaves her deeply unhappy. Won't any men who happen to conveniently resemble Rick Moranis in Little Shop of Horrors please come forward to spread their quivering, softened assholes for her powerful strap?
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Vent about r/ftmporn​

It's nothing but breeding and natal parts and natal chests and very very fem bodies getting dozens of comments. Those kinks are fine, being fem is fine, I'm happy you don't have dysphoria to the severity I do, but the proliferation of this all makes people think that is the DEFAULT stuff trans men are into. There are whole separate subreddits for misgendering, why the hell am I made to see it on the default ftm porn subreddit?
For reference, I'm an extremely cis-passing guy. On T for 4 years, have always behaved manly, muscular, hairy, haven't had top surgery yet but it's lined up for 2 years from now. Much love to the ladies, but I am gay with a strong preference for the skinny nerdy types. Again, much love for all body types, but I'd feel dysphoric as fuck being in a relationship with a guy who is significantly bigger than me. Also I just like em like that AYooo
I've done a SHIT ton of mental work over the last 2ish years coping with my body as is, for the sake of getting myself to enjoy sex. It's sorta like body acceptance, but let's be real, there's no amount of ️ love yourself that gets rid of dysphoria. I'm not HAPPY I don't have a dick and I will NEVER like what I have, but I can at least get into a mental space of "it's analogous to dick, an asshole is still an asshole, and I can ignore the slit. I can function just like a cis gay guy. I can take it in the ass, I can get jacked off, I can get blowjobs, I can fuck someone in the ass". I can make some amount of peace for the time being, right?
I made a post yesterday to the tune of "pov ur jock boyfriend is gonna ride the shit outta you" with a picture of my body, my hairy ass muscular body mind you. I was so caught up in the bliss of having forgotten other people don't see my body the way I want to be seen.
One dm from some guy talking about "breeding my holes", I say no, twice.
Different dm from some guy talking about "eating out my pussy".
Different dm where the dude was actually going along with the fantasy... but when I'm doing all this dom shit like saying "I'm slapping you around telling you you're just a pole" and SPECIFYING that this is anal, he keeps combating the fantasy in that way where it's clear he expects me to "relent" at some point and turn into a screechy little sub. Which I don't obviously. Says smth about leaving my "holes gaping" fuck outta here.
I am a MAN with a cock and an ass, that's it. No other hole. When you fuck me, you are fucking a man, one who could simply get up and walk away at any time.
I'm just tired of this shit. I hate that we're assumed to be subby bottoms by default. I hate knowing r/ftmporn is overrun with the chasery types who are only there for the breeding and natal parts types. I know it's not fair to blame the ones who ARE into those kinks, it is the ones assuming we're all into it who are to blame, but all around this whole thing stinks.
Where's the slender switch guys who wanna take my strap and then swap places with me? Just see me and treat me like a cis man ffs

Spoiler: The alleged jock body in question, for those curious.

 

[Sean Andalou]

The bog standard de minimus psychssvice here is “don’t compare yourself to other people, especially people who make you feel lesser”

That is exactly the antithesis of Reddit.

 

[Potatis Salad]

The "T" stands for taxonomy: a straight-with-extra-steps T4T couple has issues when the pooner girlfriend defines her sexuality based on biology and not genderfeels; OP, the tranny half of the equation, claims that he doesn't want to pressure her to redefine herself but then basically writes about how he wants her to redefine herself nonetheless.
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I think that this "relationship" is taking place online. The only "sex" these two have had is on Discord, and therefore the question of why the li'l pooner likes dick is completely hypothetical. Many such cases on Reddit.

You can sense the theoretical nature of the sex:

i asked them, “if i got bottom surgery would it make our relationship’s sex suddenly gay?” and the answer was yes.

No guy getting actual pussy is complaining about it like this:

i am glad that i’m seen as a woman to him but it feels so icky that there is no difference to them whether it’s a trans woman or a cis guy with the penis it’s just, genitals. and i hate being grouped in with men in that sense.

Go into the troon's comments and it's more of the same:

sex is human, and i think sexuality makes a whole lot more sense to view it as human identities, with genitals maybe playing a part within that, vs solely genitals being the determining factor…

"You know when genitals 'don't interact' during sex? You know when you grab a woman's breast and it feels like a bag of sand when you touch it?":

imo the most important sexual organ is the brain, it feels very weird and out of place to label sexuality based on genitals, even if hypothetically they weren’t even used / don’t interact in certain sexual acts.

even if genitals impact sexual attraction, that is completely valid. but tying it into sexuality in and of itself, feels super reductive and hurtful

in the past they’ve said how they would still love me if i got bottom surgery and would still be intimate with me, though i’m not sure how that stands after today.

The rest of his post history, predictably, is about vidya.

A shocking reveal about his "relationship":

we are both autistic which can lead to different perceptions of gender & sexuality.

Now, the troon does make this one apparent allusion to irl sex:

And in turn, our sex life straight, as it is dick-pussy sex.

But I submit that this too is referring to cyb3ring. This level of gender handwringing cannot coexist with actually getting his dick wet.

 

[Muskcarpone]

I also thought this, but I somehow found myself in a relationship with a fully gay guy. He’s never been with a woman

What she's saying is that she hooked up with some guy who is so desperate, he'd even stick his dick into her. I can't tell which of the two is the bigger loser.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

Tumblr dump, because Reddit can’t have all the fun.

Exhibit A: “tranny” is the nigger of woman because even all female casts only have a token tranny

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literally the worst queer tv trope is when there’s an all girl group + one trans character CAFAB. like hmmmm do we not think there is another type of trans person who would fit in a girl group better? who is actually a girl? who is historically excluded from womanhood? you know, who might be a better thematic fit than somebody who explicitly doesn’t identify as a girl? it’s a mystery.

people on this website complain a lot about the “non-binary person being seen as Woman Lite” phenomena but somehow seem unable to see the flip side to that: trans women are not considered women at all. It’s crazy the lengths people will go to consider trans people CAFAB “women” and transfems disgusting freaks that shouldn’t be in the public eye at all.

actually i’m not done. for decades people have pointed out when there are no female characters in a story to the point where it’s now probably more common to have multiple cis female characters in the main cast than not — it’s not perfect but we’re getting there, there’s still a long way to go, but we’re also getting more tv with majority female casts than ever before. but guess who’s still being excluded? trans women. literally almost always.

so actually i misspoke earlier — trans women are absolutely treated as women. we are treated as the women of women. We are the people cis women treat like cis men treat them. we are the class of people treated as a lesser to them, a malformed version of them. And when we ask to be treated as equals, or even just get a fucking token character, scraps, crumbs, from the people who fought hard for their own scraps for years, we are treated as hysterical, self-obsessed harpies. Why can’t trans women just make their own thing? Stop demanding cis women’s stuff be about trans women :/ Ugh you bitches complain about everything why can’t you just enjoy it? It just wouldn’t be realistic if it was a trans woman.

any of this sound familiar?

Exhibit B: it must’ve been so easy being a pooner in WWII because so many men were maimed in combat!

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being a trans guy directly post wwi and wwii was so easy. you could just be like yeah i got my dick blown off in the war and everyone would be like hey that happened to my buddy jim and not even question it. truly next level valor stealing to pass

not sure if yall know this but one of the first trans men to ever get a phalloplasty was a british guy named laurence michael dillon. dillon was a doctor himself (in fact he performed a gender affirming orchiectomy on roberta cowell) who had been taking T and passing as male for years, and he was watching harold gillies, a pioneer of dick surgery for the pandemic of Guys Who Got Their Hogs Rocked By Bombs from wwii, do all these dick reparation surgeries. so he got to wondering hey. if you can reconstruct a dick, can you construct a dick? they got to talking about it and eventually ya boy dillon got the surgery. so shout out to all those british dudes who lost their cock fighting nazis and inadvertently contributed research/techniques to The Transgender Cause ig

Exhibit C: “being friends with transfems is the least harmful drug! Love that girldick!”

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yeah whatever ok so i loooooooove being friends with transfems its like the world's greatest least harmful drug. literally i spent 5 or 6 years of my life knowing for certain i was trans but not having any transfem friends whatsoever and constantly hiding my gender online it's like being suffocated there's a level of basic social connection and understanding with other beings that's deprived of you. but with another trans girl it's like YOU GET IT!!!! YOU GET EVERYTHING!!!! YEAH!! OUR BRAINS LINKED LIKE ETHERNET i can't stop wanting more transfem friends babeyyyyyyy i get high off tgirl

Exhibit D: LGB dropping the T and being TERFs are such dense hypocrites, like anti AI activists that think Disney has a right to its property! How can they hate us so much otherwise?

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Do you think tme queers ever feel weird about constantly siding with terfs. Do you think it bothers any of them when they think about it a little bit. Or are they ok with it on some level. Much much to think about

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they don't know what terf actually means so they don't realize that's what happening even when they start talking like janice raymond

Exhibit E: it’s all the Nazis fault that people know about Jews getting massacred but not that HRT and SRS are older than nuclear bombs (and that we’re also Holocaust victims!)

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I don't think we talk enough about how often Nazi book burnings get mentioned and how few people know what the first one was about.

I saw this picture (or a similar one) [of a book burning] in a book when I was in third grade. Roughly two decades later, I learned that the books being burned were looted from the library at The Institut für Sexualwissenschaft in Berlin, explicitly because the institute was helping people medically transition. You can surprise 100% of cis people by explaining that we've had HRT and gender-affirming surgery longer than nuclear bombs. and that makes me so fucking angry.

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spotlighting these tags [about Hiershfield being targeted for being Jewish whether or not he worked with trannies] because I've gotten yet another instance of this. I saw this picture while learning about how much Nazis hated Jewish people. I did not learn how much they hated trans people. This is not your moment to go "um, actually". shut the fuck up.

Exhibit F: why are we disciplined for being ourselves even in our semi safe spaces like Tumblr?

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I don't think it was always like this. The internet has always been a very bad place to be a trans woman, but also often the only pseudo-safe space. It was possible to carve out little online communities, even in enemy territory. Now, trans women on this site especially are repeatedly harassed, and their blogs are deleted purely because a hate group organised a sufficiently large campaign against them filled with both open nazis and useful idiot TMEs who are "just expressing concern," and then if any of them dare to remake they just do it again, they organise another sexual harassment campaign and it works again. It's always been bad but I don't think it was this bad until very recently. Tumblr staff have not just allowed it to continue like this, but have actively encouraged it to become like this and have promoted it. Now girls get banned just for pointing out another girl was banned. A post is made at 09:00 about a girl who was unfairly banned and the girl who posted it is banned by 13:00. As trans women have become more visible and more vocal and also more aware of our own oppression, its effects have actually worsened. But really, that just means we've instilled fear in the people most responsible for it, and in every useful idiot who passively upholds it (i.e., everyone who isn't an ardent transfeminist)

 

[graywolf88]

Exhibit B: it must’ve been so easy being a pooner in WWII because so many men were maimed in combat!

I hate to be moralfagging on the Farms of all places, but this feels incredibly disrespectful to veterans wounded in combat versus poons and troons who willingly got the chop.

 

[Scientifically Inaccurate]

Exhibit B: it must’ve been so easy being a pooner in WWII because so many men were maimed in combat!

Trans people's lack of body parts they were never meant to have is traumatizing, causing horrific mental pain that can only be soothed either by suicide or all of society constantly coddling their crazy.

Real men losing their natural body parts in the horrific conditions of war is funny haha and should be spoken about in that stupid Tumblr/Reddit casual way of typing.


It's impossible to hate these people enough.

 

[Heal Thy Burgers]

In the context of MtF transsexuals, this takes on another, more literal layer of meaning.

Those damn targeted ads!

 

[healing rain]

Crosspoasting from the JKR thread

Batten down the hatches, girlies!

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Hope they don't lock up this hilarious subreddit.

Tranny begging for r/mtf be locked after JKR swipes at someone having a heckin' panic attack over an icebreaker at work.

I sure hope you guys have reddit burners subbed to r/mtf and its sister communities. We could very well lose out on some of our greatest sources of milk in the future!
I'm actually surprised r/mtf hasn't gone private yet considering everyone farms it for content, but i guess the instinct to groom supersedes the desire to retreat inward.

 

[Syikeblade]

Brazil isn't super nice and kind to tifs

https://www.reddit.com/r/trans/s/d9UlgNR5xL

 

[Dolly Brooks]

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Brazil isn't super nice and kind to tifs

https://www.reddit.com/r/trans/s/d9UlgNR5xL

How is “You have better facial hair/deeper voice than a real man” offensive to her? It’s light ribbing at worst, compliment at best if that’s the look you’re going for.

They expect you to be a failed and suffering pile of shit because that’s usually what trans people are, you guys aren’t sending your best.

 

[Stabby_Pencil]

How is “You have better facial hair/deeper voice than a real man” offensive to her? It’s light ribbing at worst, compliment at best if that’s the look you’re going for.

They expect you to be a failed and suffering pile of shit because that’s usually what trans people are, you guys aren’t sending your best.

I'm starting to believe TIFs don't understand how men work at all. Neither TIMs or TIFs understand the gender they want to be, which is weird because you'd think they would at least try.

 

[Irregardless]

Spoiler: Disgusting

I think this freaks bigger delusion is that she's "muscular".

She has 0 muscle definition and her proportions are that of someone 5'5/5'6 whose just hopped up on TRT but doesn't work out.
Her hips are still as wide as her barely visible lats, her forearms are thin, 0 separation between the shoulders and the arms, traps not visible.
She is not muscular or jock-like, she's just skinny fat.

 

[smug comporon]

Exhibit C: “being friends with transfers is the least harmful drug! Love that girldick!”

Nothing pisses me off more than the fact all troons regress to talking like 10 years olds once they become open about their fetish.

 

[Gondolindrim]

Crosspoasting from the JKR thread


Tranny begging for r/mtf be locked after JKR swipes at someone having a heckin' panic attack over an icebreaker at work.

I sure hope you guys have reddit burners subbed to r/mtf and its sister communities. We could very well lose out on some of our greatest sources of milk in the future!
I'm actually surprised r/mtf hasn't gone private yet considering everyone farms it for content, but i guess the instinct to groom supersedes the desire to retreat inward.

I love that woman

 

[Potato Burrito]

MTF, or Manipulator-to-Female: a tranny keeps trying to push his transition into the faces of his mother and sister and his sister has reached her breaking point; this culminates in an argument where she says OP merely wants to transition as an attack on their mom, which leads OP to threaten suicide if she continued further. This did not stop the sister, and curiously enough, it seems OP lived to tell the tale. Another great example of why you should always call the bluff of suicide baiters! Well played, sister.
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He told on himself in the first paragraph. "2yrs back i came out to my sister as a Trans women she। accepted me that time, but whenever i tried to talk to her as sister she became uncomfortable," What is 'talking as a sister'? Probably being gross and intrusive about boobs or periods.

Some funny replies. The cult activated immediately on this one, lots of telling OP to cut the family off and go find people who will affirm him 100% at all times.

HarderFasterHarder suggests the sister is just jealous. Lmao the shit these people tell themselves.


Yeah, threatening suicide when you don't immediately get exactly what you want is really narcissistic sociopath behavior! Way to call it out. Oh wait you meant OP's sister is a narcissistic sociopath for...what exactly? Not feeding into OP's delusions?

Cult reply with bonus assault recommendation at the bottom:


Yeah, transition out of spite! Turning yourself into a 6-foot balding freak in an ill-fitting dress will really piss her off! They think other people think about them as much as they think about other people.

 

[LateNightMuffin]

remember back in like 2015 I went to my psychologist with an idea that I wanted to become a writer and he slapped it down and was like “be more practical or you won’t be able to afford me”. I don’t know if that was the right advice - I ended up getting into a job where writing skills were pretty important - but I’m always surprised that there’s so many shrinks who can’t smack tranny delusions down like my practitioner did about me going to journalism school. It seems like “I want to become a writer” is more unrealistic than “I want to become a woman”

I'm sorry the psychologist did that to you. That's unforgivable. I wanted to be a writer, and went to a therapist who encouraged me, and it was the best help I ever got in my life. that's fucking malpractice what happened to you, especially for the reason given, that you wouldn't be able to afford him. Fuck that guy. I hope he's no longer practicing. He stomped on your dreams. He should have said try it, and if you don't like it, quit. And like Stephen King always said, try it, and if in 5 or 10 years you haven't paid your electricity bill with a check you got from writing, maybe you're not a writer. But the therapist should have encouraged you to try it, unless you didn't really want to.

 

[rusty shackleford 1]

He told on himself in the first paragraph. "2yrs back i came out to my sister as a Trans women she। accepted me that time, but whenever i tried to talk to her as sister she became uncomfortable," What is 'talking as a sister'? Probably being gross and intrusive about boobs or periods.

Some funny replies. The cult activated immediately on this one, lots of telling OP to cut the family off and go find people who will affirm him 100% at all times.

HarderFasterHarder suggests the sister is just jealous. Lmao the shit these people tell themselves.

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Yeah, threatening suicide when you don't immediately get exactly what you want is really narcissistic sociopath behavior! Way to call it out. Oh wait you meant OP's sister is a narcissistic sociopath for...what exactly? Not feeding into OP's delusions?

Cult reply with bonus assault recommendation at the bottom:

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Yeah, transition out of spite! Turning yourself into a 6-foot balding freak in an ill-fitting dress will really piss her off! They think other people think about them as much as they think about other people.

TRASH and sabotage her femininity with irreversible hormones against her will - the right side of history.

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

I love how the "nasty sex pest man in a bra imagining girl sleepovers as an orgy" trope never dies.

 

[Stabby_Pencil]

What the fuck does 'CAFAB' mean in this context?