Hila may be ugly but she's the sort of wife that would help you hide a body no questions asked, and that's way more important in a partner.
In all years they've been online Ethan has shown constant disloyalty with thristing over titty streamers and inviting them on his podcast but Hila never has while also taking good care of herself and looking fit as a fiddle despite having 3 kids.
She's also quiet and savvy about keeping herself out of the spotlight and drama and if you see them interact in the podcast she's always trying to prop ethan up and boost his confidence whenever he self deprecates. (Contrast to anus talking about how stupid ians name is and how he smells bad and shits himself)
Hila is better wife material than 99% of ecelebs, and based on the image she puts out at least, a model wife.