Sounds like she's living in the family home; his parents can't care for their failson why?
Make fatty get a job and pay u rent
Should preface that it's not my house. I live with my dad since I am currently disabled. Tard got booted to a relative across the country because I was working, in college, and doing volunteer work at the time and ended up having a psychotic episode (hence the risperdal) from the stress of dealing with him on top of it. The bootening was purely out of concern for him because my mom was worried he'd fall even further behind if I couldn't tard wrangle him. Instead, he was tard wrangled by more militant relatives. He was made to shower, go to school, eat actual food, and get a job. I have never once tard wrangled him to begin with because not only is that not my problem, he's capable of doing it himself. Again, no diagnosis, no autism, no learning or physical disability, no illnesses, he's completely functional. He has seen multiple therapists and a psychiatrist. He is all there. This is out of pure weaponized incompetence and laziness.
He has a laminated gold star member tard card with my mom. Anything bad that happens to him is because someone else let it happen to him. She's convinced he's some secret autism genius because he likes computers and fails in every other aspect of his life. All he does is sit on steam and discord 24/7. Very run-of-the-mill NEET behavior. My dad sees how quickly this went south and has requested he have a job and attends classes again. I can guarantee you he will be doing neither. Ideally he gets yoinked back to the relatives when he doesn't follow through or better yet, gets moved to my mom's since moving him here was her idea. This has been an issue for over a decade and it's not that he doesn't know how to take care of himself, it's that he doesn't want to. I'm basically living with a non-autistic Chris Chan. A diaperless Andy Ditch.
I do have headphones with ANC, I can still hear him through them. He's massive so just him rolling his chair across the floor above me sounds like thunder. Maybe a chair mat would help.
He’s 100% taking advantage of your labor
Definitely. I was trying to be accommodating to his picky eating by not adding as much veg in some dishes but as soon as he found out everything I make is gluten free, he stopped eating it because 'gluten free things are gross'. Unless it's baked goods. Big thunk there. Every time he makes himself food, he gets crumbs, sauce, or rotten raw meat slime all over the stove, oven, counter, appliances, sink, microwave, fridge, utensils, and other cookware. He'll rinse things off and put them back if he doesn't just leave it for me. I've explained celiac disease to him like he's a retard and I suppose he took that as 'she'll have to clean it again anyway' instead of 'I should clean up after myself because that's a normal, responsible thing to do regardless of someone else getting sick'.
Sorry for the PL but it's been months living like this and I feel like I'm going insane from how little anyone is doing about it just because 'he's a boy, boys are gross'. He's a grown man. If it were me behaving like that, I'd be placed in a group home or psych hospital because how the fuck do you think that's a normal way to live and behave? This is not normal behavior for anyone and me being older and female does not mean he's my responsibility. I knew how to cook, clean, and take care of myself by the appropriate age milestones. These are skills you're supposed to expand upon as you age so you're not fermenting at a desk in greasy clothes and eating stale tendies while playing fucking Peggle Nights at 25. He's allowed to make zero contribution besides roaches and smelling like shit while I drag my chronically ill ass around the house to follow him with a canister of lysol wipes. We've surpassed bar-in-hell standards and I will not and cannot risk my health to prove a point he doesn't care to understand. I'm praying on this niggas downfall. Send his ass back to the gulag.