Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

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Susanna said:
Oops, missed that. My bad.

Still, if you want a guy, just fake it. If I can pretend at affection, I’m sure you can, too.
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Unfortunately I am bad at lying. I used to be able to fake it before I got hit with the full force of my mental illness but now I'm compelled to not lie. I can lie by omission but I can't outright lie.
A Cat in a Minefield said:
@Ruined by the Rain at that point, why not just go on Tinder and find fuckbuddies that way? I'm serious. Or do you want a "stable" relationship?

@Susanna you are a horrible person.
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I want a stable relationship. I'm tired of males going in and out of my life. I want one that stay
Dawdler said:
I just want to know if you've tried speaking to your BF with honesty about your situation or is this "fake it till you make it" ?
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Edit: I'm not sure if this is for me or Susanna. But confessing you're a psycho who is incapable of love is utter lunacy. It will ruin your relationship even if you didn't do anything to deserve it.
 
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Ruined by the Rain said:
Unfortunately I am bad at lying. I used to be able to fake it before I got hit with the full force of my mental illness but now I'm compelled to not lie. I can lie by omission but I can't outright lie.

I want a stable relationship. I'm tired of males going in and out of my life. I want one that stay
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Both of those are good things, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
 
For some reason I'm imaging you as Joi from Bladerunner. Perfect girlfriend - if you fall for it.
Is incentive you "dance the dance" more a fear of isolation or is it something you like to do ?
 
Dawdler said:
For some reason I'm imaging you as Joi from Bladerunner. Perfect girlfriend - if you fall for it.
Is incentive you "dance the dance" more a fear of isolation or is it something you like to do ?
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I suppose that’s not entirely wrong, but I think Joi did genuinely love K. Yes she’s artificial, but so is he, so…
Mostly I do it because I enjoy his company, I get terribly bored on my own.
 
YHWH's Strongest Soldier said:
You're severely mentally ill and regularly purchase prostitutes.
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It was only a couple times and I haven't hired any in the past few months. I'm a changed man
Farsided said:
You just found a new and terrible idea for a tech startup.
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I'm working on making a life sized male companion doll pattern to share so everyone can have a doll bf to hold to alleviate their loneliness. It might not be warm but it's better than nothing.
 
Mad_Dog said:
It depends how you define "significant personal sacrifice." But it's best to cut off a finger if it means you won't lose an arm.
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Career opportunity loss. Plenty of other shit to do, just hate to close so many fucking doors over this bullshit.

This is essentially resolved. Thank you for your time. I just have to take the L and consider medication
 
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Raistlin Majere said:
I've only gotten more unstable as I age, my specific dysfunctions can't really be helped much by meds and therapy, and haven't been able to keep any one job for any length of time, now I'm practically unhirable and looking at going on disability.
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Sounds like this is not the time to be looking for a gf.

Raistlin Majere said:
>music
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Sounds like your interest in music is fairly niche and not a good way to be meeting women

Raistlin Majere said:
>rock and mineral collecting
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A lot of women into rocks think they have spiritual powers, unfortunately

Raistlin Majere said:
>tabletop rpgs
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A surprising amount of women have interest in this, but are frightened off by the neckbears and troons. Not a good way to meet a woman, but very possible to get a future woman interested in this hobby.

Raistlin Majere said:
>vidya
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Not a great way to meet anyone.

You need to develop a social hobby, preferably something with meetups close to you.

clara red bottoms said:
How to clear depression that's resistant to my normal methods? Already tried fighting, hooking up with strangers, lifting weights more, etc. Kind of at a loss here
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Medication and therapy. Actual clinical depression won't be fixed by physical activity or being a whore.
 
clara red bottoms said:
Career opportunity loss. Plenty of other shit to do, just hate to close so many fucking doors over this bullshit.

This is essentially resolved. Thank you for your time. I just have to take the L and consider medication
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Medication is also its own journey. If you're lucky you will get the right ones on your first try, but even so, they generally need dosage adjustments. Each depression medication is different, you will need to find the ones that fit your type of depression, and with the most tolerable side effects to your system. But when they work, they can really change your life.

Good luck, man.
 
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